Ohh! Almost Forgot...

Dessert was wonderful. I took a Bavarian cake (similar to angel food cake) and covered it with fresh strawberries and whipped creme. Thank you to a special reader who gave me the idea. It was quite yummy :).

OUR ORGY AT THE CABIN?

We had a wonderful time at the cabin. It was absolutely beautiful-rolling topography, abundant wildlife, lots of sex :). Austin said that he looked up and there were three gorgeous hotties dressed in sexy nighties...he was so "googly-eyed" and wanted to know if we had planned it. No, we didn't- we all just independently decided to bring our wares. Our friends are fantastic people...and playmates as well!

I wanted to take some pics but to be quite honest, I was much too busy being naughty!! So, a picture of the cabin will have to suffice.

There is a question mark in this blog entry because there is some debate as to whether a five person tryst is a true orgy. Since the dawn of time, philosophers have debated and tried to quantify the threshold for an "orgy." Wars have been fought and many have lost reputations over this. So...what constitues a true orgy. Personally, I believe that the threshold is anything over four. However, it is important to mention that participants must not "pair up." Instead, they must be open to activities with all participants. In our case, the men were the only ones that did not actively play with each other. Ok, double standard but we won't discuss that now.

And a good time was had by all...

I have always wanted to be tied up during sex. One time, Austin tied me up and it was wonderful...however, I have tiny arms and could easily get out of the restraints. Last night during our MFM, Austin produced some new restraints and said, "you won't be getting out of these." He was right. In fact, we had to have an emergency pair of scissors nearby.

Update

Tomorrow we are having our first MFM with Blake. So far, our only MFM adventures have been with sexy Sam. So...it will be really wonderful to say that I am finally not an MFM "newbie" anymore. Blake and Austin had an MFM with Gina and I heard tantalizing stories of restraints and blindfolds for weeks afterwards. Hmm...wonder if I will have any stories...Which reminds me...I think I am overdue for an adventure with Sam.

Jealous?? You can join in as well. Tomorrow at dinner time, think about me with my Sexy partners. You may even feel a little of my ecstacy!!

This weekend, we are having another 6-way. We have rented a cabin and expect to have a wonderful time hanging out. Blake and Gina will be there along with another couple that we have both been sharing port with. They have asked me to prepare dessert on one of the days...hmmm...that will definitely be an adventure. Any ideas on what I should serve?

Hard To Find Cute Jeans

IT is hard to find good fitting jeans for my body shape and size. I like these slouchy low rise jeans. They are by Buckle.

How Knowledgeable Are You On Sexual Euphemisms?

I bought a book a few weeks ago, The Contemporary Dictionary of Sexual Euphemisms by Jordan Tate. Many of these phrases are derived from racial or sexual stereotypes. A few are derived from politics. LOL...It is interesting to read the origins of phrases.

So...How many eupehemisms do you recognize?

• sweater puppies
• taking the skin boat to tuna town
• shooting putty at the moon
• Blind Houdini
• Dirty Sanchez
• pearl necklace
• box lunch at the 'Y'
• paddle the pickle
• paint the pickle
• Reaganomics
• postman
• Little Dutch Boy
• Little Red Riding Hood
• Challenger
• Beverly Hillbilly
• Rodeo
• George Walker

My Second Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my second guest blogger. We met Abby and Sean last year. They are a very sweet and sexy couple. I am happy that Abby decided to share some of her adventures with us. Enjoy...

I saw him in person for the first time. His pictures just didn't do him justice. And the pictures didn't capture his laid back personality and "anything goes" attitude. He talked, but just for a minute or two. Talking wasn't the reason we had met that day.

He pulled me to him ... and even before he did, I was nervous. Nervous with anticipation. Would he find me as attractive as I found him? Maybe he would find me too chunky or something. His pulling me to him told me the answers to my questions and silly female insecurities.

He kissed me. Such tender lips ... I felt his breath on me. He looked at me, and kissed me again. I felt a surge ... a surge of blood going strait to my nether regions. He then began kissing my neck ... and I realized that I felt his hands in some wonderful places. He was caressing my abdomen, caressing my back, and his hands found their way to my breasts. In a New York minute, he had my bra on the floor.He pulled my shirt over my head and there I was exposing him to my breasts. He caressed them with ease ... he caressed them with the intensity of a man who knew just how women loved to feel a man's hand. He kissed them, and concentrated on sucking my nipples.I pulled his shirt over his head. What a sight. Such a manly chest before my eyes. He let me caress his chest. He let me gently suck his nipples.

