"I bet this would be great for your blog..."

Our second orgy...hey, we did decide that 6 people made an orgy, right. And Wow!! To protect the innocent- I will describe the scene without pseudonyms. LOL.

The six of us had a first...I believe it is called a "daisy chain." There were six of us all linked in the debauchery of oral sex. Of course, sexy Jude pointed it out to me while we were entwined.
Ok, I said no names, but you had to guess that he was involved!!

The only thing that would have been better would have been pictures!!!

New Toy...

Ok, now this video thing is very cool. Watch out for more videos :).

New Blogger Features are cool!

Blogger has a new feature and this is my first time trying it out. It is...video. So now, you can see me actually move. LOL. I am doing some dance moves.

Yesterday, we went to visit Burke and Amanda. Remember, our vanilla, non-vanilla friends :). Anyway, it was a lot of fun seeing them. They are a really sweet couple and we are lucky to have met them.

Updates Updates!!

We met a new couple a few months ago and decided to play with them last weekend. We had a fun time. This week, Gina came over and had a chance to play with Austin by himself. I was busy with random stuff and didn't get home until late. I think they wanted me to join them, but I was totally exhausted.

So what does it feel like to come home and find your husband having sex with another woman? Actually, I was so exhausted, I couldn't even enjoy the scene to the fullest LOL!!!

Fun Weekend

Austin and I went to visit a couple this weekend. We met them about four or five months ago and really enjoy playing with them. Our first meeting was at this Thai restaurant and we really clicked. They are both really sweet people, very fascinating.

This week is going to be kind of hectic. Austin has a lot of business to do this week and will be in and out of town. I have a bunch of work stuff to do and am feeling somewhat exhausted already :).

Fun Sort of Vanilla Party

Last night we went to Burke and Amanda's for a vanilla party. There were three couples there who were swingers but everyone else was pure vanilla. Oh, did I mention that Blake and Amanda have converted a vanilla couple. LOL. Anyway, we had a wonderful time. Burke and Amanda are incredibly sweet and Austin and I look forward to spending more time with them.

Update...

Happy Birthday Burke of Burke and Amanda!

We have a playdate set up with friends from out of town. We will go in a few weeks. Austin and I are pretty busy with non-port stuff for the next few weeks.

Here are more pics of the photoshoot.

New Photoshoot With Gina and Blake

We have all needed new profile shots Gina, Blake, Austin, and I decided to take some pictures. Here are some of the pictures of Austin and me.

Austin has been working out and looks fabulous...

The Weekend...The Weekend..

I am so glad that it is the weekend. It has been such a hectic week and I truly need a nice break. Austin asked me if I wanted to play this weekend and I would love to...but I am so tired..

I think I need a weekend to just rest. An aside: I had a weird dream last night. I dreamed that my mother googled my name and found this blog. LOL!!!

I would love to have another threesome with Jude and Bridget. They were out of town and just returned. I am hoping that we can connect really soon.

Oh, I am almost finished with my braces!! Whew!

By the way, thank you to all of you who commented on my pics. Perhaps I will have to take more this week.

By the way, can you believe that I have written this blog for a full year? I can't believe how quickly the time has passed. It is also odd to say that we have been swinging for over a year. :) Thanks so much for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New Pictures...

I haven't taken any new pictures in a while. So, I decided to play with the camera today. What do you think??

Just a quick reminder...

Don't forget to sign my guestbook and check out my photo album ;).

My Hot List...

What's on my radar??

I don't just think about swinging. I have a diverse repertoire of thoughts :).

1. J.T.'s Love Stoned



2. Lush Just Opened a New Store



3. Yoga taught in Sanskrit



4. Glitter



5. Good deals on Ebay



6. Puppies and kittens



7. The TV Show Bones



8. Thinking about getting a new laptop



9. Making an appointment to get waxed



10. Thinking about getting certified to teach aerobics



11. Trying to figure out a new design for a tattoo

Becoming...

I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming?? I definitely don't feel like a "newbie" anymore and I am not quite sure how I feel about that. Are we "living the lifestyle?" Seems like we are always having port activities. And...now we are meeting "newbies" that ask us questions. It is very surreal. This past year has been a whirlwind of emotions and experiences...some good, some great. I can honestly say that Austin and I have grown as a couple. We have learned much about our selves and our relationship. But, I can't help but wonder...what are we becoming???

