Play Date

Austin and I had a busy weekend. We went out of town to see some friends and just returned. We both had a wonderful time. This couple is very private and so I am not revealing too many details but he is an excellent partner. Very confident...I love that. I love it when a man feels sure of himself. I am a pretty confident person so it is equally exciting to play with someone who can "match wits with me." Of course Austin is super confident so I am sure that his play partners love that characteristic about him.

Some people think that men have to "convince" women to swing. Actually, that is definitely not the case with me. We really decided together...although we both had secretly thought about it for a while before the "talk." I think the irony is that most of the time it is the men that have a difficult time imagining their partners with someone else. Swinging isn't for everyone...but it does make life a tad more interesting.

Waxing this week??

I haven't been waxed in a while...actually, I just haven't had a chance. This may be my spa week :).

End of the Weekend Buzz...

What a lovely weekend. I got some much needed rest he he...Austin and I watched a very funny porn movie. Since we have been swinging, porn movies have become very comical to us. This one was hysterical.

Next weekend we are going to visit some friends. Yes, those type of friends. They are a very sweet couple. I am really looking forward to seeing them. We only see them about every three or so months. They are truly nice people.

So, I am in the process of taking some more pictures and I need your help. What kind of pictures would you like to see? Let me know and you may see me in your suggested pose!!

Austin and I may miss a fun party. :( We have another event that night and have to be out of town. I am pretty sad...Blake and Amanda always have very fun parties!

Not playing this Weekend...but next

Austin and I had a slight mix up this week. He arranged a playdate for us and I didn't think we had anything going on this weekend. Well, it turns out that we are not having a playdate. So...we get a free weekend to do some things on our own.

Exhausted...

I am so tired. I had a really crazy weekend. Amazingly...it didn't involve swinging at all!! On Friday, we had dinner with Sam and Yancey. It was too much fun. They are absolutely adorable. Yancey is so confident and at ease with people and Sam is very introspective and sexy. He has a new facial hair look that I like quite a bit. I really like them a lot and hope that they hang out with us more often.

So what was I doing that made me so exhausted?? I had a test to take. I can't disclose what kind because it may compromise my anonymity. But, I did really well and the results will provide additional options for me.

By the way, ever feel like you are trying to find your way in life? I mean, do you ever wonder about the meaning of your life? That is kind of what I am experiencing. I think taking yoga has really helped me become more centered. This new found centeredness has forced me to really think about my personal happiness and make some much needed changes. Don't worry...swinging is still a favorite past time!!

Can you see my Video??

Some people have had difficulty...have you?

"I bet this would be great for your blog..."

Our second orgy...hey, we did decide that 6 people made an orgy, right. And Wow!! To protect the innocent- I will describe the scene without pseudonyms. LOL.

The six of us had a first...I believe it is called a "daisy chain." There were six of us all linked in the debauchery of oral sex. Of course, sexy Jude pointed it out to me while we were entwined.
Ok, I said no names, but you had to guess that he was involved!!

The only thing that would have been better would have been pictures!!!

New Toy...

Ok, now this video thing is very cool. Watch out for more videos :).

New Blogger Features are cool!

Blogger has a new feature and this is my first time trying it out. It is...video. So now, you can see me actually move. LOL. I am doing some dance moves.

Yesterday, we went to visit Burke and Amanda. Remember, our vanilla, non-vanilla friends :). Anyway, it was a lot of fun seeing them. They are a really sweet couple and we are lucky to have met them.

Updates Updates!!

We met a new couple a few months ago and decided to play with them last weekend. We had a fun time. This week, Gina came over and had a chance to play with Austin by himself. I was busy with random stuff and didn't get home until late. I think they wanted me to join them, but I was totally exhausted.

So what does it feel like to come home and find your husband having sex with another woman? Actually, I was so exhausted, I couldn't even enjoy the scene to the fullest LOL!!!

Fun Weekend

Austin and I went to visit a couple this weekend. We met them about four or five months ago and really enjoy playing with them. Our first meeting was at this Thai restaurant and we really clicked. They are both really sweet people, very fascinating.

This week is going to be kind of hectic. Austin has a lot of business to do this week and will be in and out of town. I have a bunch of work stuff to do and am feeling somewhat exhausted already :).

