And a good time was had by all...

I have always wanted to be tied up during sex. One time, Austin tied me up and it was wonderful...however, I have tiny arms and could easily get out of the restraints. Last night during our MFM, Austin produced some new restraints and said, "you won't be getting out of these." He was right. In fact, we had to have an emergency pair of scissors nearby.

Update

Tomorrow we are having our first MFM with Blake. So far, our only MFM adventures have been with sexy Sam. So...it will be really wonderful to say that I am finally not an MFM "newbie" anymore. Blake and Austin had an MFM with Gina and I heard tantalizing stories of restraints and blindfolds for weeks afterwards. Hmm...wonder if I will have any stories...Which reminds me...I think I am overdue for an adventure with Sam.

Jealous?? You can join in as well. Tomorrow at dinner time, think about me with my Sexy partners. You may even feel a little of my ecstacy!!

This weekend, we are having another 6-way. We have rented a cabin and expect to have a wonderful time hanging out. Blake and Gina will be there along with another couple that we have both been sharing port with. They have asked me to prepare dessert on one of the days...hmmm...that will definitely be an adventure. Any ideas on what I should serve?

Hard To Find Cute Jeans

IT is hard to find good fitting jeans for my body shape and size. I like these slouchy low rise jeans. They are by Buckle.

How Knowledgeable Are You On Sexual Euphemisms?

I bought a book a few weeks ago, The Contemporary Dictionary of Sexual Euphemisms by Jordan Tate. Many of these phrases are derived from racial or sexual stereotypes. A few are derived from politics. LOL...It is interesting to read the origins of phrases.

So...How many eupehemisms do you recognize?

• sweater puppies
• taking the skin boat to tuna town
• shooting putty at the moon
• Blind Houdini
• Dirty Sanchez
• pearl necklace
• box lunch at the 'Y'
• paddle the pickle
• paint the pickle
• Reaganomics
• postman
• Little Dutch Boy
• Little Red Riding Hood
• Challenger
• Beverly Hillbilly
• Rodeo
• George Walker

My Second Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my second guest blogger. We met Abby and Sean last year. They are a very sweet and sexy couple. I am happy that Abby decided to share some of her adventures with us. Enjoy...

I saw him in person for the first time. His pictures just didn't do him justice. And the pictures didn't capture his laid back personality and "anything goes" attitude. He talked, but just for a minute or two. Talking wasn't the reason we had met that day.

He pulled me to him ... and even before he did, I was nervous. Nervous with anticipation. Would he find me as attractive as I found him? Maybe he would find me too chunky or something. His pulling me to him told me the answers to my questions and silly female insecurities.

He kissed me. Such tender lips ... I felt his breath on me. He looked at me, and kissed me again. I felt a surge ... a surge of blood going strait to my nether regions. He then began kissing my neck ... and I realized that I felt his hands in some wonderful places. He was caressing my abdomen, caressing my back, and his hands found their way to my breasts. In a New York minute, he had my bra on the floor.He pulled my shirt over my head and there I was exposing him to my breasts. He caressed them with ease ... he caressed them with the intensity of a man who knew just how women loved to feel a man's hand. He kissed them, and concentrated on sucking my nipples.I pulled his shirt over his head. What a sight. Such a manly chest before my eyes. He let me caress his chest. He let me gently suck his nipples.

He watched as I kissed his chest and found my hands on his pants button ... he didn't stop me as I undid his pants, unzipped his pants, and watched his pants fall to the floor. My eyes lit up as he was completely exposed, without underwear.

He quickly let my jeans fall to the floor, and gently let my thongs fall there too. Both of us naked, he led me upstairs. With my hand in his, he led me to the bed, He turned me to face him, as he caressed my body with his hands, then with his mouth. His mouth roamed my entire body. When he found himself on the insides of my thighs, I shuttered. He placed me on the bed on my back, and gently motioned my legs to part. I eagerly helped with that process.

He first rubbed the outside of my pussy with his fingers, enjoying the folds and the wetness. He then parted my lips and put his finger inside the honey jar. He pulled his finger out, and sucked my juices right off. "You taste good, Ray," he said with a heavy, husky voice. My nipples were standing at his attention as he placed his mouth on my pussy.

Oh the feeling. Oh my. He explored me with masterful skill. He quickly found all the buttons that made me squirm. He placed his hands on my thighs to keep me from scooting away from him. He was about to make me cum, but I had to stop him. For I knew of more pleasure that were to bestow us.

You see, my boyfriend was in the next room with his girlfriend. Joseph comes to our room and says, "it's time." Drew, my new love, looked at me puzzled and I said, "I assure you, baby, you will like what you see."

We walked into the next room very very quietly. There tied to the bed with a blindfold on was Jenny. Oh sweet Jenny. She was enjoying her own pleasures that I knew so well. Joseph had shared with me his plans for Jenny, and as promised, I didn't say a word. Why ruin a wonderful surprise?

Quietly, Drew and I walked to the bed. Simultaneously, Joseph, Drew, and I all started caressing her. She jumped, but only a second. She didn't expect to feel six hands caressing her body; enjoying her breasts, her nipples ... who's kisses are those? Who's tongue do I feel? Only the three of us knew.

As Drew and I were taking care of Jenny's beautiful breasts, Joseph leans in and pushes his erection in her wet, tight pussy. Jenny gasps. She has no control over what her lovers are doing to her body. She arches her back with complete ecstasy, as she cums all over Joseph's cock. He can't hold back any longer. Her body feels too good to him ... sweet creamy pussy is more than any man can stand. He cums. Drew removes her blindfold and I untie her hands. She blinks, adjusting to the light as she sees her three lovers ... her lovers who have satisfied her in a way that she has craved for a long time.

Drew lays me down and fucks me hard ... the sight of seeing Joseph fuck Jenny was more than he could take. Every thrust he made was incredible and intense. He rubbed my insides in such the right way ... before I knew it, everyone in the room knew I was cumming -- oh how hard I came. I arched my back and released ... and a second later, Drew was cumming too.

We looked over and Jenny and Joseph. Joseph had another hard on just watching us, Jenny was speechless. And wet. In an instant, we found ourselves in the arms of our own partners, turned on like we've never known after sharing the most precious thing to each of us ... our own lovers.

Hmm...I want to be Jenny. I have been tied up before, but not with six hands on me. That would be incredible. Thanks Abby for getting us all wet!!

WANTED: GUEST AUTHORS

I received such great feedback from Gina's blog...i want more of course. So, interested?? I hope you are because I need some guest writers. Tell me about your swinging experiences. :)

More Of My Latest Obsessions

• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- listen for yourself
• Ebay-you can find lots of cool shit here
• Pilates- sexy abs here I come
• Going braless- no wait...that's been my obsession for like 20 years LOL.
• Bright blue eyeshadow...I haven't gotten the nerve to wear it but it just looks so retro cool
• Espadrilles- OMG fabulous

Learnings...