He watched as I kissed his chest and found my hands on his pants button ... he didn't stop me as I undid his pants, unzipped his pants, and watched his pants fall to the floor. My eyes lit up as he was completely exposed, without underwear.

He quickly let my jeans fall to the floor, and gently let my thongs fall there too. Both of us naked, he led me upstairs. With my hand in his, he led me to the bed, He turned me to face him, as he caressed my body with his hands, then with his mouth. His mouth roamed my entire body. When he found himself on the insides of my thighs, I shuttered. He placed me on the bed on my back, and gently motioned my legs to part. I eagerly helped with that process.

He first rubbed the outside of my pussy with his fingers, enjoying the folds and the wetness. He then parted my lips and put his finger inside the honey jar. He pulled his finger out, and sucked my juices right off. "You taste good, Ray," he said with a heavy, husky voice. My nipples were standing at his attention as he placed his mouth on my pussy.

Oh the feeling. Oh my. He explored me with masterful skill. He quickly found all the buttons that made me squirm. He placed his hands on my thighs to keep me from scooting away from him. He was about to make me cum, but I had to stop him. For I knew of more pleasure that were to bestow us.

You see, my boyfriend was in the next room with his girlfriend. Joseph comes to our room and says, "it's time." Drew, my new love, looked at me puzzled and I said, "I assure you, baby, you will like what you see."

We walked into the next room very very quietly. There tied to the bed with a blindfold on was Jenny. Oh sweet Jenny. She was enjoying her own pleasures that I knew so well. Joseph had shared with me his plans for Jenny, and as promised, I didn't say a word. Why ruin a wonderful surprise?

Quietly, Drew and I walked to the bed. Simultaneously, Joseph, Drew, and I all started caressing her. She jumped, but only a second. She didn't expect to feel six hands caressing her body; enjoying her breasts, her nipples ... who's kisses are those? Who's tongue do I feel? Only the three of us knew.

As Drew and I were taking care of Jenny's beautiful breasts, Joseph leans in and pushes his erection in her wet, tight pussy. Jenny gasps. She has no control over what her lovers are doing to her body. She arches her back with complete ecstasy, as she cums all over Joseph's cock. He can't hold back any longer. Her body feels too good to him ... sweet creamy pussy is more than any man can stand. He cums. Drew removes her blindfold and I untie her hands. She blinks, adjusting to the light as she sees her three lovers ... her lovers who have satisfied her in a way that she has craved for a long time.

Drew lays me down and fucks me hard ... the sight of seeing Joseph fuck Jenny was more than he could take. Every thrust he made was incredible and intense. He rubbed my insides in such the right way ... before I knew it, everyone in the room knew I was cumming -- oh how hard I came. I arched my back and released ... and a second later, Drew was cumming too.

We looked over and Jenny and Joseph. Joseph had another hard on just watching us, Jenny was speechless. And wet. In an instant, we found ourselves in the arms of our own partners, turned on like we've never known after sharing the most precious thing to each of us ... our own lovers.

Hmm...I want to be Jenny. I have been tied up before, but not with six hands on me. That would be incredible. Thanks Abby for getting us all wet!!

WANTED: GUEST AUTHORS

I received such great feedback from Gina's blog...i want more of course. So, interested?? I hope you are because I need some guest writers. Tell me about your swinging experiences. :)

More Of My Latest Obsessions

• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- listen for yourself
• Ebay-you can find lots of cool shit here
• Pilates- sexy abs here I come
• Going braless- no wait...that's been my obsession for like 20 years LOL.
• Bright blue eyeshadow...I haven't gotten the nerve to wear it but it just looks so retro cool
• Espadrilles- OMG fabulous

Learnings...

