The Precocious Porttaster

Hello World, Again...

2008-09-10T15:37:00.000-07:00

I admit...I am delinquent with this blog. Lately, I have had so many things going on.
It seems like I am always moving and involving myself in new ventures :).

We have not stopped our "fun" activities.. it has just been difficult for me to write down my thoughts and actions. Since my last update, we have written some "difficult" emails. Of course, Austin has done all of the writing.

Anyway, there was a couple that we played with a few months ago. They were very nice but we were not sexually compatible. Austin and I discussed this at length and decided that we really had to be honest. Of course I was sensitive...I did not want them to feel rejected. But--at the same time, I knew that we had to be true to ourselves. They are very nice people, our sexual style was just very different. I know that being honest is important in swinging, but it just felt kind of odd.

Also, there is another couple that we had dinner with a few weeks ago. They are very nice and we felt a strong connection with them. He was very sexy...I could see myself having lots of fun with him. But... we have a concern. Austin and I are really conscious about safety. We look for couples who are in long-term committed relationships. Our rationale is that those in long term relationships would be less likely to do things to jeopardize their families. Also, longer termed couples have established themselves as a couple. Thus, we want to minimize the risk of jealousy. This couple has only been together for a few months. He also used to swing as a single male and I wonder about his ability to understand how to swing as a couple.

This seems like a small thing... But, we have had experiences that have helped us develop these guidelines.

Austin had an MFM!! Not only MFM, but a SECRET and elaborately planned MFM. A very sexy man wanted to make his wife's fantasy come true. We had played with them before and felt very comfortable with them. So, last week Austin received a text message that indicated the place of the MFM. He arrived at the hotel and she was already tied and blindfolded. Needless to say, Austin was very happy when he came home!!! Va-va-voom!!! So of course, I am trying to get him to write a personal story for this blog. :)

Wow! A Lot Has Happened!

2008-08-30T15:11:00.000-07:00

I have been out of the loop for quite a while. About three weeks ago, we met a new couple. They were very nice but...we did not click in that way. It was fun meeting a new couple and we did have a great dinner!

Also, we had dinner with Sam and Yancey. It was really fun! We went to this very eclectic diner. Actually, the outward appearance scared me a little but the food and atmosphere was fun! They are such a cute couple and they spent the evening giving each other "goo goo" eyes!

Also, I had lunch with a very sexy guy this week. It was very fun having a vanilla lunch with a non-vanilla person. We were suppose to go to dinner with both of them on tomorrow but they are going to stay in bed all day!! LOL!!

Anyway, things have been moving quite quickly lately.

Almost Forgot...

2008-08-10T08:55:00.001-07:00

Sam, Austin, and I are going to yoga tonight!! Down dog anyone???

Yummy...

2008-08-10T08:33:00.000-07:00

We saw Brooke and Perry this weekend. Yummy, yummy, yummy!! Brooke is just so adorable and we definitely had fun together. Perry is very sensuous and we ended up spending some very good time together(Austin and I played in separate rooms for a while. That was a nice change).

Anyway, Austin and I are private people. When we first started this, we were afraid that our private life would become public. We didn't know how discrete people would be with the "lifestyle." We really appreciate that Brooke and Perry value the need for privacy and discretion.

Anyway, just an aside...the Olympics opening ceremonies were phenomenal!!! Hope that you are enjoying them as much as we are!!

My Star Trek Character...

2008-08-05T19:56:00.001-07:00

This is so not like me!!!

Your results:
You are Deanna Troi

Deanna Troi		85%
Uhura		80%
Will Riker		70%
Jean-Luc Picard		60%
James T. Kirk (Captain)		55%
An Expendable Character (Redshirt)		55%
Leonard McCoy (Bones)		45%
Beverly Crusher		45%
Geordi LaForge		40%
Data		38%
Mr. Scott		35%
Chekov		35%
Spock		29%
Worf		25%
Mr. Sulu		15%

You are a caring and loving individual.
You understand people's emotions and
you are able to comfort and counsel them.

Click here to take the Star Trek Personality Quiz

This is my Yoga Profile...

2008-08-05T19:47:00.000-07:00

Not sure what I think about this...

I'm a Yoga Trend Snob!

A Yoga Trend Snob

You appreciate the finer things in life—and you're willing to pay for
them. You have the best "yoga butt" around, which fills your designer
yoga pants to perfection. You spare no expense on souvenirs that remind you
of your love for yoga. You acknowledge you are a spark of the divine, and you
take care of yourself accordingly.

But your preoccupation with appearances might be hindering your growth. Keep
practicing. A whole new dimension of yoga will reveal itself to you in time,
and you'll realize you don't need to spend money to be fulfilled.

Take the Yoga Journal Yoga Snob Quiz!

Hello World....

2008-08-05T19:04:00.000-07:00

Ok, I just like that statement. ...LOL. Austin and I have been so busy lately. I am still thinking about the couple that we played with on 7/27. It was really hhhhhot and I am hoping that they would like to see us again soon.

We met a new couple this weekend. Very sexy...we actually had "just dinner" with them and it was fine. We have instituted a "no playing on the first date" rule. Um...actually, I guess we were suppose to have that all of the time- we just never followed it!!

Anyway, it feels like our swinging activities are starting to pick up again. Austin has been chatting with a bunch of new couples. Not sure where that will go.

So, I have been doing a lot of yoga lately. It has been so wonderful and cleansing. I can't say why but I feel like I just need this in my life right now. By the way...I am happy to say that we have initiated Sam into the wonderful world of yoga!! I have this feeling that he is going to be hooked as well!!

To Sheryl and Greg--A Swinger's convention?? Hmmm...hadn't considered it but that may be fun!! We will have to look into that :)

Boy and I Tired!!

2008-07-27T17:57:00.000-07:00

Last night we finally connected with Brooke and Perry. We met Brooke and Perry about two years ago. We played with them when Austin and I were"soft swap." Ironically, after we played with them, we became "full swap." I guess you could say that they helped us think about our boundaries. LOL!!

Anyway, we finally connected with them and boy am I tired. LOL!! The sex was really hot. They are both very skilled!! He is such a take charge guy and everyone knows how much I adore being with take charge guys!! She is a cute little firecracker.

At the end, Austin gave me a loving swat on the derriere. LOL! We can't wait to see them again!

Special Thanks To Sam

2008-07-15T20:10:00.000-07:00

Sam fixed my computer and it is fabulous!! A million thanks for your help!! He He!!

Anyway, Austin and I had a fabulous weekend. We haven't been to a hotel in forever. This weekend, we actually had dinner and then retired at an area hotel for dessert! I must say, we are damn lucky to know such awesomely sexy couples!!

So Ready for the Update??

2008-07-08T19:08:00.000-07:00

We had a phenomenal time on Sunday night. First, Layla and Tom were very sensual and sexy (as usual). We chatted for a bit and then worked our way upstairs for some fun with a capital F. He he!! All I can say is that it was so much fun exploring with them.

We have a super fun couple coming to visit...coming to um visit!! Get it??

Pre Play Post

2008-07-06T16:52:00.000-07:00

We are meeting friends in about an hour. This is a couple that we have played with a handful of times before and it has always been spectacular. Austin and I have had some really stressful days dealing with a family tragedy and really need a fun encounter.

Also, we are so excited because next week we will see a really wonderful and sexy couple. MMMM....

Emotional Day

2008-07-05T22:28:00.000-07:00

We have had a very emotional day... a close family member died this week...The funeral was difficult; however, I was truly amazed at the outpouring of support for us. This experience has taught us much about the importance of friends and the value of living life to the fullest.

Interestingly, many swingers attended the funeral and some even had an active role in the service. We are so grateful to our friends for their support during this time.

Hey, It is Beautiful Outside...

2008-06-22T06:56:00.000-07:00

We had vanilla friends over for dinner last night. It was really fun and very interesting. Some background...the wife knows about our extracurricular activities. She can't tell her husband about us (trust me, it's complicated).