I continue to learn about myself, Austin, and our relationship. I LOVE the fact that people have sex differently and that I get to experience the differences. For example, I enjoy my quiet playmates, the ones that end up surprising me with their choice of activities. I enjoy my more dominant playmates, the ones that are willing to take control of events ;). I enjoy the ones that love oral- giving and receiving. I love the ones that love a variety of positions. In essence, I love many things about playmates but the one thing that remains constant is the diversity. I love having the ability to explore with different people.

What a wonderful weekend...

Austin and I met a really nice couple a few months ago. Yesterday, we went up to visit them.

I knew that we would have a good time but -I didn't realize how super hot it would be. We arrived for dinner and were surprised to see a huge feast displayed for us. All along, he had been asking about my vegetarianism. I just thought he was extra curious; however, I now realize that he was planning the menu.

After dinner, we had lots of wine and chocolate. I am not usually a red wine drinker but for some reason, the wine was exceptionally good. Pretty soon, my clothes started coming off...seems to be a common occurrence these days :). To make a long story short...we had a really fun night and slept in late.

Lost Lives

There are very few times when I am at a loss for words...I usually have a lot to say whether people like it or not :). The Oklahoma City bombing, 911, Rawanda, Columbine, the Challenger disaster, and now...VA Tech. These are events that are very real to me. I watched them unfold and they became a part of my life history. There aren't really any words, only a mass of jumbled emotions.

More About Me...Because, As Sam Would Say- "It's All About Me"

I am an easy person to like because...

• I am somewhat animated (good entertainment value I suppose)
• Fun, Fun, Fun, and did I say fun?
• I value friendship
• I am laidback
• I am not a Judger
• I am a positive person
• I love to smile...make me smile and you will be smiling, too
• I am a genuine person
• I am very low maintenance

I am a hard person to like because...

• I am frivolous (who posts a link to their body products line on their blog?)
• I am a germ-a-phobe
• I am a hypochondriac
• I do not have a good conceptualization of time (if I am on time, the universe is out of alignment)
• I love my animals more than I like most vanilla people
• I am not "kid friendly"
• I have very few friends so if I say I like you, I truly like and respect you
• I am directionally-challenged

My Latest Obsessions

• Waxing- playmates, can I get an AMEN?
• Fall Out Boy- just creative lyrics...who talks about an arms race with such humor?
• Bones- you know, the socially inept scientist...no wait, that's me
• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- love it love it...great critical thinking
• My teeth-my parents were right when they said that straight teeth would make me feel better...almost done with braces
• Austin's hair- i love it
• John Mayer or is it Meyer?- such a sexy dude
• Zumba- a truly incredible workout...who wouldn't love a workout with a "spank that ass" move
• lip gloss- smooth kissable lips...with flavor
• glitter eyeliner- shiny, happy things excite me
• cute flats- as a self proclaimed shoe-a-holic I am finally moving away from heels.

My First Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my first guest blogger, Gina. Gina provided the following post. Perhaps she will be a regular contributor. Come to think of it...I wonder if I can convince Blake, Sam, or Yancey to be a guest blogger...hmmm. It would be interesting to have a guest blogger. Enjoy.

Spoiling My Beloved "Blake"

As you can see from the pictures of our FMF, our dear author and I enjoyed making Blake the center of attention.

An aside: I can't keep referring to her as "Dear Author", and she's conveniently never given herself a pseudonym. I'll call her Diana, after the Greek goddess of the moon. She'll like that.

What guy wouldn't like having two women to himself for an evening? Not many. I'm not into women sexually, but I enjoy seeing Blake happy. I also enjoy seeing him with Diana. They are into each other, and the sight of them together is so erotic.

Seeing your loved one get excited from a new perspective, and seeing a beautiful and intelligent woman get turned on by being with him, is really hot for me...this was one of the biggest surprises about swinging. With Diana in particular, the obvious contrast in their skin color is a huge turn-on. Then there are their smiles, their moans... and Diana is blessed with the ability to have orgasms at the drop of a hat.

We started in the living room with some wine, where Blake took the picture of Diana on our loveseat. We moved into the bedroom, where Blake put the camera on a bookshelf and set it up to take a picture once every minute. Then we all kissed, caressed, sucked and nibbled each other standing up.

After a few minutes of that, Diana and I laid Blake out on the bed and went to serious work on him. Diana slowly crawled up his body until she was sitting on his face, while I went down on him. Later, he got to go from one of us to the other at will, with both of us looking up at him adoringly. Lots of other fun things happened, but a play-by-play description isn't what I'm after here.

A good time was had by all, and all were in harmony. I had a smile on my face the whole time, seeing how happy my beloved was... and also knowing I'd get to be the center of attention soon, between him and the amazing Austin.

Photo Album is Working

My photo album is finally working. Please take a look and tell me what you think.

Two turn tables and a microphone...or two more threesomes and a six-way!

This week has been very busy for Austin and me. Austin surprised me by setting up a threesome with Sam. A recap...Austin text messaged me and said that we were having a threesome. Cool. As usual, it was pretty damn amazing. Thanks to Yancey for letting Sam come over!!

The next day, Austin had a threesome with Blake and Gina. They did not take any pictures... how disappointing. But...they did share some of the juicy details. Of course, the "happenings" are too tantalizing to share on this site. LOL

Then, this weekend, we had our orgy. Ok, it wasn't a true orgy, but it was a bonafide six-way. It was phenomenal. We met at the host's house and the six of us piled into two cars to have dinner. We were so hungry!

Dinner was good. We had light flirting between courses; tiny kisses and leg squeezes under the table. :). We finally went back to our host's house and had some tequila. I have always been told to avoid tequila at all costs. I also don't like "hard core" drinks. Anyway, I decided to partake and actually did three shots (not consecutively of course).

So, we were all feeling pretty nice and the festivities began...we played a sex game that got everyone in the mood. A few minutes into the game, moaning started to emerge...I can only say that this experience has really spoiled me. Damn, I wish I had some pictures to post.

I am pretty exhausted right now- those folks wore me out in so many ways. I am tired but I have such yummy memories.

Photo album is not working...

My photo album is not working...Sorry. I am going to try and fix it this week. Stop the tears...as Sam would say...It's all about me :).

OUTED...YIPES!!

We had a great time at our party. Everyone behaved him or herself :). Vanilla and non-vanilla interacted harmoniously. The vanilla folks did not know that non-vanillas were even present. All was right with the world untill...

A friend, the only vanilla person that knew, told his mother about us. YIPES!!! He said he did it because his mother "noticed" something odd between us and another couple (Gina and Blake to be specific) and started asking a lot of questions. Hmmm...not sure if I believe that. She also started asking how we knew certain people. According to our friend, his mother thought there were at least three swinging couples there. Hmmm....interesting.

Austin and I are annoyed because he not only outed us, but our friends as well (by association). We have known him for over ten years and have seen him weather some pretty difficult times. I am saddened that he would disclose this. AN aside...we thought very long about disclosing this information to him.

By the way, I asked him why his mother had her "swingdar on." Seems like it takes one to know one. He didn't like that comment at all.

Amanda and Burke!!!

Our friends, the other couple are Amanda and Burke. I sometimes forget my pseudonyms. LOL...