MMMMM....Martinis

This was a Martini weekend. On Friday, we met a new couple, Keri and Stan. Ok, let me explain why this was a first for us. We usually chat a few times with couples before we meet. Once upon a time, I did almost all of the chatting. But I became somewhat jaded and decided that I wouldn't chat with anyone anymore. I decided that I would leave that up to Austin. So...I didn't have any contact with Keri and Stan before meeting. Honestly, I glanced at their profile for ten seconds to give Austin the ok.

So, I went into this with an open mind and without expectations. We met for drinks and I had...surprise surprise...a sour apple martini and a pomegranate martini. They were both mediocre. But the company was really nice. We went dancing afterwards and that was much fun. The atmosphere reminded me of a frat party. It was loud and there were a lot of very attractive people drinking and hitting on each other. The atmosphere was very flirty...can I use that as an adjective in this situation? Oh well, I am not one for following rules. Right Austin?? Anyway, Keri and Stan are outgoing and like to have fun.

Then on Saturday, we went to Amanda and Burke's house for a house party. All of the women had on sexy lingerie and the men were dressed a la Hugh Heffner. It was a fabulous time. This was a bonafide orgy. People touching and etc. etc. I can believe how sexy the night was.

We were there for less than an hour when the sex began. It was a living porno. Everyone was naked. And...I did get a chance to play with Amanda and Burke...if only for a few minutes. The surprise of the evening is that we got to meet Lola and Daniel. A few of our friends had mentioned them to us and we knew that they were interested in meeting us. Lola is strikingly beautiful and I knew that Austin totally dug her. Daniel is incredibly sexy and extremely passionate. And...the funny thing is that they live very close to us LOL!!

I really need to buy some new lingerie. Last night, I wore my pink outfit. Take a peek at my photo album to refresh your memory. Anyway, I really want to build my sexy wardrobe.

Remember...

Check out my photo album and sign my guest book.

Sleep Clinic Update...

Jude, Bridget, Blake, Gina, Austin and I celebrated a birthday on Saturday. I won't say whose birthday it was :). he he!! Anyway, the group, sans me went on an excursion. I didn't go because I am definitely not the outdoor type. By the way, on Saturday, I had a first. My first threesome with Bridget and Jude. It was really fabulous. Actually, pretty spectacular. Honestly, I think the fact that Bridget is super-bi made it an incredibly erotic experience.

Sleep Update:

I have been pretty exhausted lately. My sleeping has waxed and waned and I have been trying to avoid taking medication. I haven't been to the sleep clinic yet. I have been procrastinating. The funny thing is that I slept with Jude (actually I literally slept with Jude) on Saturday night and he has a theory about why I am not sleeping. He thinks I have difficulty breathing. Ok, Jude, M.D. we will see what the sleep specialist has to say :). LOL!! Anyway, I am hoping that the sleep clinic helps. I will keep you updated.

Did I mention that we are going to a houseparty this weekend? All I can say is that I am going to be all glittered up. I have a million kinds of glitter and I intend on using at least 999,999 of them :). Austin is not a huge fan of glitter...he thinks I use way too much and it gets everywhere.

And now for my sad news...

Also, I have been thinking a lot about our dog that died in December. I can't believe how raw it still feels for me. I was searching through some pictures and there he was....all young and vibrant. I had to fight the tears. I am still grieving. I have been told that if you truly love someone, you never stop grieving....the grief lessens but never totally fades. I am convinced that this must be true.

A Date or two...

Austin and I had dinner with Sam and Yancey. I have to laugh because we ate outside and Sam and Yancey had an opportunity to see my germ-a-phobia in full effect. There were flies everywhere and I had a tiny melt down. Yancey actually killed one a-la-ninja style. Anyway, I am hoping to see Sam very soon. There is something very sweet, yet absolutely naughty about him that I totally dig. Yancey is my new female hero...she knows why!!

We saw Jude, Bridget, Blake, and Gina this weekend. First, the five of us (sans Jude) went to dinner and then to a show. The show was interesting. Not fabulous, but interesting. Then, we left to go back to Blake and Gina's place for dessert.

We had some lovely wine and such and then the festivities began. Bridget is very bi...which I love because it gives everyone an opportunity to explore sex in a very taboo way. I especially love it when I have multiple persons focused on me :).

Around midnight or so, Jude arrived...he was out of town. And it was very nice to see him. Everyone was nude and he quickly shed his clothing as well. All I can say is that he is damn sexy. He has this way of looking at you so that you know that he wants you.