Anyway, we were invited to a party on Friday but didn't get the invite until it was too late. It was a theme party...something about heels and skirts. LOL!!

We have a date with a fabulously sweet couple at the beginning of July. I have mentioned them before on the blog. They are very sexy. Wow! Also, we may see two of our friends tonight. They are going to confirm in a few hours.

We have a new project. Pictures, pictures, pictures. We will be decorating the play room with lots of pictures. Of course, this has been a project for the past few months.

A Quest

2008-06-15T17:45:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I feel like I am part of this really incredible subculture...almost like we have some super power. Ok, so now I said it. Does that make me completely insane? Anyway, I guess what I am trying to say is that there is this really rich swinger community that continues to amaze me.

A Few More Pics

2008-06-08T20:57:00.000-07:00

Awesome Weekend...

2008-06-08T20:24:00.000-07:00

Austin and I had a fantastic weekend. We had a threesome with a very beautiful woman. During the experience, I saw Austin's eyes he was so happy. He He!!

We haven't had a threesome in a while and it was very nice to connect in this way. I must say that we look forward to spending more time with this friend. :)

It's Been a Long Time...

2008-05-31T18:32:00.000-07:00

Sorry, sorry, sorry. I haven't written in such a long time. Actually, I have been swamped with crazy stuff-Really crazy stuff. So, ok, I have to make it up to you, right?

Anyway, we have done a few things. We met three new couples. Actually, one was very nice but our desires were very different. The other was very nice as well and I think we may try to see them again. WE really didn't click with the last couple.

Anyway, we had a fabulous time last week. I didn't fall asleep either!!! I think what I enjoyed most was being a part of the group. It was really neat having all of our bodies together. Austin and I can't wait to see each them again. They are truly fabulous!!

Missed a Threesome!!

2008-04-13T14:24:00.000-07:00

We had a great playdate last night. Wow!! Unfortunately, I was awake for only half of it...I am so embarrassed...I snored! OMG I have to recap...

Before our guests arrived, I had a glass of wine. I am really sensitive to alcohol these days so I usually just stick with water or herbal tea. Well tonight, I thought I would have a glass or two.

Austin cooked dinner...he LOVES to cook and is so GOOD at it. Well, our meal was scrumptious, as usual. It was fabulous. After dinner, we journey upstairs and had a terrific time. One of the things that I liked was that we had really fun interactions with each other--All kinds of interactions except MM. Not that I am anti-MM, that's just not our thing. Of course, I fell asleep afterwards. Actually, Austin has to pick me up to take me to bed.

This morning we got up and had some fun of our own. Then, he told me that after I fell asleep, they had a threesome. I was so jealous, he he!! Actually, I think it is really cool that they did that. It was a totally different experience.

Mmmm...Can't wait to see them again!!

This has indeed been an interesting week...

2008-04-09T20:36:00.001-07:00

Chatted with Jude and had some sexy phone chatting...It was very nice...Austin also had a chance to chat with Bridgett. We totally miss the two of them. They are tres delicious!!! They are also genuinely nice people and we so appreciate their friendship!

WE are looking forward to seeing friends this weekend...yummy!!!

What An Interesting Week...

2008-04-06T18:21:00.000-07:00

I have to make time for the little things that I enjoy...playing with my four-legged babies, listening to music, and updating my blog :). This weekend was particularly restful. Friday, we went out for drinks with "the vanillas." I still think that term is funny. While we were out, we ran into a couple that we have been trying to see for a few weeks. They are very sweet and it was quite funny seeing them considering it was a "vanilla" night. What a small world.

Last night we had dinner with "non-vanilla friends" - two couples that we have known for a while. Both are soft swap but we have done a few things **wink wink** LOL!! Next weekend, we are meeting with a fabulously sexy couple. They are absolutely delicious. Austin is cooking dinner and we will all provide dessert!!

Quiet Weekend

2008-03-31T17:47:00.000-07:00

This was such a quiet weekend. I think Austin and I needed to just relax and enjoy ourselves.
So, I am going to take a few minutes to reveiw a few things...

My Favorite Things
1. Pictures of me
2. Nice teeth
3. My family
4. Working Out
5. Deep thinking
6. The Discovery Channel
7. Chocolate
8. Assertive and Sexy men
9. Kind People

Favorite Color (s): pink and orange (the new pink)
Favorite TV Show(s): Bones, America's Next Top Model, and anything on the Discovery or Learning Channels
Favorite Food(s): Avocado and Mango rolls, edamame, oatmeal, chocolate
Favorite Yoga Position: Downward Facing Dog rocks!

Boy are we Tired...But Happy!!

2008-03-23T15:47:00.000-07:00

Austin and I have been really really enjoying our swinging experiences. A few weeks ago, we had a brief "drama" and made a hard but very appropriate decision about how to handle the situation. We had to stop seeing a couple. Swinging is about fun and unfortunately, it became clouded with drama. This was a difficult decision and we truly wish this couple well and hope that they have positive swing experiences.

Anyway, we had a wonderful weekend. First, we had dinner with Sam and Yancey. It's funny, Sam and Yancey are one of the first couples that we met and played with. We hadn't seen them in a few months so it was great to see them and catch up. They are both genuinely nice people. ..Funny, kind, and of course, sexy.

Anyway, we left and went to a house party with friends. The party was kind of a house warming, well, sort of. The house was lovely and our hosts were terrific. The only other full swap couple that was there was absolutely scrumptious!! They are one of the sexiest couples that we know. They were at our Mardi Gras party and he left this watch behind--Remember that post. We also went to a house party at their house...mmmm. Anyway, it was a crazy fun night. Austin and I did a little show for the audience. All I will say is that afterwards, I wiped my face off (or so I thought)- of course I didn't get everything and no one told me otherwise!! Anyway, the evening was so hot that Austin and I had sex as soon as we got home!! Oh, by the way, I almost lost my underwear. We searched forever for it and finally found it!!!

Fabulous Weekend!!

2008-03-16T05:56:00.000-07:00

Austin and I just had a phenomenal play date. Wow!! Double Wow!! I am still thinking about it. Yesterday, I was super busy with a variety of crazy things. (The only thing I couldn't do was get waxed. I never shave and you have to wait a while to get waxed. I was bummed that I couldn't get an appointment).

They called and said that they were going to be a tad late and I was so happy to have a few extra minutes to finish some last minute things. :)

When they arrived, I was still getting dressed. :) I had to make an entrance of course!!

By the way, I don't know if I mentioned this before...they both have these incredible faces. I mean, really attractive...wonderful bone structure and everything. He has an adorable boyish grin and she has a face that I am sure has turned many heads.

We sat down for a wonderful dinner and great conversation. They are wonderful conversationalists :) and the four of us chatted about a variety of topics.

Fast forward...we will be tidying up the playroom today :). It looks like some type of natural disaster occurred. Pillows and such are strewn about--LOL!! I actually fell asleep in there last night...i was so worn out!!! We had a terrific time!!

On another note, we were cleaning up this morning and found a cable. We think it may have fallen out of his pocket last night...We are going to contact them today and figure out how to get it back to him ASAP. :) Austin and I had to laugh...this is the most interesting thing that anyone has left.

By the way, I think the sexiest thing about this couple is that they adore each other. They are absolutely committed to each other and this is apparent in how they interact with each another. They adore each other and swinging is identified as a fun extension of an already great relationship. In other words, they are not swinging because one partner has deficits; rather, they already have a stable relationship. What could be sexier LOL!!!

On another note...Go Uno--The cutest beagle!!

What We are Up To These Days

2008-03-10T18:53:00.000-07:00

This weekend coming up, we have a date with a fabulous couple. They are both really sexy and just delightful. We are super excited about seeing them. One thing we enjoy about them is that they are very laid back and down to earth. They epitomize what is fun about the lifestyle LOL.