More Pics of a Different MFM...

Austin and Blake had Gina in a brief MFM situation. I snapped a few pics...Austin, Gina, and Blake are having a threesome this week and I am definitely sending my camera with Austin.

A party, a threesome, and more craziness!!

First, I apologize for the delay in my posts. Austin and I had an internet problem and finally got it resolved yesterday. So, I have lots of news to discuss.

Austin was out of town so I went to visit Gina and Blake and had a little threesome fun with them. this picture is before the action began. Blake snapped this picture as I relaxed with a glass of wine.
We moved to the bedroom and the three of us began enjoying each other. There were many things going on and I absolutely loved it. Afterwards, we were so tired and completely spent. I really have to admit that it was absolutely incredible. Austin and I also had a party...and guess what...we had about 20 people and three of the couples were swingers (not including Austin and me)! This was our first time mixing vanilla and non-vanilla friends. of course, the vanilla couples did not know that swingers were present...wouldn't want to emotionally scar anyone. By the way, Blake and Gina and Sam and Yancy were present along with another couple (I can't remember their pseudonym). It was an uber fun time!!

We are going to a swinger meet-and-greet in TN this summer. I guess we are becoming less like "newbies" and more like "old timers." We aren't going alone...we are going with another couple...LOL

Visiting with Sam

Sam came over last Sunday to visit. All I am going to say is that it was very very fun. Austin was helping a friend all day and said that I could invite Sam over to visit if I wanted. So, I did. This was the first time that I played with someone on my own...besides my couple. It was quite fun. I really think that Sam and Yancey are fantastic and was really happy to have this experience.

Next week Austin is going out of town and I am going to spend the night with Gina and Blake. I am pretty excited about seeing them. BTW...Seems like Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey may like each other after all. I have to just wait and see what unfolds.

Regarding pictures...I am still not feeling like taking any. However, I really need some new pictures. I am just not motivated at this time. Any ideas???

Another update with no pics

I haven't taken any new pics lately. For some reasaon, I have been having a "my body needs some work" week. Every now and then I get in this mood where I just don't feel all that great about my body. Of course Austin tries to remedy this by giving me compliments. However, I always tell him that he is biased.

Blake, Gina, Yancey, and Sam met each other on Thursday. I think it went well. I haven't asked any of the parties how they felt about the meeting. Honestly, I am not sure I want the answer :).

One thing Austin and I talked about was PDA...no not my palm pilot or pocket pc. Personal Display of Affection. Austin is a lot more affectionate than me. He likes to cuddle and kiss and all of that other "mushy" stuff. I am not overly demonstrative with my affections. I hold hands in public and may give a few pecks, but any more would be excessive. Austin is much more affectionate, even with our play partners. I must admit, its funny seeing your life partner in public with another woman while thinking "get a room." LOL. Gina is a cuddle kissy bunny as well and when they get together...Anyhow, we had a very interesting conversation.

Austin really holds back with me; I know this. One thing he likes about swinging is that he gets an opportunity to be with someone who enjoys that type of affection.

After dinner, I was able to finally give Austin his holiday gift. Gina and I enjoyed Austin for a threesome. :) Austin is still thanking me.

Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey are having dinner with Austin and I at the end of this week. I am really looking forward to them meeting each other. At first, Austin and I were afraid to have everyone meet. What if they don't like each other? But then we figured...hey, we are all adults. If they like each other...that opens up the possibility of an orgy (ok...three couples or more is an orgy). But...if they don't, well, we can all handle it.

I just finished chatting with Bridgett and Jude. They are definitely sexy. Gina and Blake have played with them and Austin and I have as well so perhaps...oh, I am getting too excited thinking about the possibilities. I'd better "contain that nuclear reaction." he he...get it???

By the way, Austin and I saw Black Snake Moan. It was really good. There were multiple themes but I think the two big ones were pervasive throughout the entire movie. The first one was an interesting and complex analysis of the "brother's keeper" argument. Specifically, where does ones responsibility to others and society begin and end. The second one was a look at the consequences of child sex abuse.

Samuel Jackson is a deeply religious yet, somewhat angry ex-blues player who needs a purpose in his life. He finds this purpose when a very "drugged out" Christina Ricci falls on his doorstep. He believes that her appearance is "divine" and will help him gain something that he has lost. Jackson will "not be moved" in his quest to force Ricci to get her life "right." However, he eventually comes to the conclusion that he can't save her...she must do that herself.

Ricci is excellent as a trashy southern "fuck 'em all" girl. A survivor of sexual abuse, Ricci goes through life having "fits" until she is satisfied with a penis. She continuously has flashbacks; her mother knew about the abuse but did nothing to stop it. In a way, each flashback validates her worthlessness.

Why did I spend time discussing this movie? Because I was deeply moved by certain parts of it. This is the story of people who try to find meaning in their existence and understand their connection to others around them. Ricci uses sex to connect her to others; Jackson uses music. Jackson is the dogmatic hero that is only able to save Ricci when he releases his hold on her. IN other words, he finally understands that letting go is more important than holding on. That symbolism is touching to me.

Exhausted

I am so exhausted today. Of course I want to blame it on the time change like everyone else. But...honestly I am just feeling a tad off-center today. I think playing is a really intense experience and it probably takes a second for me to refocus.

Oh, before I forget, Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey are going to meet this week. This is exciting and scary for me. There are a million end results but only one that will actually happen. Hopefully the end result will be good.

Update on Amanda And Burke

Remember Amanda and Burke? The "non vanilla" couple that we hang out with in a "vanilla" way? Well, we had a fun time hanging out with them a week ago. Anyway, I think they have converted a couple to the non vanilla life. Very exciting I must say.

Ok, this is important to say. swingers do not go around trying to convert couples. It just so happens that this couple was a "wanna be" but didn't know any swingers. Once they found some, they quickly revealed their true side. LOL

Life -Versus- the Lifestyle

We met with Yancey and Sam on Friday. Yancey knows every artistic person in our city and we went to an art showing for one of her friends. While we were there, we got a chance to watch the master social butterfly in action. Yancey was totally working the room. She would see someone and float over to chat...she was really alive.

I am not the soical butterfly...people usually think I am a lot more outgoing than I am. Yes, I love being the center of attention, but that doesn't make me a social butterfly. In fact, I am a lot more introverted than people think.

After the art show, we went to this cute little wine bar for a drink. I had a delicious hot chocolate. Austin had wine of course.

Sam and Yancey are really fun and I think it is wonderful that we can have a completely vanilla evening and truly enjoy each other. Well, who knows what thoughts we had during the evening :). You know they are "flexible" LOL.

We played with Blake and Gina last weekend and our new friends, Bridgett and Jude. We met Bridgett and Jude at the house party a few weeks ago. They were the couple that sent us an email after the party. Actually, we have had several couples send us emails but they were the ones that we really wanted to connect with.

Bridgett and Jude are very sexy. Bridgett reminds me of Andie McDowell. She has this incredible face and short dark hair. She has an incredible body and very cute feet. Jude reminds me of an older "bad boy" Johnny Depp. He has these wonderfully sexy eyes and while we were having sex, he kept his attention focused on me. You know I LOVE attention!! He was extremely honest about what he wanted and I totally appreciated that. OMG he has this wonderful and very intense expression...very sexy.