I continue to learn about myself, Austin, and our relationship. I LOVE the fact that people have sex differently and that I get to experience the differences. For example, I enjoy my quiet playmates, the ones that end up surprising me with their choice of activities. I enjoy my more dominant playmates, the ones that are willing to take control of events ;). I enjoy the ones that love oral- giving and receiving. I love the ones that love a variety of positions. In essence, I love many things about playmates but the one thing that remains constant is the diversity. I love having the ability to explore with different people.

What a wonderful weekend...

Austin and I met a really nice couple a few months ago. Yesterday, we went up to visit them.

I knew that we would have a good time but -I didn't realize how super hot it would be. We arrived for dinner and were surprised to see a huge feast displayed for us. All along, he had been asking about my vegetarianism. I just thought he was extra curious; however, I now realize that he was planning the menu.

After dinner, we had lots of wine and chocolate. I am not usually a red wine drinker but for some reason, the wine was exceptionally good. Pretty soon, my clothes started coming off...seems to be a common occurrence these days :). To make a long story short...we had a really fun night and slept in late.

Lost Lives

There are very few times when I am at a loss for words...I usually have a lot to say whether people like it or not :). The Oklahoma City bombing, 911, Rawanda, Columbine, the Challenger disaster, and now...VA Tech. These are events that are very real to me. I watched them unfold and they became a part of my life history. There aren't really any words, only a mass of jumbled emotions.

More About Me...Because, As Sam Would Say- "It's All About Me"

I am an easy person to like because...

• I am somewhat animated (good entertainment value I suppose)
• Fun, Fun, Fun, and did I say fun?
• I value friendship
• I am laidback
• I am not a Judger
• I am a positive person
• I love to smile...make me smile and you will be smiling, too
• I am a genuine person
• I am very low maintenance

I am a hard person to like because...

• I am frivolous (who posts a link to their body products line on their blog?)
• I am a germ-a-phobe
• I am a hypochondriac
• I do not have a good conceptualization of time (if I am on time, the universe is out of alignment)
• I love my animals more than I like most vanilla people
• I am not "kid friendly"
• I have very few friends so if I say I like you, I truly like and respect you
• I am directionally-challenged

My Latest Obsessions

• Waxing- playmates, can I get an AMEN?
• Fall Out Boy- just creative lyrics...who talks about an arms race with such humor?
• Bones- you know, the socially inept scientist...no wait, that's me
• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- love it love it...great critical thinking
• My teeth-my parents were right when they said that straight teeth would make me feel better...almost done with braces
• Austin's hair- i love it
• John Mayer or is it Meyer?- such a sexy dude
• Zumba- a truly incredible workout...who wouldn't love a workout with a "spank that ass" move
• lip gloss- smooth kissable lips...with flavor
• glitter eyeliner- shiny, happy things excite me
• cute flats- as a self proclaimed shoe-a-holic I am finally moving away from heels.

My First Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my first guest blogger, Gina. Gina provided the following post. Perhaps she will be a regular contributor. Come to think of it...I wonder if I can convince Blake, Sam, or Yancey to be a guest blogger...hmmm. It would be interesting to have a guest blogger. Enjoy.

Spoiling My Beloved "Blake"

As you can see from the pictures of our FMF, our dear author and I enjoyed making Blake the center of attention.

An aside: I can't keep referring to her as "Dear Author", and she's conveniently never given herself a pseudonym. I'll call her Diana, after the Greek goddess of the moon. She'll like that.

What guy wouldn't like having two women to himself for an evening? Not many. I'm not into women sexually, but I enjoy seeing Blake happy. I also enjoy seeing him with Diana. They are into each other, and the sight of them together is so erotic.

Seeing your loved one get excited from a new perspective, and seeing a beautiful and intelligent woman get turned on by being with him, is really hot for me...this was one of the biggest surprises about swinging. With Diana in particular, the obvious contrast in their skin color is a huge turn-on. Then there are their smiles, their moans... and Diana is blessed with the ability to have orgasms at the drop of a hat.

We started in the living room with some wine, where Blake took the picture of Diana on our loveseat. We moved into the bedroom, where Blake put the camera on a bookshelf and set it up to take a picture once every minute. Then we all kissed, caressed, sucked and nibbled each other standing up.