Austin and I haven't really had a chance to think about our next party. However, we hope that it will occur within the next few months. We want to build on the momentum from our last party :).

First March Post- An Update

2008-03-03T18:03:00.000-08:00

Whoa! Too much is going on...

First, I have an appointment for my "annual exam." Every year since starting swinging, I have debated telling my Doctor. She is a fabulous doctor but is very conservative and would NOT approve. However, it is all about health and safety. I want to receive every STD test available. But...in order to get that, I feel like I will have to explain some things.

OF course I am annoyed by this...these tests should be part of everyone's routine physical. Anyway, I won't "get up on my soap box about this" because I have too much to write in this post.

On another note...We had a delightful weekend. Friday we went on a date with a new couple. They were fabulous-Goodlooking, funny, and very personable. Austin picked this couple and said that he had a good feeling about them. Man, he was right. I am sure that you will be reading more about them on this blog.

On Another note, we experienced A FIRST: We played on a "school night" LOL. I am very sensitive about sleep so we usually do not play on nights before we have to work. However, we decided that we would rethink this rule.

It was uber delicious. We started with drinks (I think we went through three bottles of wine) and lovely conversation. It was great hearing about how they became interested in swinging and how they met each other. Interestingly, we had similar stories. LOL...then we headed upstairs.

They are both super sexy. I haven't been spanked by a play partner in such a while and he was happy to oblige. Geez...It was very sensual and oh so naughty!!

Wow! They are so fabulous and down to earth. We look forward to spending more time with them.

OUR NEXT PARTY: We are still tossing around some ideas. We need a really hot theme. We will keep you up to date.

The Sleepover

2008-02-16T15:33:00.000-08:00

We had three couples sleep over during our Mardi Gras party last weekend. It was really fun, an "adult" slumberparty. So Austin and I are thinking about our next party and there is a possiblity that we will have an adult sleepover party. Hmm....I definitely have to do more research. So, what are your thoughts? Would you attend an adult sleepover???

Still Recovering...

2008-02-12T09:35:00.000-08:00

I am still recovering from our Mardi Gras party. I can't believe how exhausted I was yesterday. Here are a few additional morsels...

Two people left jewelry behind...hmmm...they must have been really busy to forget such important things.
I have strange cuts on my elbows. Austin thinks they are rugburns LOL!
Someone flushed an antibacterial wipe down our toilet and stopped it up. No worries...not a big deal at all.
A special thank you to an extremely sexy man who did a very delicious samba on Saturday.
Thanks to four very special people that helped us set up and clean up!!

Mardi Gras Party Update!

2008-02-10T15:06:00.000-08:00

**By the way, the above picture is from the New Year's Eve party. It was hot!! This is the human sundae shot!!

Now, back to Mardi Gras...Last night we had our first house party. Wow!! Where do I start??? It was fantastic! I only hope that I can remember all of the tawdry details :).

It started off like any other party. Austin, Blake, and Gina, and I spent hours preparing decorations for the house. Weeks before, Austin had purchased tons of things including, wall decorations, a mardi gras curtain, glass balls, festive plasticware, and beads of course. He even ordered an authentic king cake. FYI...we still don't know who found the baby in the cake!! Who ate the baby??? Did the dingo eat the baby?

The evening began with refreshments and chatting. I was nervous that guests would not have a good time, but everyone seemed pretty relaxed. By 10:00, all of our guests had arrived and Austin and I were ready to kick the party "into the next hemisphere." People began kissing and undressing . I was excited by this and couldn't wait for people to move upstairs so that the real party could get started.

We all had a few more drinks and the party kicked into high gear. Two couples led the way and we filed upstairs (via conga line) to the three play areas.

The play areas allowed people to choose their play environment. The guest bedroom was very traditional and looked like a typical bedroom. The study is a large area that was set up to accomodate larger groups. We had lots of pillows and an air mattress set up. Our play room contained all of the play toys. We had the liberator, restraints, blindfolds, pillows, a fouton, and other acoutrements. We provided, wipes, lube, and condoms in each of the areas.

I had a chance to play with some very sexy people, Wow...can I say AMAZING! I honestly can't remember when I had so many encounters. Actually, I have never had this many encounters at one time. I feel so fortunate!! Although, certain muscles were sore this morning and my jaw was achy.

I also had the chance to walk around and "check in" on all of the action. There were threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. Some couples used our liberator. If you don't know what it is...google liberator to check out this cool "furniture."

The whole house was ablaze with sensuality. Imagine 18 people ready to explore their wild side. Imagine hearing the sounds of others being spanked, rubbed, kissed. Imagine a seemingly endless cascade of moans. I am getting all flustered thinking about it...it was amazing.

I think people had a good time. At least that is what we are saying LOL. But...I think that the guest list made a huge difference. We only invited people that we respected and thought would be good guests. Apparently, we made good choices LOL.

Oh, before I forget, there were some fabulous outfits! Can you say glitter, feathers, rhinestones, and heels.

Dinner and a Movie (Porn that is)

2008-02-03T13:16:00.000-08:00

Austin and I have been busy preparing for our party but...took time out to have a little fun this weekend. On Friday, we had dinner with old friends that we met "when we were newbies." It was really nice seeing them and catching up.

On Saturday, we had a wonderful time with a wonderful couple that is quite new to the lifestyle. Although, while playing with them it was so natural that I had to wonder if they were really newbies LOL! Austin and I are quite exhausted!! Yes, exhausted!

So...back to the party. Austin has been stocking up on lots of cool Mardi Gras paraphernalia. WE have been busy deciding which areas will be "play areas" for our guests. The exciting thing is that many of our guests already know each other....hmmm.

I am still searching for the perfect outfit. I have an idea of what I want...I just don't know where to really find it.

New Adventures

2008-01-27T13:45:00.000-08:00

Many exciting things have happened since my last post. First, Gina and Blake came for a visit and we had a chance to spend some quality time together. The four of us laughed, and laughed, and then laughed more. It was really a fun and sexy time.

Next, we had the pleasure of having our first adventure with a new couple. All I can say is WOW with a capital W. They are an incredibly sensual couple, very much in love, and they both are amazingly hot. Austin and I are still chatting about it with huge SMILES! We are looking forward to many additional fun times with them.

Our party is coming up quickly. We are so elated. I know that many of the couples know each other and will really click! We have lots of decorations and I am searching for a mask to wear.

By the way, I still haven't hooked up my cam. I am such a slacker!!!

More About My Laptop...For Sheryl and Greg

2008-01-23T06:43:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone. Just wanted to say a bit more about my laptop. It is a Dell...hot pink. Yes, Austin married a tween! I didn't want Vista because it is too new so I specially ordered my laptop without it.

What's Up Buttercup?

2008-01-12T15:14:00.000-08:00

Austin and I have been doing a lot of fun vanilla things together. He is super fun to hang out with and we both amuse each other.

We had dinner with a very fun couple. We hope to spend much more time with them.

I just got a new computer and am really looking forward to hooking up my cam. If you remember, I received a cam last year and just forgot to hook it up. Well, my new laptop is super fast so I should be able to have lots of fun with my camera. The one rule is that I will only cam with those that I have played with or know. I think that is a definite necessity...safety must always prevail.

So, am I an exhibitionist? No, actually, I am quite shy. :)

A Wish...

2008-01-01T10:08:00.000-08:00

I really wish Burke and Amanda weren't so busy last night...It would have been so fun to play with the two of them!!!!

New Year's Party

2008-01-01T08:23:00.001-08:00

SHH...Secrets of the Porttasters

We had a terrific time at the party. We met some really nice couples and set up a dinner date with a very sexy and sweet couple that we met at Burke and Amanda's party. She is absolutely gorgeous...really lovely. And he is incredibly passionate and lovely. Their children are so lucky to have those genes!!

The hosts of the party are gorgeous as well and so incredibly sexy. The first time I met him, my clothes just fell off LOL!! I was hoping to play with them last night but they were understandably busy...although she did get to have a little bitty taste of me :).