Fun Sort of Vanilla Party

Last night we went to Burke and Amanda's for a vanilla party. There were three couples there who were swingers but everyone else was pure vanilla. Oh, did I mention that Blake and Amanda have converted a vanilla couple. LOL. Anyway, we had a wonderful time. Burke and Amanda are incredibly sweet and Austin and I look forward to spending more time with them.

Update...

Happy Birthday Burke of Burke and Amanda!

We have a playdate set up with friends from out of town. We will go in a few weeks. Austin and I are pretty busy with non-port stuff for the next few weeks.

Here are more pics of the photoshoot.

New Photoshoot With Gina and Blake

We have all needed new profile shots Gina, Blake, Austin, and I decided to take some pictures. Here are some of the pictures of Austin and me.

Austin has been working out and looks fabulous...

The Weekend...The Weekend..

I am so glad that it is the weekend. It has been such a hectic week and I truly need a nice break. Austin asked me if I wanted to play this weekend and I would love to...but I am so tired..

I think I need a weekend to just rest. An aside: I had a weird dream last night. I dreamed that my mother googled my name and found this blog. LOL!!!

I would love to have another threesome with Jude and Bridget. They were out of town and just returned. I am hoping that we can connect really soon.

Oh, I am almost finished with my braces!! Whew!

By the way, thank you to all of you who commented on my pics. Perhaps I will have to take more this week.

By the way, can you believe that I have written this blog for a full year? I can't believe how quickly the time has passed. It is also odd to say that we have been swinging for over a year. :) Thanks so much for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New Pictures...

I haven't taken any new pictures in a while. So, I decided to play with the camera today. What do you think??

Just a quick reminder...

Don't forget to sign my guestbook and check out my photo album ;).

My Hot List...

What's on my radar??

I don't just think about swinging. I have a diverse repertoire of thoughts :).

1. J.T.'s Love Stoned



2. Lush Just Opened a New Store



3. Yoga taught in Sanskrit



4. Glitter



5. Good deals on Ebay



6. Puppies and kittens



7. The TV Show Bones



8. Thinking about getting a new laptop



9. Making an appointment to get waxed



10. Thinking about getting certified to teach aerobics



11. Trying to figure out a new design for a tattoo

Becoming...

I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming?? I definitely don't feel like a "newbie" anymore and I am not quite sure how I feel about that. Are we "living the lifestyle?" Seems like we are always having port activities. And...now we are meeting "newbies" that ask us questions. It is very surreal. This past year has been a whirlwind of emotions and experiences...some good, some great. I can honestly say that Austin and I have grown as a couple. We have learned much about our selves and our relationship. But, I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming???

MMMMM....Martinis

This was a Martini weekend. On Friday, we met a new couple, Keri and Stan. Ok, let me explain why this was a first for us. We usually chat a few times with couples before we meet. Once upon a time, I did almost all of the chatting. But I became somewhat jaded and decided that I wouldn't chat with anyone anymore. I decided that I would leave that up to Austin. So...I didn't have any contact with Keri and Stan before meeting. Honestly, I glanced at their profile for ten seconds to give Austin the ok.

So, I went into this with an open mind and without expectations. We met for drinks and I had...surprise surprise...a sour apple martini and a pomegranate martini. They were both mediocre. But the company was really nice. We went dancing afterwards and that was much fun. The atmosphere reminded me of a frat party. It was loud and there were a lot of very attractive people drinking and hitting on each other. The atmosphere was very flirty...can I use that as an adjective in this situation? Oh well, I am not one for following rules. Right Austin?? Anyway, Keri and Stan are outgoing and like to have fun.

Then on Saturday, we went to Amanda and Burke's house for a house party. All of the women had on sexy lingerie and the men were dressed a la Hugh Heffner. It was a fabulous time. This was a bonafide orgy. People touching and etc. etc. I can believe how sexy the night was.

We were there for less than an hour when the sex began. It was a living porno. Everyone was naked. And...I did get a chance to play with Amanda and Burke...if only for a few minutes. The surprise of the evening is that we got to meet Lola and Daniel. A few of our friends had mentioned them to us and we knew that they were interested in meeting us. Lola is strikingly beautiful and I knew that Austin totally dug her. Daniel is incredibly sexy and extremely passionate. And...the funny thing is that they live very close to us LOL!!

I really need to buy some new lingerie. Last night, I wore my pink outfit. Take a peek at my photo album to refresh your memory. Anyway, I really want to build my sexy wardrobe.