The Triple Kiss Part II

Back in August, I experienced the triple kiss. This phenomenon is very sensual and breathtaking and I find myself wanting it again and again. Mmmmm...just wondering when I will have this experience again.

The Last Day of 2006

Today is the last day of 2006. So, I would like to take a few minutes to reflect on some accomplishments (many of these will be sex-related).

The Good

1. Austin and I spent another wonderful year together. Who would have known that when we met in 1990 we were on the path to a life together.
2. Austin was awarded a great new job.
3. We had our first swing experience...It was great, too bad it was a one-time thing.
4. We met some really incredible and delicious friends. Those who read this blog are very familiar with Blake, Gina, Sam, and Yancey. We are hoping that our new friends Chad and Pepper continue to explore with us and become a part of our circle of port.
5. The MFM with the blindfold was oh-la-la!
6. I bought clothes from Priscilla's and actually had some place to wear them.
7. We created a playroom.
8. I had my first full brazillian wax.
9. We purchased a new camera (three guesses why).

The Bad

1. We lost our oldest dog.
2. We met several cool couples where only three of the four of us clicked and so...nothing happened.
3. Some couples wasted our time!
4. I had my first not-so-good experience with a partner...Yipes!!

The Indifferent

1. We played with a squirter but, it was somewhat messy :). If you don't know what this is, see the squirting video link on this site.
2. My pilates is paying off and it makes me want to get better and make my stomach flatter...hence, i am in a vicious cycle.
3. I discovered Sex in the City; like I need an addiction to another mindless show.
4. I have a shoe addiction and no place to store my collection.

Ok, this is just a small snapshot of 2006. I hope that you have a wonderful New Year!!

TADA!

Notice the new blog look? I have included a few new features. First, if you scroll to the bottom, you will see a poll. You can vote for your favorite picture. I think I will change it each month. I have also included a map. You can post where you are from so that we can see where people live.

I have also put a "tell a friend" button. You can now send my link to others. Share my life :). Finally, I have included links to personal swinger sites. If you have a site that you want me to include, just leave a comment and I will do my best to accomodate :). Check out the new format and let me know what you think.

Things that Austin Likes To Stick in My Butt

You have to love that title. Austin is sometimes a prankster. Often when I am wearing low-rise pants, he comes up behind me and throws something into my pants. The funny thing is that sometimes I don't notice for a few minutes...until I start to move and an object tickles my tushy. Here are some of the things that he has secretly placed in my butt...

1. coins (he prefers pennies)


2. pretzels


3. nuts (yes, those have been there but I am talking about nuts such as peanuts)


4. toy soldiers


5. paper


6. other random items that I can't think of at this second

So, what kinds of objects have you had in your butt?

Spanking Boundaries

Austin and I went to the party last night and had an interesting time. We have come to the conclusion that meeting a couple for the first time at a party is not a good idea. There are too many distractions and such. Also, we are learning more about our boundaries and about activities that are comfortable or uncomfortable for us and how we react to rejection or perceived rejection. We are also learning that we have different opinions about certain alternative behaviors. For example, I love to be spanked. It has a lot to do with my desire to feel "naughty;" however, I discovered that Austin is only comfortable with certain people spanking me or even talking about spanking or tying up. This was a shock considering how many times I have been spanked by Sam, Blake, and Gina with great results. But, I now know that spanking is only reserved for our special friends.

Party Tonight

We are headed to a pre-New Year's Eve party tonight. I have been off from work for the last few days and promised myself I would organize for 2007. Guess what...I feel even more disorganized!! So, I feel slightly guilty about going to a party tonight. But, we hope to have a good time and will have to report tomorrow!!

On a sad note: My dog's vet sent us a sympathy card regarding our dog. It was so sweet of them but it was very sad for me to receive. It had a bunch of stuff about "we'll see him again...blah blah blah" and I couldn't even read it. I guess, my agnostic self still has questions about what happens to us when we die. Also, our youngest dog is doing well but she has been waking up in the middle of the night looking for him. Our cat doesn't seem to give a shit but I know that he is sad as well. At least I think he is...oh, hell, who knows with him :).

This is the New version of my blog

This is my current blog. There is no need for you to look elsewhere for my blog...it is still in this location. Enjoy!!!

New Blogger

I just switched to the new blogger! Whew! Supposedly this will be a new and better version for me. Well, I will definitely have to see.

More Photoshoot Pics...

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Sex in the City!!