Anyway, I did something that I have never done before...I was a sundae!! A chocolate sundae!! I was on the floor with whipped cream and strawberries strategically placed on my body. Various people came and had a taste...including Amanda and our gracious host (who thanked me afterwards). There were plenty of onlookers..

By the way, this is the outfit that I wore last night. I cute bra top and a teeny skirt with a thong.

Photo Shoot...our host is a phenomenal photographer and spent part of the evening memorializing the evening. My joke is that Austin and I have ruined all chances of running for public office LOL!

Future Events...Austin and I are planning a party....our first house party. We hope to have a small group (less than 10 couples) and lots of party favors!

Happy Holidays...Guess What We are Up To...

2007-12-29T14:50:00.000-08:00

We got a chance to see Gina and Blake last weekend. It was really nice seeing them again. Next, Austin and I went shopping and found outfits for the New Year's Eve Party. I did a mini photo shoot but I don't want to post the photos because I want the outfit to be a surprise.

Finally, we invited a new couple over for dinner. They are just starting in the lifestyle and we wanted to move slowly with them. They are sweeties and we are hoping to see more of them!!!

Oohh!! Another Party

2007-12-19T02:24:00.000-08:00

Austin and I are going to another party for New Year's Eve. WE are so elated! The couple that invited us is divine and we are excited to see them again. The host is incredibly sexy...the last time I met him, my clothes just fell off. He has this subtle way of making you feel so desired.

Anyway, we checked out the guest list and the funny thing is that we know some of the other couples and we "know" two of the couples. So... it will be an exciting night for sure.

I have to figure out what to wear. Oh the choices!!

Party Greatness...

2007-12-17T19:16:00.000-08:00

We are so excited...we have been corresponding with a few couples that we met at the party and they are really wonderful. We have a few dates set up and are really looking forward to them!!

Also, I finally found out why the couple broke up with us. I was sick and we called to reschedule. We rescheduled and a few days later, we got the "we need to take a break for a while" message. I chatted with the male of the couple and found out that he didn't believe I was sick and wanted to see if we would make contact. In other words, it feels like we were being "tested."

Now that I think about it, I am bothered for a couple of reasons. First in over a year, we have never cancelled on them. Also, our relationship with them has been very rewarding.

I am an adult and really don't like being "tested" unless I am getting a grade. Also, it felt like he wanted more of an emotional connection with me and I clearly do not want an emotional attachment with anyone other than Austin-- I have made that perfectly clear. So...this is one of those weird swinger situations that you hear about I suppose...

Hot Party This Weekend

2007-12-16T18:21:00.001-08:00

Austin and I went to a hot party this weekend at Burke and Amanda's house. We met Burke and Amanda when we first started out. Funny...I have been trying to get them to agree to a threesome with me for a while. LOL

This weekend, I got to play with Burke and a new couple...Drew and Dylan (female). Very tasty I must say. Dylan reminds us of Bridget (of Bridget and Jude fame). She is incredibly sexy with these deep brown eyes. Drew is a sweetie and very attentive!We are having dinner with them in a few weeks.

We also met another really nice couple Barett and Tom. They emailed us today and we are planning to meet with them as well.

Here is the outfit that I wore. Unfortunately, I don't have the cleavage for the front but the back is very sexy. By the way, Austin purchased this outfit for me...surprise surprise!!

Chatted with Jude and Bridgett

2007-11-29T07:48:00.000-08:00

They are doing well. I still remember the last time with Jude...mmmm!!!

Funny Things

2007-11-29T07:35:00.000-08:00

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Food, fun, family, all of the traditional festivities. I took a million pictures. After that, I decided to have them printed the next day so...I went to a very popular store and used their photo kiosk. Now here is the lesson. Make sure that you delete naughty pictures from your memory stick before attempting to use the public photo kiosk. I popped the photo card in and voila- a vast assortment of naughty eye-candy. I must be desensitized because I didn't even notice until people in line behind me started gasping. Oh damn!! Anyway, I am sure that there are people still talking about that incident.

Another funny thing: I love yoga. During one of my classes, a very attractive woman approached me and said, "hey, don't I know you." I looked at her for a minute and said, "I don't think so." Then she mumbled something about "lifestyle" and I instantly knew. Almost two years ago, Austin and I played with her as a single woman. OOPS...but on my behalf...she did look very different.

Update on the couple that broke up with us...we found out why. Apparently, they were upset because we cancelled with them. I was sick and they didn't believe it.

My Favorite Pictures

2007-11-18T09:13:00.000-08:00

I am taking a few minutes to decide which pictures are my favorite. These are definitely some of my favorite.

So many things...So little Time

2007-11-16T13:53:00.000-08:00

I have been "off the radar" for quite some time. I have been so busy and been feeling kind of overwhelmed by my life :).

First, we had our first "swinger drama" and have been dealing with it. Swinging is something fun for us; a nice break in tradition. Our promise has been to avoid jealousy, anger, and any other negative and extreme emotions. So I was caught totally off guard by this incident. Fortunately, the drama wasn't between Austin and I. And...fortunately, we are starting to rebuild our relationship with this couple.

Anyway, the good news. ...First, the bittersweet part, Jude and Bridget are leaving and Jude came and surprised me with a visit. OF course the visit is the great news. He is such an amazing sexual partner. Wow!! Anyway, Austin went to see Bridget on last week and had a wonderful time as well. On his way back from her visit, he stopped and bought a nice gift for me :). So thoughtful.

So, we also were "broken up with" this week. One of our sweetest couples sent an email detailing the event. We have been with them for almost a year so it was a shock; however, we understand. Things change and that is alright. They mentioned that this may be temporary and that would be fine with us :).

We have been pretty low key lately. I think we have finally graduated from "newbies." Gee, how do I feel about that???

Surprise Playdate

2007-10-28T12:12:00.001-07:00

Austin and I had massages and decided to spend a quiet Saturday night at home...however, the universe had other plans for us. Suddenly our phone rang and a couple that we played with once called us and asked if we wanted to hang out.

Austin and I thought about it...we really wanted a quiet evening at home. Especially since we hadn't had much time together. But...we decided to invite them over. I will call them Denise and Franklin.

So what happened? I will leave that up to your imagination!!!!!!!

Its Not About the Sex...But Good Sex Certainly Does Make It More Exciting...

2007-10-25T19:32:00.001-07:00

Just a swinger thought for today.

Porn, Port, and Possibilities...

2007-10-21T17:30:00.000-07:00

We had guests this weekend. We had been trying for a while to connect with Jude and his wife Bridgett. Anyway, they finally had some free time to visit. They are moving so we had to connect with them or else :).

Austin and I have always enjoyed watching porn together. We used to have a "movie night" where we would alternate picking a title. Of course, my picks were always better than Austin's choices. LOL.

We had a very incredible evening. We had dinner and then watched porn together. Actually, this was our first time watching porn with another couple and I must admit, I LOVED it. Actually, it was quite fun critiquing scenes and evaluating positions. Later, we all had great port!! I must say, the sex was very hot and I felt very energized. Later, I cuddled with Austin and that made the event complete.

I am going to miss our friends. They are truly a sexy couple. :)

Exhausted

2007-10-14T15:24:00.000-07:00

We played this weekend with old friends. Actually, it was really nice seeing them.

I have been thinking a lot lately about where I am in my life and what things I want to stay the same and/or change. I think swinging has helped me to start "thinking outside the box." What if we had this thing called "ethical nonmonogamy?" What if I didn't have to live a "standard life" constricted by society's rules? What kind of person would I be? The funny thing is, I have to change the question to reflect my current situation. Simply put, the question becomes...What kind of person am I?