Jude and Bridget came over on Friday. We had a wonderful dinner and then had a wonderful time afterwards. I hadn't seen Jude in forever and it felt really exciting being with him. As we were having sex (I was sitting on his lap), I looked down and everything looked so erotic and sexy- I wanted a camera! Jude is so sexy and doesn't even know it.

Bridget is a cutie. Austin had a lot of fun with her. We had a threesome with her a few weeks ago and would love to have a repeat. :)

On another note...I am going to a sleep clinic. My doctor suspects chronic insomnia. So, I will have to keep you informed.

Insomnia...

I can't sleep. I took a two hour nap today and don't feel the least bit tired. So, I decided to check my messages and write a blog entry.

I was talking with Austin about our swinging. He is ready to meet another couple and I am very lukewarm about it. I guess, I do not want to go through the whole dating "anyone new routine." It is so exhausting!! And...I feel really excited about the couples that we are with now.

So, I will have to update you on our progress soon.

Start of the Week...

Just thought I would give a brief update.

New Show- America's Got Talent is so funny. Don't hassle with the hoff is classic. Yes, he may be a drunk, but a funny drunk.

I am FAT-I just purchased and used a new body fat analyis instrument that I purchased for Austin. I am so bummed...It said that I am slightly obese!! NO Kidding!! And..it said that Austin is obese. So of course this just feeds into my obession. :). Anyway, a few people have said that the instruments aren't as accurate for those with an athletic build. Hmm...perhaps but still not comforting.

LOVE my yoga class- I am taking a fabulous class...yoga. It is relaxing and tough at the same time.

Still thinking about playing with Sam- Hmm...very tasty!! Yancey totally rocks.

Whew! Worn Out!!

I just had a delightfully sexy evening with Sam. Very, very nice. It was just incredible. Thanks to Yancey for letting me borrow her sexy dude. By the way, Austin told me what a wonderful time he had with you guys on yesterday :).

So, I am headed to bed...exhausted and worn out.

Updates...

We have been so busy. We took a brief vacation. During our vacation, we did a photo shoot. Here are a few pictures...Be on the lookout for additional pics later. Austin just got back from playing with Sam and Yancey. He says that he had a fabulous time. Tomorrow, he is headed to see Gina and Blake and Sam is coming over to say hello to me.

Fun Dinner With Sam and Yancey

We had a nice dinner with Sam and Yancey. It was so wonderful to catch up with them. The food was really good but...I saw a roach crawling on the wall and it really creeped me out. As we speak, I am trying to erase the image from my head. So, instead of that damn bug, I am thinking of images of Sam being very naughty...mmm. And I do mean very very naughty. Yummy.

Weekend Update...yes another update.

Gina and Blake came over. I must say it is funny to type the word "came." There was much ass grabbing and moaning to be had. The funny thing is that I wanted to take pictures but didn't have time to grab my camera. Gina mentioned that they had their camera as well. Amazingly, pictures did not get taken.

We are having dinner with Sam and Yancey tonight. Austin just set that up a few minutes ago. We haven't seen them in a while and it will be really fun to catch up with them.

Also, there is a new couple that we have been chatting with for a while. They are both super cute and he is hysterical. The four of us have decided to take things slowly for a number of reasons. No need to rush anything of course. I will call them Jack and Barrett. Jack in honor of one of my favorite characters, Jack Sparrow. You Johnny Depp fans will understand this one I am sure. Barrett in honor of my undergraduate years. Anyway, I am hoping that we get a chance to meet them soon...

Finally, I have to say that the time on blogger is still off. It says 4:33 but it is really 5:33. Also, I have to figure out what I will wear for dinner. My hair is still wet (I don't usually blow dry it) and it is all over my head.

By the way, Congrats to Jude and Bridget for their recent marriage. They are such a nice couple and deserve much happiness.

On a tangent...and then I am really going. We have met some of the nicest couples through swinging. I think Austin and I both agree that we have become very stringent in our screening process. Of course I still have my fears, but getting to know such really nice couples has helped a lot.

Special Note To Yancey

Hmmm...Why don't you bring Sam over and he can play with my yoga toes!!

New Obsessions

1. The iPhone...It looks like it totally rocks.
2. Orange toenail polish...orange is the new pink!
3. Zumba...what a fabulous aerobic time!
4. Cute hair clips with lots of sparkles
5. Yoga...Yoga...Yoga
6. Bones...the show...smart and sexy scientist...i envy her!!