So, I was watching Sex in the City. I must say, Sarah Jessica Parker has an awesome body. I want to know what her work out routine is and how I can adopt it http://www.hbo.com/city/cast/character/carrie_bradshaw.shtml

Holiday Gift

So, Austin and I are not exchanging gifts until January. He he!! And...on his list of gifts that he wants Drumroll.....FMF. So, of course he wants this with Gina.
he he!!!

More Photoshoot Pics!!

The photo shoot that Austin and I did was fantastic. These pictures are additional pictures for you to view.Hope that you enjoy.

Random thoughts part II

1. What is the best place you have ever visited? There are so many places that I love. I would have to say the Shinto temples of Japan. We visited a few that had only recently been opened to visitors. They were crowded yet so peaceful. I had an opportunity to wash my hands in the sacred fountain...very surreal.

2. What is the biggest swinging disagreement you have ever had with Austin? Over my excessive on-line chatting, LOL.

3. Why do you have a blog? Because I want to provide insight into my life as a swinger. The general public has such skewed beliefs about swingers. I want them to understand that we are just regular folks...kinky, albeit regular.

4. Who is your current nemesis? Hmmm...have to think about that a bit.

5. What is your favorite drink? Definitely a berrytini. Of course Austin would say some type of wine :).

6. Who is the most fascinating historical figure? Einstein...intelligent, freaky, complex, and misunderstood. His writings are brilliant.

7. Who is your favorite actor? I like so many...Samuel Jackson, Jude Law, Will Smith, Keanu Reeves, Russel Crowe, and may others.

8. Who is your favorite actress? Natalie Portman rocks!

9. What qualities do you want to develop/enhance in yourself? I want to become more patient, more relaxed, and more giving.

10. What qualities do you want to diminish/decrease in yourself? Probably less self-centered lol!!

11. What is your favorite color? I have two...pink and orange

12. Do you believe in U.F.Os? I do not have enough evidence to confirm or deny their existence; however, there is a definite possibility.

So...what else would you like to know??

Random thoughts about me....

1. When did you have your first orgasm? Age 16- on the floor of my bedroom. He fingered me and I felt this warm pulsating rush of energy wash between my legs and beyond. I was so shocked and excited. After he left, I spent a while trying to repeat the sensation.

2. How do you feel about your body? I love it, usually. Well, ok, I have a few trouble spots. Mainly my fat ass and less than perfect belly. And...my horrible feet. But, I do love my legs a lot.

3. If you could go back in time and change one thing, what would you do? Interesting question. Any changes would have intended and unintended consequences. In other words, I may try to do something positive that backfires and spins the world into some horrible alternative existence. Can't take responsibility for that so I will have to just leave things as they are.

4. What is your secret fear? MMMM...lots. If I told you, I may have to kill you.

5. What do you love most about Austin? His kindness. He always gives me what I want and need but he also knows that I will never ask him for anything that he can't give or that I don't need.

6. What do you like the least about Austin? Pompeii Schavei...inside joke!

7. What do you like the most about swinging? The ability to experience many new sensations. It's wonderful. Also, the ability to experience friendship at a different level.

8. What do you like the least about swinging? People that waste our time.

9. What is(are) your favorite food(s)? sushi

10. What is(are) your least favorite food(s)? anything not vegetarian

11. What type of animal would you be? a swan because they are graceful and beautiful.

12. What are you listening to now? Indigo girls, panic!at the disco, paul simon, bob marley, U2, and others

13. What are you reading now? research books and Einstein's Dreams by Alan Lightman

14. Do you collect anything? chopsticks...i am really fascinated by them

15. What is(are) your favorite article(s) of clothing? My orange murano glass necklace, my polka dotted steve madden shoes, my black sweater with the glittery buttons, and my super low rise express jeans.

16. Favorite position: Me on top of course...doggie is also nice woof woof!!

Ok, what else would you like to know?

THE BREAK IS OVER!!

I have had a lot of things going on in my life. SO, I decided to take a quick break from blogging...but now, the fog is lifting and I am back. Much has happened...some good, some not so good. So, here is a quick summary of what Austin and I have been up to...

Non-port related sad news:. Our oldest dog died this weekend. He had been sick for a while and we thought he was doing well, but he began to get progressively worse and we had to make a tough decision. We are saddened but recognize the wisdom in this experience and in our dog's life. He taught us a lot about ourselves, love, sacrifice, and recovery. We are forever indebt to him.