Jude directed for a while and had Bridgett, Austin and me in a very sexy pose. Austin was on his back, I was on top of Austin facing away...we were having sex and in front of me licking my clit. Ok, I usually am not this vocal about the things that we do...but it was a really cool position so I had to share. Sorry if I offended or excited you.

Life Versus the Lifestyle. We identify as being part of the "lifestyle" but what the hell does that mean?? And...when does swinging become your "life?" There was a time when we had a dry spell; we went to parties but did not play with anyone. Swinging definitely wasn't our life. Now it feels like we are constantly on the go and I am somewhat conflicted. I LOVE our circle of friends. I enjoy having sex with our playmates and feeling the accompanying closeness.

But... I also want to keep our "circle of port" small. I don't want to "live the lifestyle." I don't want to be one of those people that is always on the lookout for partners. I want swinging to continue to complement our life- not become it.

ON the other hand...shouldn't I just feel comfortable being the little freak that I am? As long as Austin and I are having fun...shouldn't we just keep doing what we are doing? Yeah...I'm convinced :).

Upcoming Event...

We have visitors coming to see us this weekend.

Weekend Summary

So, we had a port filled weekend. We saw Gina and Blake and had a great time with them. They are such a nice couple. Although, I am very tired right now.

I ended up taking a few hot pics of Blake, Austin, and Gina. I bet these pics spur an MFM among the three of them. Of course, they would have to take pics for me or I would be very upset :).

Anyway, we were recontacted by a very nice couple that sent us an email a while ago. At the time, we could not meet anyone. We were swamped with a few things. However, we have decided to go and meet them.

Austin chatted with the guy for a while. This is unusual because Austin is not a chatter. In fact, he only chats with Gina with any regularity. So...in a few weeks we will be meeting Tom and Connie. I think we are going there but I am not sure...I am letting Austin do all of the scheduling from now on. He thinks that I am not direct enough with people.

By the way, the wonderful thing about waxing is that I have discovered that I have a sensitive side. Wonder how I can use this knowledge for good instead of evil.

Weekend Plans

We may be seeing Austin and Gina tomorrow. We are not sure if we will drive to see them or if they will visit us. We also have plans with a very very sexy couple that we met last week at the house party. They are both very yummy and Austin and I are really looking forward to hanging out with them.

We had a photoshoot...this time the theme was pink. This is an outfit that Austin picked out. I think he did an excellent job. Look...my boobs appear much larger in this top. LOL

Trust in a swing relationship

Trust is extremely important in a swing relationship. You trust that your swing partners are being honest about their HIV and other STD status. You trust that they will not bring drama into your lives. You trust that they will not try to destroy your love relationship. Trust is paramount.

So when you find out that someone has broken that trust...it is disappointing. A close member of our "circle of port" discovered that another friend was dishonest. Fortunately, it wasn't about any of the aforementioned things. Nevertheless, it was a breach of trust and not to be ignored.

VANILLA FRIENDS

Remember... Friday we went to a gathering with old friends (Amanda and Burke). They are "non-vanilla" but the four of us are vanilla friends (although, I would love to be "non-vanilla" with them). They are so hot.

The evening was a lot of fun. Burke makes fabulous drinks. He made a candy apple martini that was sinful. Burke is very much a gentleman- on the outside anyway. WINK. Amanda is funny and social and very welcoming.

We also met another couple. Burke told me that they were vanilla but I swear they gave off swinger vibes. :). Austin agreed with me as well. Anyway, Austin and I are still perfecting our "Swingdar."

So this weekend was exhausting but fun.

Hot weekend update

We had a delicious time at the house party. I am going to give you a very brief recap of events.

Austin and I arrived at our friend's house around 6. Austin told me that we had to leave our house at 3:00. I was tired from the night before so I decided to take a quick nap. At 2:30 I woke up and started to shower and pack. At 3:30 I was almost ready to go. Of course Austin knows me too well and "padded" the time. We left our house around 4:00. Don't know why I started with that...

Anyway, we got to our friend's house at 5-something (I am going to let you guess which friends we went with). Anyway, we got dressed at their house; I decided to wear a black corset top and black pants. Austin said that I looked really hot.

We got to the party early to help Tam and Craig. Tam and Craig were the hosts and they were the warmest people. Craig instantly made us feel like we had been friends for a long time. He was so genuine I had to wonder if he was "for real." Tam appeared a little later wearing these fabulous "fuck me and then have pie" shoes. She was gracious and I could tell she did a good job balancing her "sexy, slutty, swinger persona" with the "good wife and mother" role. In other words, I could tell that she KNEW how to have fun.

Couples started arriving and there were some hot prospects. The funny thing is that our friends and I were attracted to the same couples. A Six-way anyone?? Hell, an orgy anyone?? I think these could be definite future possibilities.

The hosts were friends with our friends and we wondered if that would be awkward. We didn't want our friends to feel like they had to sensor their sexiness just because we were there. In fact, I thought it was totally hot watching everyone flirt. Of course our friends are wonderful and there weren't any awkward moments. In fact, it was so hot watching everyone flirt (I had to write that twice).

I was with my friend and he and I were having a fun time saying hello to each other. Suddenly , we realized that our spouses had disappeared. Oh where oh where has my Austin gone? A while later, I saw him sauntering downstairs with one of our friends...hmmm....wonder what scandalous behavior had occurred. It was so hot. Although, I really wanted to engage in some scandalous behavior of my own.

By the way, Austin makes great daiquiris...I think he was trying to get me drunk.

We left the party and went back to our friends' house. I am not going to tell you want happened but I will tell you this- As I write this I have a huge smile on my face. I am also exhausted and a tad sore :). Ok...I will also tell you this- he knows how to work it and push all of the right buttons.

So, our first house party was so much fun. I hope we get invited to more parties. Our friends truly are fabulous and we think the absolute world of them.

BTW: The couple that we liked actually emailed us. Seems like they are up to a private meeting...hmmm.

Dinner with friends

Austin and I are having dinner with a couple that we met last summer. They are non vanilla, but this will be a vanilla meeting. They are both into wine and we will probably have a few glasses. Austin and I have really limited our social activities. It just seems like so many things have occupied our time. It is nice to anticipate events with people. Even if playing isn't involved. Although, I am definitely looking forward to playing on Saturday.

House Party

Austin and I have been invited to our first house party. We have wanted to go to a house party for a while but have never had the opportunity. Its not that we haven't been invited. WE have been, we just (a) weren't interested in the other couples that invited us and (b) had other plans. So, this will be a new adventure for us.

We are going with some friends. You know them if you have kept up with my blog. :) They are very sexy and it will be so fun watching them at the party. Of course I am not sure what I will wear...I am hoping to find something tomorrow.

