Sunday, May 27, 2007

Lovely Weekend...

We just returned from visiting friends. We had a really nice time. I don't know if I have mentioned this before, but they have the cleanest and most organized house that I have ever seen. It is amazing.

They are very nice people...witty and sexy. They live a few hours away so we don't see them often. They have been swinging for over four years and have a lot of interesting stories. We always seem to have really stimulating conversations.

We ended up spending the night and leaving this morning. One thing I really love is that they are very health conscious; we had a wonderful and healthy breakfast.

Saturday, May 26, 2007

Have you viewed my photo album recently?

Have you viewed my photo album recently? Take a peek and let me know what you think about the pictures ;0.

Back at Blogging

Hi everyone...

I was just looking at the dates. I can't believe that I haven't written in at least a week. I am going back through my head trying to remember the events of the last week.

Well, Gina and Blake are on vacation. Jude just returned from a trip with his partner. Sam and Yancey are busy as well. I text messaged Sam and he sent a cute text message back. he he!!

Tonight we are going up to see friends. We see them perhaps every few months. It is a nice arrangement.

Amazing things going on right now...
I haven't been waxed in two months and I am still relatively smooth. It is amazing.
My insomnia is getting better...finally.
American Idol is finally over...Blake versus Jordin? What the hell kind of match up was that???
I forgot that Monday is a holiday...
I have started doing crafts again
I had the best gelato last night
My ipod rocks

Monday, May 21, 2007

Oh, by the way....

The jeans in the previous post are my new favorites. I have such a difficult time finding clothes that fit. I love the fact that these jeans are cropped and super low. I LOVE super low clothing. I think these jeans are so much fun!!

Busy With Life




It just occurred to me that I haven't written in over a week. We have been so busy with life. I was offered a new job but decided to decline. That was a really tough decision for me...however, a move just did not feel right at this moment. Also, I have had chronic insomnia and this weekend was the first weekend that I was actually able to sleep.




Blake and Gina came over on Friday and we had a wonderful time. I think I drank way too much wine...it doesn't take much. I am not a drinker at all so when I do partake, it impacts me very quickly.
We are headed up north this weekend to play with friends that we met a few months ago. They are very sensitive about pictures so don't expect any on this site LOL! I have not mentioned them on this blog out of respect for their privacy. They have been swinging for about 5 years and are very discrete (Austin and I really like that).
I was talking to Gina about how we both have become "more relaxed" about people who know about our lifestyle. To update you...once upon a time, we were terrified of others finding out. I am still concerned, but not as paranoid as I was before. Right now, there are only three people that we have told. My cousin, Austin's sister, and Austin's friend (or should I sayEx-friend).
I am babbling right now...I guess I still need to catch up on my sleep.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Busy Weekend- First MFM without Austin

Ever do something that feels so surreal that you just can't believe you are doing it?? He he!! I had my first MFM without Austin. Gina went to visit Austin this weekend and I went to visit Blake and "sexy mystery man." I say "sexy mystery man" because I gave him an alias a while ago and can't remember it. Ha!! I knew that it was only a matter of time before that happened. But anyway, I had a fabulous time and I hope they know just what an incredible time I had...I wanted to take pictures but alas...we were busy! Then "sexy mystery man" cooked breakfast mmm!!!

So, Blake, do I really taste like honey??

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Meet and Greet

We went to a meet and greet yesterday. It was at a local bar that I hadn't been to in about 10 years. It was pretty uneventful. There were about six couples...but it was still early.

Monday, May 07, 2007

Upcoming Birthdays

Austin and I were born within two months of each other. Of course he was born first so he thinks he is so much wiser than me. Ha- is all that I can say. Anyway, we are both about to experience a birthday. I decided to spend a few seconds thinking about what it means to grow older as a swinger.

I never really thought about age (until I realized I was too old for America's Next Top Model). It's odd, I don't feel like I am going to be 35. Actually, I feel a lot younger and sexier. I think swinging has a lot to do with this. There is something quite nice about having fabulous sex with multiple partners.

Anyway, I have noticed a few things about aging; some good and some not so good. Here's my non-exhaustive list.


  • Being called ma'am (how the hell do you spell that?)- I have noticed that more people call me this lately.
  • I have started looking into anti-aging serums- yes, I am quite vain; I embrace my vanity.
  • During my last annual visit, I had my oral contraceptives changed..."these work better for women of your age" Damn it...are my ovaries feeling the age?
  • I don't have any grey hairs on my head...instead, they prefer to congregate in the "nether region" which is good but I bet dyeing your head feels better than waxing your kitty.
  • I seem to care less about what others think...well this isn't all true- I still want to be told frequently how fabulous I am (just kidding)
  • People are less surprised by my academic achievements. I am a big geek and people are ususally surprised by my geeky acomplishments.
  • It takes freakin' forever to burn off calories. Need I say more? I have finally come to the realization that I will never have the flat stomach I desire.

I am sure that there are millions of other things :).

Sunday, May 06, 2007

Hey There!!

I am recovering from a super busy week. This week was exceptionally difficult- It is always difficult when you are seen as an "expert." Sometimes I wonder how I do not go insane from my job; well, perhaps I am already and do not realize it :).

We had dinner with Sam and Yancey this week. MMMM! Dinner was lovely except that at the end of dinner, I saw a roach crawling on the wall. It definitely was a mood breaker. I am such a germ-a-phobe and I expect to have at least one nightmare about this.

A few days after dinner, Austin had an MFM with Sam and Yancey. Of course I bet it was hot and sexy. I can only imagine some of the things that Austin and Sam did to Yancey. The thought is really hot and of course my body is responding at this moment wink wink. I can't wait for Sam and Austin to reciprocate.

Anyway, at this moment, I am feeling a little sick. My nose is running and my eyes are red and itchy. I am convinced that I am getting a cold or having a severe allergic reaction. I vote for the allergic reaction. This could also be exacerbated by my insonmina. I have always had difficulty remaining asleep...as I get older, it seems to get worse. So...I have bad allergies and I can't sleep. Jealous??

Anyway, I am hoping to see Sam and Austin this week. He he!! I am also hoping to do a photoshoot with Austin this week.