Yoga Toes Explained...

Sounds like you want to know the secret about yoga toes. They gently stretch your toes and place your feet in the correct position. They are very relaxing. As an ex-dancer, I have lots of foot pain and such. These devices are so amazing. I swear I am addicted. I am going to purchase another pair so I can have one at work and one at home.

More Info on Yoga Toes...

Ok, I am not into shameless plugs but...I am absolutely addicted to these. My feet actually feel different after using these. I am a true fan!! http://www.yogapro.com/ts/toestretcher.html

Funny Cold Sore Story

I truly am a germ-a-phobe. I accept that. So, the fact that we are swingers is hysterical!! Anyway, I have never disclosed this story to anyone. I am hoping that certain parties don't see this.

Austin and I met several times with a nice couple. The last time...the operative word is "last" that we met, he arrived at our house bearing gifts--a huge cold sore on his upper lip. OF course I looked at him and said...what is that on your lip? I guess it was my way of saying...I am paranoid about germs and cold sores are very contagious...please leave.

Now, before you make comments that everyone has been exposed to herpes simplex 1...remember that it can be transferred to the nether regions. So...you can have herpes simplex 1 on your genitals and vice versa with simplex 2. By the way, I haven't had a cold sore since I was about three years old. I am not superstitious but I feel like I should knock on wood or something like that.

Ok...I thought it was really weird to go on a swing date with a cold sore. Who would do that? I think I would have just cancelled. I mean...over 90% of the population gets them ---but you want your swing partners to see you in the best light.

So, what happened?? Well, he nervously told me that he gets them when he gets stressed and we had dinner and that was that....

My Latest Obsession

Yoga Toes...They are these medical grade plastic toe stretchers. They are incredible...you must get a pair.

STDs Part Deux

I remember in college I found out that one of my sorority sisters had genital warts. I remember everyone thinking she was very slutty. The rumor was that she caught warts from a one night stand with a truck driver. That rumor just enhanced the image of the "sleazy, sex starved coed who was risky and deserved her "scarlet gw."

Today, I realize how vulnerable we all are. We have to make good choices regarding our activities and our partners. I hope that others realize this as well.

Weekend Update

Bridget came over on Friday to hang out with Austin and me. She is an absolutely beautiful woman. I think I mentioned that she looks like Andie McDowell. We all went out for dinner...Thai of course. After dinner we had a drink and then the port began. The three of us had a fabulous time. The next morning, my mom showed up at 7:00 to pick me up for a roadtrip.

The morning reminded me of being a teenager. The three of us got up to search for "swinger residue." Fortunately, my mother did not ask any questions regarding the "pretty brunette" at our house at 7 in the morning. LOL!!

I left to go on the roadtrip with my mom and Austin went to visit Gina and Blake...Bridget was there as well. Austin reported that he had a wonderful time.

I am really looking forward to seeing Gina and Blake soon. I am also looking forward to seeing Sam. He sent a very cute email and I am definitely craving my Sam time. I haven't seen him or Yancey for a while and I miss them!!

STDs

A friend and I were chatting about STDs. Apparently, there is a resurgence of certain STDs (or should I say STIs- sexually transmitted infections). Apparently, it is young adults that are causing the resurgence. Young adults that don't remember what it was like to actually fear things like HIV.

I have tried to locate reliable studies that determine the prevalence of STDs in swingers. Unfortunately, I haven't located anything that is empirically-valid. I truly wonder how we rate. My thought is that being in committed relationships may make swingers a little more cautious. However, I don't want to group all swingers together. Some are really reckless.

Another issue is disclosure. My friend watched a show about STDs where people were asked to anonymously report if they had ever knowingly had risky sex while they were infected with a STD. There were numerous calls. Most disclosed about how they were angry that they got "burned" and they didn't care if they passed it on. This is very scary to me. It seems that anger motivates the spreading of illnesses...some of which are not treatable.

All Alone

I am all alone this weekend. Austin is away at a very grueling athletic event. I am so proud of him. I am a tad bit lonely. Of course, I could call someone to come over but I am trying to take a personal break from swinging for a while. The funny thing is that if someone asked me to play I probably would want to :).

So what does this personal break mean? Well, I just find us doing so many things that I need a short break...in other words...I need a few weekends to myself. Don't for a minute think that I am not enjoying swinging...It is just that I have a bunch of things that I would like to spend some time on right now.