Naughty Naughty Thoughts

We had a vanilla date with Sam and Yancey today. Of course, I had to spend some of the time having really naughty thoughts. We were sitting near the bathroom and it was pretty empty in the restaurant. What would have happened if three of us had to go to the bathroom at the same time?? Anyhow...in my fantasy, the bathroom is 100% free of germs. LOL--- Yes, I am a germ-a-phobe. So, I guess I am just craving certain things lol!!!

I also chatted with Gina today. It is so refreshing to be able to have intelligent conversations with people that you play with. We had a really fun time last weekend. The only thing we forgot was to take pictures. Also, we discovered that we both went on a date with the same couple. What are the odds? Well, I guess the odds could be high considering it is a pretty small swinger community.

Oh by the way, Austin and I had a very wild time on Friday night. He was out of town this week and we actually IMed with each other. Yes, we had what I like to call "sexy chat." So, when we finally saw each other, it was pretty exciting. All I can say is that our wild night involved multiple props and toys and...much wetness. That is all I will disclose about that. Austin took pics and I may post a few...perhaps.

Cool Weekend

We had a very fun and interesting weekend. Blake and Gina came to visit and ended up staying the night. Much port was had by all...mmmm! I ended up missing my workout :).

HIV testing over the years

So...I just had a battery of tests done as part of my exam. The first time I had an HIV test done was over a decade ago. I had just gotten my first tattoo and was feeling pretty paranoid. It took a long time for the results to come back (a couple of weeks). And...you had to get the results in person. The nurse called me into a little office and talked to me about my results. It was a scary process.

This time, my results came back in less than 24 hours. The nurse called me on the phone, asked for my birthdate and social security number and then gave me the results. That was it. She said "negative" asked if I felt ok and then hung up. No big deal.

I mention this because HIV testing has changed drastically over the years. I think everyone should get tested for all STDs...even those at low risk. It is important to know the truth.

This Weekend Forecast Yummy

This weekend should be very tasty. We are going to spend some quality time with friends, Gina and Blake. Just to recap...Gina and Blake are the first couple that we played with in separate rooms. So...you know that we have to have a strong level of trust between the four of us. I am hoping that we can work the threesome thing into activities this week...but if not, that's fine. :)

I have been listening to a cool podcast called sex is fun. I found it through itunes. It rocks...check it out if you get a chance.

I also finally have a cam. I haven't hooked it up yet and to be honest, I am not sure how I will use it. I have to give it some thought. Any thoughts????

My Obsessions- At this Moment (excluding Austin and my 4-legged babies)

1. bondage pics of myself
2. a flat tummy (although I feel like I am loosing the battle)
3. Teddy Geiger- OMG...I am so embarassed because he is like 19 and such a boy toy!
4. pink, pink, and more pink (but what's new)
5. Podcasts...I just discovered this venue!
6. Panic! At the Disco- they rock
7. Austin with longer hair...I am a HUGE fan of the bald head look but it is great to see him with his beautiful hair
8. Radio Acoustic IO
9. My new IPod
10. Damien Rice
11. You can't always get what you want...why don't they have the acoustic version on ITunes?

More Photoshoot 2 Pics

More pictures of my last photoshoot.

Reflections of Sadness

I thought I was completely over my dog's death. I rationalized that his life was good and that I didn't want him to suffer. I intellectualized the situation and forgot to mourn. I was there when he took his last breath. I thought I would be ok but I am finding myself becoming sad at really odd times.

Perhaps it was the pictures that I found while we were packing up to move. Perhaps it was the knowledge that one of Austin's coworkers had to euthanize her dog as well. Perhaps it was the realization that my other dog and cat haven't truly played since his death. Perhaps it was just my body rebelling against me for forgetting to mourn. Whatever the reason, I am now in a position where I realize there is an empty part inside of me.

I feel really odd interspersing this between posts regarding gratuitous sex. I mean, you are here to read about my swinging adventures, right? But...right now I have to acknowledge this so that I can resolve this...

Photoshoot 2

Austin and I had a photoshoot. He bought these white thong undies and white stockings. He also surprised me with black arm and leg restraints. So, here are some pictures of the photoshoot.

Testing Time Part II

I finally received the results from my yearly exam. I passed!! Whew! This was actually a very scary experience for me. I had this nightmare of having all kinds of diseases and abnormalities. I mean, this is my first exam since we began swinging. We have been and will continue to be very selective of our partners and careful. But I do feel a little better knowing that my results were normal.

Swinging and Life Lessons...

Today, Austin and I reflected on some things about our relationship and our swinging. A few years ago, I would never believe that I would have a swinging blog. In fact, having sex with multiple people was a deep fantasy that I had difficulty admitting to myself. And yet, here we are...developing intimate friendships with others, getting to know the smells, tastes, and feels of others.

We have learned that our relationship is always changing. Sometimes you want to be with couples, sometimes you want an MFM, and sometimes your crave a FMF. But, whatever the combination, you always crave each other.

We have learned that we have insecurities...about ourselves, about our lifestyle, about our world. We are not perfect, but find a way to have those difficult conversations, to expose our fears, and use the times of insecurity as "forced growth."

We have learned what we value in others is what we value in our relationship...trust, honesty, communication, and respect.

We have learned that sometimes, without thinking, we hurt others and they can do the same to us. How do you tell someone that you are not attracted to them? How do you hear that someone is not attracted to you? These are the questions that can make or break your swinging experience.

We have learned that there is ok sex, good sex, phenomenol sex, and OMG sex! We only duplicate our experiences with those that we really have phenomenol sex with.

And finally, we have learned that we truly do love, like, and respect each other.

Photo Album and New Poll Added...

I have added a photo album. Click on the right side to see multiple pics of Austin and me. I have added a new poll...check out some pics and let me know which one is the most delicious.

Had a wonderful MFM but still owe Austin a FMF

I really enjoyed the MFM that Sam, Austin, and I had a few days ago. Sam is very sexy and a great play partner. He and Austin work well to please me. However, I know that Austin is patiently waiting for his FMF. We are going to see Blake and Gina in a few weeks and Gina may help me fulfill Austin's wish.

Waxing update: I just got waxed again! I am a bit sore. I think it is because I wore some really cute underwear after the waxing. I should have just put on some very boring white undies. This is not a picture of my new waxing...but, this is a picture of my kitty.

BIG FAT LIAR!!

I finally had my yearly gyn exam. Whew!! Now all I have to do is wait for the results!! I was prepared to tell her that I have multiple partners. I was prepared to tell her that I am proud of my relationship with Austin and our activities. I was prepared...but punked out!!

She's a medical professional, not a judge. I am not ashamed!! But...I couldn't do it. I couldn't just take the leap!

Downy Pussy Question

Someone asked if I was still continuing the brazillian wax. Yes, I am. But I have to wait for new growth to get it done again. My hair is so fine I can actually wait two months (I am over the 2 month mark right now). Oohh!!! I love answering questions!!!

And yet more random thoughts...

