Spanking Boundaries

Austin and I went to the party last night and had an interesting time. We have come to the conclusion that meeting a couple for the first time at a party is not a good idea. There are too many distractions and such. Also, we are learning more about our boundaries and about activities that are comfortable or uncomfortable for us and how we react to rejection or perceived rejection. We are also learning that we have different opinions about certain alternative behaviors. For example, I love to be spanked. It has a lot to do with my desire to feel "naughty;" however, I discovered that Austin is only comfortable with certain people spanking me or even talking about spanking or tying up. This was a shock considering how many times I have been spanked by Sam, Blake, and Gina with great results. But, I now know that spanking is only reserved for our special friends.