I am finding out so many things about myself. I don't like extended sex sessions- it's about quality not quantity. I love oral...giving and receiving (I had wonderful oral this weekend...thank you thank you). I like being in shape. I love men who smell nice. I love men who are a tad wild and confident. I love being the center of attention. I love boyshorts but look horrible in them. I want a flatter stomach. I hate always wearing my hair up but am too lazy to do anything with it. I think lipgloss is divine. I have given up wearing make-up except for lipgloss and the occasional body shimmer. I am falling in love with the color orange. Morning sex is not my favorite. I would love to wear fake boobs one day and see what it is like to be a "sex kitten." Don't worry, I still love my "almost a mouthful boobs." I love surprising Austin with my selflessness (doesn't occur often but when it does...he is impressed.) I am actually a very private person- very few people truly get to know the true me. In other words, I am cautious and very tentative with friendships. Sometimes, I like having my way...other times I like to be challenged. I like people who can stand up to me when I am pouty...but I also adore those who know when to back down. I love the concept of spirituality but I am an unapologetic agnostic. In other words...I am complex, some would say nuts!

Two couples raise eyebrows in trendy town...

2007-10-07T13:15:00.000-07:00

I have a new term...blog-worthy. It describes something that is so funny and/or sexy that it deserves to be mentioned on my blog. Well, something occured this Friday that was blog worthy.

The scene: a sparsely populated trendy eating spot. A couple arrives holding hands and waits for another couple. The second couple arrives and the two couples embrace. During dinner small kisses occur and both women have their legs squeezed under the table. The server arrives and asks if we want one check or two. We say "two" and she hurries away. A while later, she reappears. She is flustered and begins to apologize, "I think I divided the bill wrong...think I got the couples wrong." Crickets, crickets...

Of course Austin and I thought that this was hysterical and chatted about it all of the way home. Who was with whom??

Pictures

2007-10-03T19:10:00.000-07:00

Just two more pictures.

Play Date

2007-09-30T18:48:00.000-07:00

Austin and I had a busy weekend. We went out of town to see some friends and just returned. We both had a wonderful time. This couple is very private and so I am not revealing too many details but he is an excellent partner. Very confident...I love that. I love it when a man feels sure of himself. I am a pretty confident person so it is equally exciting to play with someone who can "match wits with me." Of course Austin is super confident so I am sure that his play partners love that characteristic about him.

Some people think that men have to "convince" women to swing. Actually, that is definitely not the case with me. We really decided together...although we both had secretly thought about it for a while before the "talk." I think the irony is that most of the time it is the men that have a difficult time imagining their partners with someone else. Swinging isn't for everyone...but it does make life a tad more interesting.

Waxing this week??

2007-09-23T17:31:00.001-07:00

I haven't been waxed in a while...actually, I just haven't had a chance. This may be my spa week :).

End of the Weekend Buzz...

2007-09-23T17:15:00.000-07:00

What a lovely weekend. I got some much needed rest he he...Austin and I watched a very funny porn movie. Since we have been swinging, porn movies have become very comical to us. This one was hysterical.

Next weekend we are going to visit some friends. Yes, those type of friends. They are a very sweet couple. I am really looking forward to seeing them. We only see them about every three or so months. They are truly nice people.

So, I am in the process of taking some more pictures and I need your help. What kind of pictures would you like to see? Let me know and you may see me in your suggested pose!!

Austin and I may miss a fun party. :( We have another event that night and have to be out of town. I am pretty sad...Blake and Amanda always have very fun parties!

Not playing this Weekend...but next

2007-09-21T15:19:00.000-07:00

Austin and I had a slight mix up this week. He arranged a playdate for us and I didn't think we had anything going on this weekend. Well, it turns out that we are not having a playdate. So...we get a free weekend to do some things on our own.

Exhausted...

2007-09-16T17:33:00.000-07:00

I am so tired. I had a really crazy weekend. Amazingly...it didn't involve swinging at all!! On Friday, we had dinner with Sam and Yancey. It was too much fun. They are absolutely adorable. Yancey is so confident and at ease with people and Sam is very introspective and sexy. He has a new facial hair look that I like quite a bit. I really like them a lot and hope that they hang out with us more often.

So what was I doing that made me so exhausted?? I had a test to take. I can't disclose what kind because it may compromise my anonymity. But, I did really well and the results will provide additional options for me.

By the way, ever feel like you are trying to find your way in life? I mean, do you ever wonder about the meaning of your life? That is kind of what I am experiencing. I think taking yoga has really helped me become more centered. This new found centeredness has forced me to really think about my personal happiness and make some much needed changes. Don't worry...swinging is still a favorite past time!!

Can you see my Video??

2007-09-09T11:07:00.001-07:00

Some people have had difficulty...have you?

"I bet this would be great for your blog..."

2007-09-09T10:29:00.000-07:00

Our second orgy...hey, we did decide that 6 people made an orgy, right. And Wow!! To protect the innocent- I will describe the scene without pseudonyms. LOL.

The six of us had a first...I believe it is called a "daisy chain." There were six of us all linked in the debauchery of oral sex. Of course, sexy Jude pointed it out to me while we were entwined.
Ok, I said no names, but you had to guess that he was involved!!

The only thing that would have been better would have been pictures!!!

New Toy...

2007-09-01T15:33:00.000-07:00

Ok, now this video thing is very cool. Watch out for more videos :).

New Blogger Features are cool!

2007-09-01T14:54:00.000-07:00

Blogger has a new feature and this is my first time trying it out. It is...video. So now, you can see me actually move. LOL. I am doing some dance moves.

Yesterday, we went to visit Burke and Amanda. Remember, our vanilla, non-vanilla friends :). Anyway, it was a lot of fun seeing them. They are a really sweet couple and we are lucky to have met them.

Updates Updates!!

2007-08-30T17:31:00.000-07:00

We met a new couple a few months ago and decided to play with them last weekend. We had a fun time. This week, Gina came over and had a chance to play with Austin by himself. I was busy with random stuff and didn't get home until late. I think they wanted me to join them, but I was totally exhausted.

So what does it feel like to come home and find your husband having sex with another woman? Actually, I was so exhausted, I couldn't even enjoy the scene to the fullest LOL!!!

Fun Weekend

2007-08-19T17:33:00.000-07:00

Austin and I went to visit a couple this weekend. We met them about four or five months ago and really enjoy playing with them. Our first meeting was at this Thai restaurant and we really clicked. They are both really sweet people, very fascinating.

This week is going to be kind of hectic. Austin has a lot of business to do this week and will be in and out of town. I have a bunch of work stuff to do and am feeling somewhat exhausted already :).

Fun Sort of Vanilla Party

2007-08-11T19:55:00.000-07:00

Last night we went to Burke and Amanda's for a vanilla party. There were three couples there who were swingers but everyone else was pure vanilla. Oh, did I mention that Blake and Amanda have converted a vanilla couple. LOL. Anyway, we had a wonderful time. Burke and Amanda are incredibly sweet and Austin and I look forward to spending more time with them.

Update...

2007-08-10T14:37:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Burke of Burke and Amanda!

We have a playdate set up with friends from out of town. We will go in a few weeks. Austin and I are pretty busy with non-port stuff for the next few weeks.

Here are more pics of the photoshoot.

New Photoshoot With Gina and Blake

2007-08-05T10:38:00.000-07:00

We have all needed new profile shots Gina, Blake, Austin, and I decided to take some pictures. Here are some of the pictures of Austin and me.

Austin has been working out and looks fabulous...

The Weekend...The Weekend..

2007-08-03T14:11:00.000-07:00

I am so glad that it is the weekend. It has been such a hectic week and I truly need a nice break. Austin asked me if I wanted to play this weekend and I would love to...but I am so tired..

I think I need a weekend to just rest. An aside: I had a weird dream last night. I dreamed that my mother googled my name and found this blog. LOL!!!

I would love to have another threesome with Jude and Bridget. They were out of town and just returned. I am hoping that we can connect really soon.

Oh, I am almost finished with my braces!! Whew!

By the way, thank you to all of you who commented on my pics. Perhaps I will have to take more this week.