1. What is one lie that you constantly tell? Probably my weight. I say 125 and that's partly true...it is actually a range. If Austin says I look thin, I always say that I am at the heavier end...
2. Coke or Pepsi? I don't really like soda. I try to avoid carbonated drinks when possible.
3. What is the most interesting comment that you have heard from a play partner? This weekend a play partner commented on my pubic hair. He said, "Your pussy hair is so soft...you have the downiest pussy."
4. What is your Meyers-Briggs type? ENTP Here is an excerpt from the profile. My comments are in red...ENTP- Extraverted iNtuitive Thinking Perceiving by Marina Margaret Heiss
   Profile: ENTPRevision: 3.0Date of Revision: 26 Feb 2005
   "Clever" is the word that perhaps describes ENTPs best. Ok, I like that. The professor who juggles half a dozen ideas for research papers and grant proposals in his mind while giving a highly entertaining lecture on an abstruse subject is a classic example of the type. This accurately describes me! So is the stand-up comedian whose lampoons are not only funny, but incisively accurate.
   ENTPs are usually verbally as well as cerebrally quick, and generally love to argue--both for its own sake, and to show off their often-impressive skills. Austin will tell you that I push him to the edge. They tend to have a perverse sense of humor as well, and enjoy playing devil's advocate. They sometimes confuse, even inadvertently hurt, those who don't understand or accept the concept of argument as a sport. Ok, how was I suppose to know that joking about getting divorced was not a good thing!!
   ENTPs are as innovative and ingenious at problem-solving as they are at verbal gymnastics; on occasion, however, they manage to outsmart themselves. This can take the form of getting found out at "sharp practice"--ENTPs have been known to cut corners without regard to the rules if it's expedientso true!! -- or simply in the collapse of an over-ambitious juggling act. Both at work and at home, ENTPs are very fond of "toys"--physical or intellectual, the more sophisticated the better. They tend to tire of these quickly, however, and move on to new ones.
   ENTPs are basically optimists, but in spite of this (perhaps because of it?), they tend to become extremely petulant about small setbacks and inconveniences. (Major setbacks they tend to regard as challenges, and tackle with determin- ation.) I usually attribute this to my moodiness. ENTPs have little patience with those they consider wrongheaded or unintelligent, and show little restraint in demonstrating this. However, they do tend to be extremely genial, if not charming, when not being harassed by life in general. Yes, life does harass me.
   In terms of their relationships with others, ENTPs are capable of bonding very closely and, initially, suddenly, with their loved ones. Some appear to be deceptively offhand with their nearest and dearest; others are so demonstrative that they succeed in shocking co-workers who've only seen their professional side. ENTPs are also good at acquiring friends who are as clever and entertaining as they are. See, I select clever and entertaining play partners as well. We end up entertaining each other LOL!Aside from those two areas, ENTPs tend to be oblivious of the rest of humanity, except as an audience -- good, bad, or potential.
   Some Famous ENTPs:
   Alexander the Great, Confederate General J. E. B., StuartSir Walter Raleigh
   Fictional:
   Mercutio, from Romeo and JulietHorace Rumpole, from John Mortimer's Rumpole of the Bailey seriesDorothy L. Sayers's detective Lord Peter Wimsey
5. What is your religious/spiritual perspective? Agnostic
6. What is your skin care regiment? I use all Lush products. www.lush.com Honey I washed the kids soap, buffy the backside slayer body exfoliator, Dream cream body creme, pied de pepper foot creme, angels on bare skin face exfoliator, mask of magnamity deep facial cleaner, coal face soap (after I work out), and imperialis facial mousturizer. I swear by this stuff. I have eczema and not so great skin but this stuff makes my skin absolutely divine.
7. Beauty secrets? Of course...drink plenty of water, go vegetarian, avoid the sun, keep your house at a fairly cool temperature...less than 65 year round is optimal.

Happy MLK Jr. Day!!

We all have the power to live our ways in a way that inspires and motivates others.
We all have the power to learn from adversity.
We all have the power to think critically about our world.
We all have the power to embrace differences.
We all have the power to be more than we are right now...

Sam and Yancey are Sick

We didn't have our MFM...Sam and Yancey are both sick. Not deathly ill, just a little sick. They didn't want to risk getting us sick; hence, no MFM action for me. Of course I am sad...but, it actually worked out well because I was so exhausted. But...Austin and I did watch a very unusual porn. Um...sexy but odd in some parts. For example, there was a guy sitting in the corner watching a couple have sex. He was completely flaccid throughout the scene (hey, does that have two c's). Austin and I couldn't figure out why "random single dude in the corner" was in the scene. It was very bizarre to say the least.

I think I am going to post a new poll very soon. I think it will be titled...which underwear looks best on me. Personally, I only wear thongs to work out in. I think that I look much better in other types of undies. I want to get your opinion...so, I will show pics of me in my favorite underwear and you can choose what I wear for a predetermined play date.

Whirlwind!

Life is a whirlwind...We just moved and I am so exhausted. It seems like work projects are all due this week and I am feeling a tad overwhelmed! Anyway, you don't want to hear about my work stress. You want to hear about my swinging adventures :)

I played with my couple last week. Very I don't think I have given them names...So...I think I will call them Allen and Tabitha. Tabitha is a sexy brunette and Allen is a complete gentleman who happens to be HUGE. You would never guess from looking at him. I was absolutely amazed. Did I say HUGE? Now, I am not one of those women who is obsessed with size. In fact, some of my worst experiences have been with well-endowed men. I prefer a man who knows how to work what he has. However, I must say that Allen definitely knows how to use what he has.

Tomorrow, Sam is joining us for another MFM. He is absolutely sexy. He helped us move and all of that lifting that he and Austin did was a real turn-on.

Blake and Gina are coming for Thanksgiving dinner...well, a pseudo-Thanksgiving dinner. With vegetarian turkey and all!

We are also having guests this weekend. A fun couple that we visited a month ago. They are our third and final potential "circle of port" couple.

Random Thoughts 3

1. What is one thing that people can't tell by looking at you? I am a genetic freak! I have an extra bone in my left hand and am actually missing a rib bone on my left side . Also, I an a true nerd...I started taking college classes at 12.
2. What is your favorite cartoon/cartoon character? Hercules...
3. What are your secret loves? The shows Charmed and Sex in the City, drinking out of the bottles in the fridge (don't worry, friends that come over are never subjected to these bottles). I also love Austin's smell, and precum...yes, that's right. For some reason, I think it is sexy on a primal level. It is so manly. I also love the extremes...bald men and men with long hair. Berrytinis and strawberry margharitas are great as well. I also secretly love studying unusual lifestyles. Ever hear about people called "cutters" or "bulls" Google them. Quite interesting research I say. And yes, we do watch FOX news...we are bad liberals.
4. What are your secret dislikes? Bad children, Bad children, Did I say bad children?
5. City Dweller/Urbanite or Suburbanite? Suburbanite
6. What is your favorite sport? Sex...athletic sex he he.
7. What is your dream job? Um...besides diva of the universe? Probably cult leader lol. Something aout having people worship me, give me money, and pledge allegiance that is just too damn funny.
8. What are the cutest names that you have been called recently? The little shoe whore and pumpkin head.
9. What is the shortest guy that you have had sex with? Um, 5'5"
10. Who was your first boyfriend? George in Kindergarten. I threatened him and said he had to be my boyfriend or I would get my friend to beat him up. Needless to say, he developed a fondness for me.
11. Have you ever cheated? No...i have always been honest about my non-monogamy.
12. Has anyone ever cheated on you? Not that they will admit :). I would get my friends from question 10 to beat him up.