Port Related News: So much has happened these last few weeks. First, I had my very first threesome with my own couple. It was really great. It wasn't Carter and Alley...although we continue to chat and will probably hook-up after the New Year. This was a couple that Austin and I met a while ago. I decided that they might be a good couple for me for a variety of reasons and wow...I am glad that I "interviewed" them-- we had a great time!!

Next, we played (soft swap) with a couple and things didn't work out quite right. We weren't quite "feeling the experience" and had to write an awkward email to them afterwards. We think they are really nice people, we just didn't click sexually. This happens sometimes and Austin and I are both recovered. Interestingly, this was our first experience with things not clicking.

Next, we finally met a very sweet couple that we had been chatting with for a while, Chad and Pepper. We went to visit them and had a fabulous time. They are both very fun and sexy. Before you say it...yes, we said we weren't meeting any new couples; however, we started corresponding with them before and made the decision that we would meet.

And...Austin got a chance to play with Yancey by himself. Actually, I was pretty estatic because I want him to have the opportunity to "play alone." AND...Yancey is such an absolute sweetheart that I feel completely comfortable with it. Actually, there are only two women that I would feel comfortable with Austin playing alone with...Yancey is one and Gina is the other. I think it has a lot to do with trust and that I feel that they understand and respect the relationship that I have with Austin.

So, I think we are definitely not meeting anyone new. REALLY!!!!

Anyway, I have many thoughts to write but need to go and visit my family. It is Christmas and even heathens can give thanks and respect our families. LOL!! So, Happy Holidays to everyone!!

Photoshoot

Every now and then, Austin and I have a photoshoot. Of course you know that I LOVE taking pictures. So, a photoshoot is right up my alley LOL! We took about a million pictures. Here are some of them. I will post additional ones as well. So, what do you think? I am always trying to find new poses to do. Any thoughts??

AN old FRIEND

IMed with someone that I had not chatted with in a while. Mark, of Mark and Rachel is doing well. I had hoped that we would play again but alas, it is not in the cards. I still think he and Rachel are sweet people and wish them well :).

Weekend Update

I met Carter and Alley on Saturday. They are a very attractive and sweet couple. I instantly felt at ease with them. We chatted untill they said they were tired and needed to get back to their hotel.

Of course, on my way to dinner, Austin gave me some condoms...just in case. How sweet is he? Unfortunately, I didn't need them...So, I can't help but wonder if they were really tired or just trying to let me down easily. I am so used to people wanting to play with me so, when they retired to their rooms, I was quite shocked. Did I misread the situation or am I reading too much into it? I really like them but I am not sure that they dig me. I will have to sit on the situation and keep you updated.

So...Austin did not have drinks with the new couple that we met. They ended up having babysitter issues. I was sad because I wanted him to enjoy himself while I was with Austin and Carter. However, the irony is that neither of us ended up playing.

So this week promises to be somewhat stressful for me. I have some very difficult decisions to make; these decisions will impact my staff and thier families. I love being a "boss" but sometimes the decisions are difficult-although necessary.

Waxing Update!

I had been thinking about whether I should continue to remain FULLY WAXED. So, I gave it some thought and thought I should at least try the bald look one more time. WOW! The process was much easier. Don't get me wrong...it still hurt. Only, it was quicker and wasn't the "oh shit this hurts like hell's hell" that I experienced the first time. The technician mentioned that the more I did it, the easier it would be and I see what she means. BY the way, I am inverting the colors...wouldn't want to offend anyone with a vulgar image :).

Meeting Carter and Alley Tomorrow...

So, I am meeting Carter and Alley tomorrow. We are going to meet in a really fun place. I keep thinking, what if I am crazy for wanting to do this. I mean, who meets total strangers these days. I asked Austin if he wanted to go but he has his own plans. We were hoping that he would be able to do some MFM sction with Sam and Yancey but they have plans. THat is one thing about being a swinger...when someone says that they have plans, you have to assume that they may have "plans" LOL. ANyway, I think Austin is having drinks with another couple that we met last week.

Ok, yes, we said we weren't meeting any new couples. But for some reason, we ended up meeting them. I have told Austin that we have our select couples and really shouldn't meet any new ones and he agrees...we really miss Blake and Gina and once they return, we will get a chance to play as frequently as we want. We haven't seen Sam and Yancey since Sam returned...hopefully we will be able to connect soon.

It is so freaking cold here!!!!