So, this weekend, I have been working on a couple of reports for work and watching the History Channel. They have a cool True Crime series that is quite fascinating.

What is on my IPOD?
Girlfriend- Avril Lavinge
Give it to Me- Nelly Frutato, Timbaland, and J. Timbers (my nickname for Justin Timberlake)
Glory Bound- Martin Sexton
Beautiful Liar- Beyonce and Shakira
Sweet Escape- Gwen Steffani

Oh...I almost forgot...I am almost done with braces!! I had some brackets put on my teeth to help them move. It is part of the refinement process. I am still getting used to looking like Frankenstein. Actually, I don't know how blow jobs (is this one word or two??) are going to be with them. I may have to refrain!

Lovely Weekend...

We just returned from visiting friends. We had a really nice time. I don't know if I have mentioned this before, but they have the cleanest and most organized house that I have ever seen. It is amazing.

They are very nice people...witty and sexy. They live a few hours away so we don't see them often. They have been swinging for over four years and have a lot of interesting stories. We always seem to have really stimulating conversations.

We ended up spending the night and leaving this morning. One thing I really love is that they are very health conscious; we had a wonderful and healthy breakfast.

Have you viewed my photo album recently?

Have you viewed my photo album recently? Take a peek and let me know what you think about the pictures ;0.

Back at Blogging

Hi everyone...

I was just looking at the dates. I can't believe that I haven't written in at least a week. I am going back through my head trying to remember the events of the last week.

Well, Gina and Blake are on vacation. Jude just returned from a trip with his partner. Sam and Yancey are busy as well. I text messaged Sam and he sent a cute text message back. he he!!

Tonight we are going up to see friends. We see them perhaps every few months. It is a nice arrangement.

Amazing things going on right now...
I haven't been waxed in two months and I am still relatively smooth. It is amazing.
My insomnia is getting better...finally.
American Idol is finally over...Blake versus Jordin? What the hell kind of match up was that???
I forgot that Monday is a holiday...
I have started doing crafts again
I had the best gelato last night
My ipod rocks

Oh, by the way....

The jeans in the previous post are my new favorites. I have such a difficult time finding clothes that fit. I love the fact that these jeans are cropped and super low. I LOVE super low clothing. I think these jeans are so much fun!!

Busy With Life

It just occurred to me that I haven't written in over a week. We have been so busy with life. I was offered a new job but decided to decline. That was a really tough decision for me...however, a move just did not feel right at this moment. Also, I have had chronic insomnia and this weekend was the first weekend that I was actually able to sleep.

Blake and Gina came over on Friday and we had a wonderful time. I think I drank way too much wine...it doesn't take much. I am not a drinker at all so when I do partake, it impacts me very quickly.

We are headed up north this weekend to play with friends that we met a few months ago. They are very sensitive about pictures so don't expect any on this site LOL! I have not mentioned them on this blog out of respect for their privacy. They have been swinging for about 5 years and are very discrete (Austin and I really like that).

I was talking to Gina about how we both have become "more relaxed" about people who know about our lifestyle. To update you...once upon a time, we were terrified of others finding out. I am still concerned, but not as paranoid as I was before. Right now, there are only three people that we have told. My cousin, Austin's sister, and Austin's friend (or should I sayEx-friend).

I am babbling right now...I guess I still need to catch up on my sleep.

Busy Weekend- First MFM without Austin

Ever do something that feels so surreal that you just can't believe you are doing it?? He he!! I had my first MFM without Austin. Gina went to visit Austin this weekend and I went to visit Blake and "sexy mystery man." I say "sexy mystery man" because I gave him an alias a while ago and can't remember it. Ha!! I knew that it was only a matter of time before that happened. But anyway, I had a fabulous time and I hope they know just what an incredible time I had...I wanted to take pictures but alas...we were busy! Then "sexy mystery man" cooked breakfast mmm!!!

So, Blake, do I really taste like honey??

Meet and Greet

We went to a meet and greet yesterday. It was at a local bar that I hadn't been to in about 10 years. It was pretty uneventful. There were about six couples...but it was still early.

Upcoming Birthdays

Austin and I were born within two months of each other. Of course he was born first so he thinks he is so much wiser than me. Ha- is all that I can say. Anyway, we are both about to experience a birthday. I decided to spend a few seconds thinking about what it means to grow older as a swinger.