Do you believe that women ejaculate?

The concept of female ejaculation is a hotly debated topic. Interestingly, I had never really heard of female ejaculation or "squirting" before we began swinging. Now, it seems like there are a disproportionate amount of squirters within swinging. P.S. see Danni654's squirting video.

So, do I personally, believe in female ejaculation? Yes, I do. We played with a squirter and I actually had to stop the action to go and see what the "fluid" was like. Of course, I initially thought that it was urine. However, after actually seeing the fluid, I was dumbfounded and actually had to go to the medical literature to research. Seems like there are multiple theories as to why this happens and even medical experts contradict each other.

So, what do you think about squirting? Do you squirt, do you know a squirter? Leave your comments and let me know.

The Triple Kiss Part II

Back in August, I experienced the triple kiss. This phenomenon is very sensual and breathtaking and I find myself wanting it again and again. Mmmmm...just wondering when I will have this experience again.

The Last Day of 2006

Today is the last day of 2006. So, I would like to take a few minutes to reflect on some accomplishments (many of these will be sex-related).

The Good

1. Austin and I spent another wonderful year together. Who would have known that when we met in 1990 we were on the path to a life together.
2. Austin was awarded a great new job.
3. We had our first swing experience...It was great, too bad it was a one-time thing.
4. We met some really incredible and delicious friends. Those who read this blog are very familiar with Blake, Gina, Sam, and Yancey. We are hoping that our new friends Chad and Pepper continue to explore with us and become a part of our circle of port.
5. The MFM with the blindfold was oh-la-la!
6. I bought clothes from Priscilla's and actually had some place to wear them.
7. We created a playroom.
8. I had my first full brazillian wax.
9. We purchased a new camera (three guesses why).

The Bad

1. We lost our oldest dog.
2. We met several cool couples where only three of the four of us clicked and so...nothing happened.
3. Some couples wasted our time!
4. I had my first not-so-good experience with a partner...Yipes!!

The Indifferent

1. We played with a squirter but, it was somewhat messy :). If you don't know what this is, see the squirting video link on this site.
2. My pilates is paying off and it makes me want to get better and make my stomach flatter...hence, i am in a vicious cycle.
3. I discovered Sex in the City; like I need an addiction to another mindless show.
4. I have a shoe addiction and no place to store my collection.

Ok, this is just a small snapshot of 2006. I hope that you have a wonderful New Year!!

TADA!

Notice the new blog look? I have included a few new features. First, if you scroll to the bottom, you will see a poll. You can vote for your favorite picture. I think I will change it each month. I have also included a map. You can post where you are from so that we can see where people live.

I have also put a "tell a friend" button. You can now send my link to others. Share my life :). Finally, I have included links to personal swinger sites. If you have a site that you want me to include, just leave a comment and I will do my best to accomodate :). Check out the new format and let me know what you think.

Things that Austin Likes To Stick in My Butt

You have to love that title. Austin is sometimes a prankster. Often when I am wearing low-rise pants, he comes up behind me and throws something into my pants. The funny thing is that sometimes I don't notice for a few minutes...until I start to move and an object tickles my tushy. Here are some of the things that he has secretly placed in my butt...

1. coins (he prefers pennies)


2. pretzels


3. nuts (yes, those have been there but I am talking about nuts such as peanuts)


4. toy soldiers


5. paper


6. other random items that I can't think of at this second

So, what kinds of objects have you had in your butt?

Spanking Boundaries

Austin and I went to the party last night and had an interesting time. We have come to the conclusion that meeting a couple for the first time at a party is not a good idea. There are too many distractions and such. Also, we are learning more about our boundaries and about activities that are comfortable or uncomfortable for us and how we react to rejection or perceived rejection. We are also learning that we have different opinions about certain alternative behaviors. For example, I love to be spanked. It has a lot to do with my desire to feel "naughty;" however, I discovered that Austin is only comfortable with certain people spanking me or even talking about spanking or tying up. This was a shock considering how many times I have been spanked by Sam, Blake, and Gina with great results. But, I now know that spanking is only reserved for our special friends.

Party Tonight

We are headed to a pre-New Year's Eve party tonight. I have been off from work for the last few days and promised myself I would organize for 2007. Guess what...I feel even more disorganized!! So, I feel slightly guilty about going to a party tonight. But, we hope to have a good time and will have to report tomorrow!!

On a sad note: My dog's vet sent us a sympathy card regarding our dog. It was so sweet of them but it was very sad for me to receive. It had a bunch of stuff about "we'll see him again...blah blah blah" and I couldn't even read it. I guess, my agnostic self still has questions about what happens to us when we die. Also, our youngest dog is doing well but she has been waking up in the middle of the night looking for him. Our cat doesn't seem to give a shit but I know that he is sad as well. At least I think he is...oh, hell, who knows with him :).

This is the New version of my blog

This is my current blog. There is no need for you to look elsewhere for my blog...it is still in this location. Enjoy!!!

New Blogger

I just switched to the new blogger! Whew! Supposedly this will be a new and better version for me. Well, I will definitely have to see.

More Photoshoot Pics...

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Sex in the City!!

So, I was watching Sex in the City. I must say, Sarah Jessica Parker has an awesome body. I want to know what her work out routine is and how I can adopt it http://www.hbo.com/city/cast/character/carrie_bradshaw.shtml

Holiday Gift

So, Austin and I are not exchanging gifts until January. He he!! And...on his list of gifts that he wants Drumroll.....FMF. So, of course he wants this with Gina.
he he!!!

More Photoshoot Pics!!

The photo shoot that Austin and I did was fantastic. These pictures are additional pictures for you to view.Hope that you enjoy.

Random thoughts part II

1. What is the best place you have ever visited? There are so many places that I love. I would have to say the Shinto temples of Japan. We visited a few that had only recently been opened to visitors. They were crowded yet so peaceful. I had an opportunity to wash my hands in the sacred fountain...very surreal.

2. What is the biggest swinging disagreement you have ever had with Austin? Over my excessive on-line chatting, LOL.

3. Why do you have a blog? Because I want to provide insight into my life as a swinger. The general public has such skewed beliefs about swingers. I want them to understand that we are just regular folks...kinky, albeit regular.

4. Who is your current nemesis? Hmmm...have to think about that a bit.

5. What is your favorite drink? Definitely a berrytini. Of course Austin would say some type of wine :).

6. Who is the most fascinating historical figure? Einstein...intelligent, freaky, complex, and misunderstood. His writings are brilliant.

7. Who is your favorite actor? I like so many...Samuel Jackson, Jude Law, Will Smith, Keanu Reeves, Russel Crowe, and may others.

8. Who is your favorite actress? Natalie Portman rocks!

9. What qualities do you want to develop/enhance in yourself? I want to become more patient, more relaxed, and more giving.