After a few minutes of that, Diana and I laid Blake out on the bed and went to serious work on him. Diana slowly crawled up his body until she was sitting on his face, while I went down on him. Later, he got to go from one of us to the other at will, with both of us looking up at him adoringly. Lots of other fun things happened, but a play-by-play description isn't what I'm after here.

A good time was had by all, and all were in harmony. I had a smile on my face the whole time, seeing how happy my beloved was... and also knowing I'd get to be the center of attention soon, between him and the amazing Austin.

Photo Album is Working

My photo album is finally working. Please take a look and tell me what you think.

Two turn tables and a microphone...or two more threesomes and a six-way!

This week has been very busy for Austin and me. Austin surprised me by setting up a threesome with Sam. A recap...Austin text messaged me and said that we were having a threesome. Cool. As usual, it was pretty damn amazing. Thanks to Yancey for letting Sam come over!!

The next day, Austin had a threesome with Blake and Gina. They did not take any pictures... how disappointing. But...they did share some of the juicy details. Of course, the "happenings" are too tantalizing to share on this site. LOL

Then, this weekend, we had our orgy. Ok, it wasn't a true orgy, but it was a bonafide six-way. It was phenomenal. We met at the host's house and the six of us piled into two cars to have dinner. We were so hungry!

Dinner was good. We had light flirting between courses; tiny kisses and leg squeezes under the table. :). We finally went back to our host's house and had some tequila. I have always been told to avoid tequila at all costs. I also don't like "hard core" drinks. Anyway, I decided to partake and actually did three shots (not consecutively of course).

So, we were all feeling pretty nice and the festivities began...we played a sex game that got everyone in the mood. A few minutes into the game, moaning started to emerge...I can only say that this experience has really spoiled me. Damn, I wish I had some pictures to post.

I am pretty exhausted right now- those folks wore me out in so many ways. I am tired but I have such yummy memories.

Photo album is not working...

My photo album is not working...Sorry. I am going to try and fix it this week. Stop the tears...as Sam would say...It's all about me :).

OUTED...YIPES!!

We had a great time at our party. Everyone behaved him or herself :). Vanilla and non-vanilla interacted harmoniously. The vanilla folks did not know that non-vanillas were even present. All was right with the world untill...

A friend, the only vanilla person that knew, told his mother about us. YIPES!!! He said he did it because his mother "noticed" something odd between us and another couple (Gina and Blake to be specific) and started asking a lot of questions. Hmmm...not sure if I believe that. She also started asking how we knew certain people. According to our friend, his mother thought there were at least three swinging couples there. Hmmm....interesting.

Austin and I are annoyed because he not only outed us, but our friends as well (by association). We have known him for over ten years and have seen him weather some pretty difficult times. I am saddened that he would disclose this. AN aside...we thought very long about disclosing this information to him.

By the way, I asked him why his mother had her "swingdar on." Seems like it takes one to know one. He didn't like that comment at all.

Amanda and Burke!!!

Our friends, the other couple are Amanda and Burke. I sometimes forget my pseudonyms. LOL...

More Pics of a Different MFM...

Austin and Blake had Gina in a brief MFM situation. I snapped a few pics...Austin, Gina, and Blake are having a threesome this week and I am definitely sending my camera with Austin.

A party, a threesome, and more craziness!!

First, I apologize for the delay in my posts. Austin and I had an internet problem and finally got it resolved yesterday. So, I have lots of news to discuss.

Austin was out of town so I went to visit Gina and Blake and had a little threesome fun with them. this picture is before the action began. Blake snapped this picture as I relaxed with a glass of wine.
We moved to the bedroom and the three of us began enjoying each other. There were many things going on and I absolutely loved it. Afterwards, we were so tired and completely spent. I really have to admit that it was absolutely incredible. Austin and I also had a party...and guess what...we had about 20 people and three of the couples were swingers (not including Austin and me)! This was our first time mixing vanilla and non-vanilla friends. of course, the vanilla couples did not know that swingers were present...wouldn't want to emotionally scar anyone. By the way, Blake and Gina and Sam and Yancy were present along with another couple (I can't remember their pseudonym). It was an uber fun time!!

We are going to a swinger meet-and-greet in TN this summer. I guess we are becoming less like "newbies" and more like "old timers." We aren't going alone...we are going with another couple...LOL