By the way, can you believe that I have written this blog for a full year? I can't believe how quickly the time has passed. It is also odd to say that we have been swinging for over a year. :) Thanks so much for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New Pictures...

2007-07-30T17:06:00.000-07:00

I haven't taken any new pictures in a while. So, I decided to play with the camera today. What do you think??

Just a quick reminder...

2007-07-29T15:21:00.001-07:00

Don't forget to sign my guestbook and check out my photo album ;).

My Hot List...

2007-07-29T15:00:00.000-07:00

What's on my radar??

I don't just think about swinging. I have a diverse repertoire of thoughts :).

J.T.'s Love Stoned

Lush Just Opened a New Store

Yoga taught in Sanskrit

Glitter

Good deals on Ebay

Puppies and kittens

The TV Show Bones

Thinking about getting a new laptop

Making an appointment to get waxed

Thinking about getting certified to teach aerobics

Trying to figure out a new design for a tattoo

Becoming...

2007-07-29T08:26:00.000-07:00

I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming?? I definitely don't feel like a "newbie" anymore and I am not quite sure how I feel about that. Are we "living the lifestyle?" Seems like we are always having port activities. And...now we are meeting "newbies" that ask us questions. It is very surreal. This past year has been a whirlwind of emotions and experiences...some good, some great. I can honestly say that Austin and I have grown as a couple. We have learned much about our selves and our relationship. But, I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming???

MMMMM....Martinis

2007-07-29T08:02:00.000-07:00

This was a Martini weekend. On Friday, we met a new couple, Keri and Stan. Ok, let me explain why this was a first for us. We usually chat a few times with couples before we meet. Once upon a time, I did almost all of the chatting. But I became somewhat jaded and decided that I wouldn't chat with anyone anymore. I decided that I would leave that up to Austin. So...I didn't have any contact with Keri and Stan before meeting. Honestly, I glanced at their profile for ten seconds to give Austin the ok.

So, I went into this with an open mind and without expectations. We met for drinks and I had...surprise surprise...a sour apple martini and a pomegranate martini. They were both mediocre. But the company was really nice. We went dancing afterwards and that was much fun. The atmosphere reminded me of a frat party. It was loud and there were a lot of very attractive people drinking and hitting on each other. The atmosphere was very flirty...can I use that as an adjective in this situation? Oh well, I am not one for following rules. Right Austin?? Anyway, Keri and Stan are outgoing and like to have fun.

Then on Saturday, we went to Amanda and Burke's house for a house party. All of the women had on sexy lingerie and the men were dressed a la Hugh Heffner. It was a fabulous time. This was a bonafide orgy. People touching and etc. etc. I can believe how sexy the night was.

We were there for less than an hour when the sex began. It was a living porno. Everyone was naked. And...I did get a chance to play with Amanda and Burke...if only for a few minutes. The surprise of the evening is that we got to meet Lola and Daniel. A few of our friends had mentioned them to us and we knew that they were interested in meeting us. Lola is strikingly beautiful and I knew that Austin totally dug her. Daniel is incredibly sexy and extremely passionate. And...the funny thing is that they live very close to us LOL!!

I really need to buy some new lingerie. Last night, I wore my pink outfit. Take a peek at my photo album to refresh your memory. Anyway, I really want to build my sexy wardrobe.

Remember...

2007-07-25T19:17:00.001-07:00

Check out my photo album and sign my guest book.

Sleep Clinic Update...

2007-07-25T18:37:00.000-07:00

Jude, Bridget, Blake, Gina, Austin and I celebrated a birthday on Saturday. I won't say whose birthday it was :). he he!! Anyway, the group, sans me went on an excursion. I didn't go because I am definitely not the outdoor type. By the way, on Saturday, I had a first. My first threesome with Bridget and Jude. It was really fabulous. Actually, pretty spectacular. Honestly, I think the fact that Bridget is super-bi made it an incredibly erotic experience.

Sleep Update:

I have been pretty exhausted lately. My sleeping has waxed and waned and I have been trying to avoid taking medication. I haven't been to the sleep clinic yet. I have been procrastinating. The funny thing is that I slept with Jude (actually I literally slept with Jude) on Saturday night and he has a theory about why I am not sleeping. He thinks I have difficulty breathing. Ok, Jude, M.D. we will see what the sleep specialist has to say :). LOL!! Anyway, I am hoping that the sleep clinic helps. I will keep you updated.

Did I mention that we are going to a houseparty this weekend? All I can say is that I am going to be all glittered up. I have a million kinds of glitter and I intend on using at least 999,999 of them :). Austin is not a huge fan of glitter...he thinks I use way too much and it gets everywhere.

And now for my sad news...

Also, I have been thinking a lot about our dog that died in December. I can't believe how raw it still feels for me. I was searching through some pictures and there he was....all young and vibrant. I had to fight the tears. I am still grieving. I have been told that if you truly love someone, you never stop grieving....the grief lessens but never totally fades. I am convinced that this must be true.

A Date or two...

2007-07-17T15:25:00.000-07:00

Austin and I had dinner with Sam and Yancey. I have to laugh because we ate outside and Sam and Yancey had an opportunity to see my germ-a-phobia in full effect. There were flies everywhere and I had a tiny melt down. Yancey actually killed one a-la-ninja style. Anyway, I am hoping to see Sam very soon. There is something very sweet, yet absolutely naughty about him that I totally dig. Yancey is my new female hero...she knows why!!

We saw Jude, Bridget, Blake, and Gina this weekend. First, the five of us (sans Jude) went to dinner and then to a show. The show was interesting. Not fabulous, but interesting. Then, we left to go back to Blake and Gina's place for dessert.

We had some lovely wine and such and then the festivities began. Bridget is very bi...which I love because it gives everyone an opportunity to explore sex in a very taboo way. I especially love it when I have multiple persons focused on me :).

Around midnight or so, Jude arrived...he was out of town. And it was very nice to see him. Everyone was nude and he quickly shed his clothing as well. All I can say is that he is damn sexy. He has this way of looking at you so that you know that he wants you.

2007-07-09T14:22:00.000-07:00

Jude and Bridget came over on Friday. We had a wonderful dinner and then had a wonderful time afterwards. I hadn't seen Jude in forever and it felt really exciting being with him. As we were having sex (I was sitting on his lap), I looked down and everything looked so erotic and sexy- I wanted a camera! Jude is so sexy and doesn't even know it.

Bridget is a cutie. Austin had a lot of fun with her. We had a threesome with her a few weeks ago and would love to have a repeat. :)

On another note...I am going to a sleep clinic. My doctor suspects chronic insomnia. So, I will have to keep you informed.

Insomnia...

2007-07-01T21:13:00.000-07:00

I can't sleep. I took a two hour nap today and don't feel the least bit tired. So, I decided to check my messages and write a blog entry.

I was talking with Austin about our swinging. He is ready to meet another couple and I am very lukewarm about it. I guess, I do not want to go through the whole dating "anyone new routine." It is so exhausting!! And...I feel really excited about the couples that we are with now.

So, I will have to update you on our progress soon.

Start of the Week...

2007-07-01T18:39:00.000-07:00

Just thought I would give a brief update.

New Show- America's Got Talent is so funny. Don't hassle with the hoff is classic. Yes, he may be a drunk, but a funny drunk.

I am FAT-I just purchased and used a new body fat analyis instrument that I purchased for Austin. I am so bummed...It said that I am slightly obese!! NO Kidding!! And..it said that Austin is obese. So of course this just feeds into my obession. :). Anyway, a few people have said that the instruments aren't as accurate for those with an athletic build. Hmm...perhaps but still not comforting.

LOVE my yoga class- I am taking a fabulous class...yoga. It is relaxing and tough at the same time.

Still thinking about playing with Sam- Hmm...very tasty!! Yancey totally rocks.

Whew! Worn Out!!

2007-06-29T19:27:00.000-07:00

I just had a delightfully sexy evening with Sam. Very, very nice. It was just incredible. Thanks to Yancey for letting me borrow her sexy dude. By the way, Austin told me what a wonderful time he had with you guys on yesterday :).