10. What qualities do you want to diminish/decrease in yourself? Probably less self-centered lol!!

11. What is your favorite color? I have two...pink and orange

12. Do you believe in U.F.Os? I do not have enough evidence to confirm or deny their existence; however, there is a definite possibility.

So...what else would you like to know??

Random thoughts about me....

1. When did you have your first orgasm? Age 16- on the floor of my bedroom. He fingered me and I felt this warm pulsating rush of energy wash between my legs and beyond. I was so shocked and excited. After he left, I spent a while trying to repeat the sensation.

2. How do you feel about your body? I love it, usually. Well, ok, I have a few trouble spots. Mainly my fat ass and less than perfect belly. And...my horrible feet. But, I do love my legs a lot.

3. If you could go back in time and change one thing, what would you do? Interesting question. Any changes would have intended and unintended consequences. In other words, I may try to do something positive that backfires and spins the world into some horrible alternative existence. Can't take responsibility for that so I will have to just leave things as they are.

4. What is your secret fear? MMMM...lots. If I told you, I may have to kill you.

5. What do you love most about Austin? His kindness. He always gives me what I want and need but he also knows that I will never ask him for anything that he can't give or that I don't need.

6. What do you like the least about Austin? Pompeii Schavei...inside joke!

7. What do you like the most about swinging? The ability to experience many new sensations. It's wonderful. Also, the ability to experience friendship at a different level.

8. What do you like the least about swinging? People that waste our time.

9. What is(are) your favorite food(s)? sushi

10. What is(are) your least favorite food(s)? anything not vegetarian

11. What type of animal would you be? a swan because they are graceful and beautiful.

12. What are you listening to now? Indigo girls, panic!at the disco, paul simon, bob marley, U2, and others

13. What are you reading now? research books and Einstein's Dreams by Alan Lightman

14. Do you collect anything? chopsticks...i am really fascinated by them

15. What is(are) your favorite article(s) of clothing? My orange murano glass necklace, my polka dotted steve madden shoes, my black sweater with the glittery buttons, and my super low rise express jeans.

16. Favorite position: Me on top of course...doggie is also nice woof woof!!

Ok, what else would you like to know?

THE BREAK IS OVER!!

I have had a lot of things going on in my life. SO, I decided to take a quick break from blogging...but now, the fog is lifting and I am back. Much has happened...some good, some not so good. So, here is a quick summary of what Austin and I have been up to...

Non-port related sad news:. Our oldest dog died this weekend. He had been sick for a while and we thought he was doing well, but he began to get progressively worse and we had to make a tough decision. We are saddened but recognize the wisdom in this experience and in our dog's life. He taught us a lot about ourselves, love, sacrifice, and recovery. We are forever indebt to him.

Port Related News: So much has happened these last few weeks. First, I had my very first threesome with my own couple. It was really great. It wasn't Carter and Alley...although we continue to chat and will probably hook-up after the New Year. This was a couple that Austin and I met a while ago. I decided that they might be a good couple for me for a variety of reasons and wow...I am glad that I "interviewed" them-- we had a great time!!

Next, we played (soft swap) with a couple and things didn't work out quite right. We weren't quite "feeling the experience" and had to write an awkward email to them afterwards. We think they are really nice people, we just didn't click sexually. This happens sometimes and Austin and I are both recovered. Interestingly, this was our first experience with things not clicking.

Next, we finally met a very sweet couple that we had been chatting with for a while, Chad and Pepper. We went to visit them and had a fabulous time. They are both very fun and sexy. Before you say it...yes, we said we weren't meeting any new couples; however, we started corresponding with them before and made the decision that we would meet.

And...Austin got a chance to play with Yancey by himself. Actually, I was pretty estatic because I want him to have the opportunity to "play alone." AND...Yancey is such an absolute sweetheart that I feel completely comfortable with it. Actually, there are only two women that I would feel comfortable with Austin playing alone with...Yancey is one and Gina is the other. I think it has a lot to do with trust and that I feel that they understand and respect the relationship that I have with Austin.

So, I think we are definitely not meeting anyone new. REALLY!!!!

Anyway, I have many thoughts to write but need to go and visit my family. It is Christmas and even heathens can give thanks and respect our families. LOL!! So, Happy Holidays to everyone!!

Photoshoot

Every now and then, Austin and I have a photoshoot. Of course you know that I LOVE taking pictures. So, a photoshoot is right up my alley LOL! We took about a million pictures. Here are some of them. I will post additional ones as well. So, what do you think? I am always trying to find new poses to do. Any thoughts??

AN old FRIEND

IMed with someone that I had not chatted with in a while. Mark, of Mark and Rachel is doing well. I had hoped that we would play again but alas, it is not in the cards. I still think he and Rachel are sweet people and wish them well :).

Weekend Update

I met Carter and Alley on Saturday. They are a very attractive and sweet couple. I instantly felt at ease with them. We chatted untill they said they were tired and needed to get back to their hotel.

Of course, on my way to dinner, Austin gave me some condoms...just in case. How sweet is he? Unfortunately, I didn't need them...So, I can't help but wonder if they were really tired or just trying to let me down easily. I am so used to people wanting to play with me so, when they retired to their rooms, I was quite shocked. Did I misread the situation or am I reading too much into it? I really like them but I am not sure that they dig me. I will have to sit on the situation and keep you updated.

So...Austin did not have drinks with the new couple that we met. They ended up having babysitter issues. I was sad because I wanted him to enjoy himself while I was with Austin and Carter. However, the irony is that neither of us ended up playing.

So this week promises to be somewhat stressful for me. I have some very difficult decisions to make; these decisions will impact my staff and thier families. I love being a "boss" but sometimes the decisions are difficult-although necessary.

Waxing Update!

I had been thinking about whether I should continue to remain FULLY WAXED. So, I gave it some thought and thought I should at least try the bald look one more time. WOW! The process was much easier. Don't get me wrong...it still hurt. Only, it was quicker and wasn't the "oh shit this hurts like hell's hell" that I experienced the first time. The technician mentioned that the more I did it, the easier it would be and I see what she means. BY the way, I am inverting the colors...wouldn't want to offend anyone with a vulgar image :).

Meeting Carter and Alley Tomorrow...

So, I am meeting Carter and Alley tomorrow. We are going to meet in a really fun place. I keep thinking, what if I am crazy for wanting to do this. I mean, who meets total strangers these days. I asked Austin if he wanted to go but he has his own plans. We were hoping that he would be able to do some MFM sction with Sam and Yancey but they have plans. THat is one thing about being a swinger...when someone says that they have plans, you have to assume that they may have "plans" LOL. ANyway, I think Austin is having drinks with another couple that we met last week.

Ok, yes, we said we weren't meeting any new couples. But for some reason, we ended up meeting them. I have told Austin that we have our select couples and really shouldn't meet any new ones and he agrees...we really miss Blake and Gina and once they return, we will get a chance to play as frequently as we want. We haven't seen Sam and Yancey since Sam returned...hopefully we will be able to connect soon.

It is so freaking cold here!!!!