So, I am headed to bed...exhausted and worn out.

Updates...

2007-06-28T18:39:00.000-07:00

We have been so busy. We took a brief vacation. During our vacation, we did a photo shoot. Here are a few pictures...Be on the lookout for additional pics later. Austin just got back from playing with Sam and Yancey. He says that he had a fabulous time. Tomorrow, he is headed to see Gina and Blake and Sam is coming over to say hello to me.

Fun Dinner With Sam and Yancey

2007-06-18T17:18:00.000-07:00

We had a nice dinner with Sam and Yancey. It was so wonderful to catch up with them. The food was really good but...I saw a roach crawling on the wall and it really creeped me out. As we speak, I am trying to erase the image from my head. So, instead of that damn bug, I am thinking of images of Sam being very naughty...mmm. And I do mean very very naughty. Yummy.

Weekend Update...yes another update.

2007-06-17T14:20:00.000-07:00

Gina and Blake came over. I must say it is funny to type the word "came." There was much ass grabbing and moaning to be had. The funny thing is that I wanted to take pictures but didn't have time to grab my camera. Gina mentioned that they had their camera as well. Amazingly, pictures did not get taken.

We are having dinner with Sam and Yancey tonight. Austin just set that up a few minutes ago. We haven't seen them in a while and it will be really fun to catch up with them.

Also, there is a new couple that we have been chatting with for a while. They are both super cute and he is hysterical. The four of us have decided to take things slowly for a number of reasons. No need to rush anything of course. I will call them Jack and Barrett. Jack in honor of one of my favorite characters, Jack Sparrow. You Johnny Depp fans will understand this one I am sure. Barrett in honor of my undergraduate years. Anyway, I am hoping that we get a chance to meet them soon...

Finally, I have to say that the time on blogger is still off. It says 4:33 but it is really 5:33. Also, I have to figure out what I will wear for dinner. My hair is still wet (I don't usually blow dry it) and it is all over my head.

By the way, Congrats to Jude and Bridget for their recent marriage. They are such a nice couple and deserve much happiness.

On a tangent...and then I am really going. We have met some of the nicest couples through swinging. I think Austin and I both agree that we have become very stringent in our screening process. Of course I still have my fears, but getting to know such really nice couples has helped a lot.

Special Note To Yancey

2007-06-17T14:19:00.001-07:00

Hmmm...Why don't you bring Sam over and he can play with my yoga toes!!

New Obsessions

2007-06-13T18:29:00.000-07:00

The iPhone...It looks like it totally rocks.
Orange toenail polish...orange is the new pink!
Zumba...what a fabulous aerobic time!
Cute hair clips with lots of sparkles
Yoga...Yoga...Yoga
Bones...the show...smart and sexy scientist...i envy her!!

Yoga Toes Explained...

2007-06-13T18:25:00.000-07:00

Sounds like you want to know the secret about yoga toes. They gently stretch your toes and place your feet in the correct position. They are very relaxing. As an ex-dancer, I have lots of foot pain and such. These devices are so amazing. I swear I am addicted. I am going to purchase another pair so I can have one at work and one at home.

More Info on Yoga Toes...

2007-06-12T14:09:00.000-07:00

Ok, I am not into shameless plugs but...I am absolutely addicted to these. My feet actually feel different after using these. I am a true fan!! http://www.yogapro.com/ts/toestretcher.html

Funny Cold Sore Story

2007-06-12T13:42:00.000-07:00

I truly am a germ-a-phobe. I accept that. So, the fact that we are swingers is hysterical!! Anyway, I have never disclosed this story to anyone. I am hoping that certain parties don't see this.

Austin and I met several times with a nice couple. The last time...the operative word is "last" that we met, he arrived at our house bearing gifts--a huge cold sore on his upper lip. OF course I looked at him and said...what is that on your lip? I guess it was my way of saying...I am paranoid about germs and cold sores are very contagious...please leave.

Now, before you make comments that everyone has been exposed to herpes simplex 1...remember that it can be transferred to the nether regions. So...you can have herpes simplex 1 on your genitals and vice versa with simplex 2. By the way, I haven't had a cold sore since I was about three years old. I am not superstitious but I feel like I should knock on wood or something like that.

Ok...I thought it was really weird to go on a swing date with a cold sore. Who would do that? I think I would have just cancelled. I mean...over 90% of the population gets them ---but you want your swing partners to see you in the best light.

So, what happened?? Well, he nervously told me that he gets them when he gets stressed and we had dinner and that was that....

My Latest Obsession

2007-06-11T19:45:00.000-07:00

Yoga Toes...They are these medical grade plastic toe stretchers. They are incredible...you must get a pair.

STDs Part Deux

2007-06-11T19:26:00.000-07:00

I remember in college I found out that one of my sorority sisters had genital warts. I remember everyone thinking she was very slutty. The rumor was that she caught warts from a one night stand with a truck driver. That rumor just enhanced the image of the "sleazy, sex starved coed who was risky and deserved her "scarlet gw."

Today, I realize how vulnerable we all are. We have to make good choices regarding our activities and our partners. I hope that others realize this as well.

Weekend Update

2007-06-11T18:31:00.000-07:00

Bridget came over on Friday to hang out with Austin and me. She is an absolutely beautiful woman. I think I mentioned that she looks like Andie McDowell. We all went out for dinner...Thai of course. After dinner we had a drink and then the port began. The three of us had a fabulous time. The next morning, my mom showed up at 7:00 to pick me up for a roadtrip.

The morning reminded me of being a teenager. The three of us got up to search for "swinger residue." Fortunately, my mother did not ask any questions regarding the "pretty brunette" at our house at 7 in the morning. LOL!!

I left to go on the roadtrip with my mom and Austin went to visit Gina and Blake...Bridget was there as well. Austin reported that he had a wonderful time.

I am really looking forward to seeing Gina and Blake soon. I am also looking forward to seeing Sam. He sent a very cute email and I am definitely craving my Sam time. I haven't seen him or Yancey for a while and I miss them!!

STDs

2007-06-07T17:05:00.000-07:00

A friend and I were chatting about STDs. Apparently, there is a resurgence of certain STDs (or should I say STIs- sexually transmitted infections). Apparently, it is young adults that are causing the resurgence. Young adults that don't remember what it was like to actually fear things like HIV.

I have tried to locate reliable studies that determine the prevalence of STDs in swingers. Unfortunately, I haven't located anything that is empirically-valid. I truly wonder how we rate. My thought is that being in committed relationships may make swingers a little more cautious. However, I don't want to group all swingers together. Some are really reckless.

Another issue is disclosure. My friend watched a show about STDs where people were asked to anonymously report if they had ever knowingly had risky sex while they were infected with a STD. There were numerous calls. Most disclosed about how they were angry that they got "burned" and they didn't care if they passed it on. This is very scary to me. It seems that anger motivates the spreading of illnesses...some of which are not treatable.

All Alone

2007-06-02T13:22:00.000-07:00

I am all alone this weekend. Austin is away at a very grueling athletic event. I am so proud of him. I am a tad bit lonely. Of course, I could call someone to come over but I am trying to take a personal break from swinging for a while. The funny thing is that if someone asked me to play I probably would want to :).

So what does this personal break mean? Well, I just find us doing so many things that I need a short break...in other words...I need a few weekends to myself. Don't for a minute think that I am not enjoying swinging...It is just that I have a bunch of things that I would like to spend some time on right now.

So, this weekend, I have been working on a couple of reports for work and watching the History Channel. They have a cool True Crime series that is quite fascinating.

What is on my IPOD?
Girlfriend- Avril Lavinge
Give it to Me- Nelly Frutato, Timbaland, and J. Timbers (my nickname for Justin Timberlake)
Glory Bound- Martin Sexton
Beautiful Liar- Beyonce and Shakira
Sweet Escape- Gwen Steffani

Oh...I almost forgot...I am almost done with braces!! I had some brackets put on my teeth to help them move. It is part of the refinement process. I am still getting used to looking like Frankenstein. Actually, I don't know how blow jobs (is this one word or two??) are going to be with them. I may have to refrain!

Lovely Weekend...

2007-05-27T16:00:00.000-07:00

We just returned from visiting friends. We had a really nice time. I don't know if I have mentioned this before, but they have the cleanest and most organized house that I have ever seen. It is amazing.

They are very nice people...witty and sexy. They live a few hours away so we don't see them often. They have been swinging for over four years and have a lot of interesting stories. We always seem to have really stimulating conversations.

We ended up spending the night and leaving this morning. One thing I really love is that they are very health conscious; we had a wonderful and healthy breakfast.

Have you viewed my photo album recently?

2007-05-26T09:19:00.000-07:00

Have you viewed my photo album recently? Take a peek and let me know what you think about the pictures ;0.

Back at Blogging

2007-05-26T08:40:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone...

I was just looking at the dates. I can't believe that I haven't written in at least a week. I am going back through my head trying to remember the events of the last week.

Well, Gina and Blake are on vacation. Jude just returned from a trip with his partner. Sam and Yancey are busy as well. I text messaged Sam and he sent a cute text message back. he he!!

Tonight we are going up to see friends. We see them perhaps every few months. It is a nice arrangement.

Amazing things going on right now...
I haven't been waxed in two months and I am still relatively smooth. It is amazing.
My insomnia is getting better...finally.
American Idol is finally over...Blake versus Jordin? What the hell kind of match up was that???
I forgot that Monday is a holiday...
I have started doing crafts again
I had the best gelato last night
My ipod rocks

Oh, by the way....

2007-05-21T17:44:00.000-07:00

The jeans in the previous post are my new favorites. I have such a difficult time finding clothes that fit. I love the fact that these jeans are cropped and super low. I LOVE super low clothing. I think these jeans are so much fun!!

Busy With Life

2007-05-21T17:00:00.000-07:00

It just occurred to me that I haven't written in over a week. We have been so busy with life. I was offered a new job but decided to decline. That was a really tough decision for me...however, a move just did not feel right at this moment. Also, I have had chronic insomnia and this weekend was the first weekend that I was actually able to sleep.

Blake and Gina came over on Friday and we had a wonderful time. I think I drank way too much wine...it doesn't take much. I am not a drinker at all so when I do partake, it impacts me very quickly.

We are headed up north this weekend to play with friends that we met a few months ago. They are very sensitive about pictures so don't expect any on this site LOL! I have not mentioned them on this blog out of respect for their privacy. They have been swinging for about 5 years and are very discrete (Austin and I really like that).

I was talking to Gina about how we both have become "more relaxed" about people who know about our lifestyle. To update you...once upon a time, we were terrified of others finding out. I am still concerned, but not as paranoid as I was before. Right now, there are only three people that we have told. My cousin, Austin's sister, and Austin's friend (or should I sayEx-friend).

I am babbling right now...I guess I still need to catch up on my sleep.

Busy Weekend- First MFM without Austin

2007-05-13T15:34:00.000-07:00

Ever do something that feels so surreal that you just can't believe you are doing it?? He he!! I had my first MFM without Austin. Gina went to visit Austin this weekend and I went to visit Blake and "sexy mystery man." I say "sexy mystery man" because I gave him an alias a while ago and can't remember it. Ha!! I knew that it was only a matter of time before that happened. But anyway, I had a fabulous time and I hope they know just what an incredible time I had...I wanted to take pictures but alas...we were busy! Then "sexy mystery man" cooked breakfast mmm!!!

So, Blake, do I really taste like honey??

Meet and Greet

2007-05-10T18:22:00.000-07:00

We went to a meet and greet yesterday. It was at a local bar that I hadn't been to in about 10 years. It was pretty uneventful. There were about six couples...but it was still early.

Upcoming Birthdays

2007-05-07T16:48:00.000-07:00

Austin and I were born within two months of each other. Of course he was born first so he thinks he is so much wiser than me. Ha- is all that I can say. Anyway, we are both about to experience a birthday. I decided to spend a few seconds thinking about what it means to grow older as a swinger.

I never really thought about age (until I realized I was too old for America's Next Top Model). It's odd, I don't feel like I am going to be 35. Actually, I feel a lot younger and sexier. I think swinging has a lot to do with this. There is something quite nice about having fabulous sex with multiple partners.

Anyway, I have noticed a few things about aging; some good and some not so good. Here's my non-exhaustive list.

Being called ma'am (how the hell do you spell that?)- I have noticed that more people call me this lately.
I have started looking into anti-aging serums- yes, I am quite vain; I embrace my vanity.
During my last annual visit, I had my oral contraceptives changed..."these work better for women of your age" Damn it...are my ovaries feeling the age?
I don't have any grey hairs on my head...instead, they prefer to congregate in the "nether region" which is good but I bet dyeing your head feels better than waxing your kitty.
I seem to care less about what others think...well this isn't all true- I still want to be told frequently how fabulous I am (just kidding)
People are less surprised by my academic achievements. I am a big geek and people are ususally surprised by my geeky acomplishments.
It takes freakin' forever to burn off calories. Need I say more? I have finally come to the realization that I will never have the flat stomach I desire.

I am sure that there are millions of other things :).

Hey There!!

2007-05-06T14:43:00.000-07:00

I am recovering from a super busy week. This week was exceptionally difficult- It is always difficult when you are seen as an "expert." Sometimes I wonder how I do not go insane from my job; well, perhaps I am already and do not realize it :).

We had dinner with Sam and Yancey this week. MMMM! Dinner was lovely except that at the end of dinner, I saw a roach crawling on the wall. It definitely was a mood breaker. I am such a germ-a-phobe and I expect to have at least one nightmare about this.

A few days after dinner, Austin had an MFM with Sam and Yancey. Of course I bet it was hot and sexy. I can only imagine some of the things that Austin and Sam did to Yancey. The thought is really hot and of course my body is responding at this moment wink wink. I can't wait for Sam and Austin to reciprocate.

Anyway, at this moment, I am feeling a little sick. My nose is running and my eyes are red and itchy. I am convinced that I am getting a cold or having a severe allergic reaction. I vote for the allergic reaction. This could also be exacerbated by my insonmina. I have always had difficulty remaining asleep...as I get older, it seems to get worse. So...I have bad allergies and I can't sleep. Jealous??

Anyway, I am hoping to see Sam and Austin this week. He he!! I am also hoping to do a photoshoot with Austin this week.

Ohh! Almost Forgot...

2007-04-30T16:31:00.000-07:00

Dessert was wonderful. I took a Bavarian cake (similar to angel food cake) and covered it with fresh strawberries and whipped creme. Thank you to a special reader who gave me the idea. It was quite yummy :).

OUR ORGY AT THE CABIN?

2007-04-29T15:07:00.000-07:00

We had a wonderful time at the cabin. It was absolutely beautiful-rolling topography, abundant wildlife, lots of sex :). Austin said that he looked up and there were three gorgeous hotties dressed in sexy nighties...he was so "googly-eyed" and wanted to know if we had planned it. No, we didn't- we all just independently decided to bring our wares. Our friends are fantastic people...and playmates as well!

I wanted to take some pics but to be quite honest, I was much too busy being naughty!! So, a picture of the cabin will have to suffice.

There is a question mark in this blog entry because there is some debate as to whether a five person tryst is a true orgy. Since the dawn of time, philosophers have debated and tried to quantify the threshold for an "orgy." Wars have been fought and many have lost reputations over this. So...what constitues a true orgy. Personally, I believe that the threshold is anything over four. However, it is important to mention that participants must not "pair up." Instead, they must be open to activities with all participants. In our case, the men were the only ones that did not actively play with each other. Ok, double standard but we won't discuss that now.