I never really thought about age (until I realized I was too old for America's Next Top Model). It's odd, I don't feel like I am going to be 35. Actually, I feel a lot younger and sexier. I think swinging has a lot to do with this. There is something quite nice about having fabulous sex with multiple partners.

Anyway, I have noticed a few things about aging; some good and some not so good. Here's my non-exhaustive list.

• Being called ma'am (how the hell do you spell that?)- I have noticed that more people call me this lately.
• I have started looking into anti-aging serums- yes, I am quite vain; I embrace my vanity.
• During my last annual visit, I had my oral contraceptives changed..."these work better for women of your age" Damn it...are my ovaries feeling the age?
• I don't have any grey hairs on my head...instead, they prefer to congregate in the "nether region" which is good but I bet dyeing your head feels better than waxing your kitty.
• I seem to care less about what others think...well this isn't all true- I still want to be told frequently how fabulous I am (just kidding)
• People are less surprised by my academic achievements. I am a big geek and people are ususally surprised by my geeky acomplishments.
• It takes freakin' forever to burn off calories. Need I say more? I have finally come to the realization that I will never have the flat stomach I desire.

I am sure that there are millions of other things :).

Hey There!!

I am recovering from a super busy week. This week was exceptionally difficult- It is always difficult when you are seen as an "expert." Sometimes I wonder how I do not go insane from my job; well, perhaps I am already and do not realize it :).

We had dinner with Sam and Yancey this week. MMMM! Dinner was lovely except that at the end of dinner, I saw a roach crawling on the wall. It definitely was a mood breaker. I am such a germ-a-phobe and I expect to have at least one nightmare about this.

A few days after dinner, Austin had an MFM with Sam and Yancey. Of course I bet it was hot and sexy. I can only imagine some of the things that Austin and Sam did to Yancey. The thought is really hot and of course my body is responding at this moment wink wink. I can't wait for Sam and Austin to reciprocate.

Anyway, at this moment, I am feeling a little sick. My nose is running and my eyes are red and itchy. I am convinced that I am getting a cold or having a severe allergic reaction. I vote for the allergic reaction. This could also be exacerbated by my insonmina. I have always had difficulty remaining asleep...as I get older, it seems to get worse. So...I have bad allergies and I can't sleep. Jealous??

Anyway, I am hoping to see Sam and Austin this week. He he!! I am also hoping to do a photoshoot with Austin this week.

Ohh! Almost Forgot...

Dessert was wonderful. I took a Bavarian cake (similar to angel food cake) and covered it with fresh strawberries and whipped creme. Thank you to a special reader who gave me the idea. It was quite yummy :).

OUR ORGY AT THE CABIN?

We had a wonderful time at the cabin. It was absolutely beautiful-rolling topography, abundant wildlife, lots of sex :). Austin said that he looked up and there were three gorgeous hotties dressed in sexy nighties...he was so "googly-eyed" and wanted to know if we had planned it. No, we didn't- we all just independently decided to bring our wares. Our friends are fantastic people...and playmates as well!

I wanted to take some pics but to be quite honest, I was much too busy being naughty!! So, a picture of the cabin will have to suffice.

There is a question mark in this blog entry because there is some debate as to whether a five person tryst is a true orgy. Since the dawn of time, philosophers have debated and tried to quantify the threshold for an "orgy." Wars have been fought and many have lost reputations over this. So...what constitues a true orgy. Personally, I believe that the threshold is anything over four. However, it is important to mention that participants must not "pair up." Instead, they must be open to activities with all participants. In our case, the men were the only ones that did not actively play with each other. Ok, double standard but we won't discuss that now.

And a good time was had by all...

I have always wanted to be tied up during sex. One time, Austin tied me up and it was wonderful...however, I have tiny arms and could easily get out of the restraints. Last night during our MFM, Austin produced some new restraints and said, "you won't be getting out of these." He was right. In fact, we had to have an emergency pair of scissors nearby.

Update

Tomorrow we are having our first MFM with Blake. So far, our only MFM adventures have been with sexy Sam. So...it will be really wonderful to say that I am finally not an MFM "newbie" anymore. Blake and Austin had an MFM with Gina and I heard tantalizing stories of restraints and blindfolds for weeks afterwards. Hmm...wonder if I will have any stories...Which reminds me...I think I am overdue for an adventure with Sam.

Jealous?? You can join in as well. Tomorrow at dinner time, think about me with my Sexy partners. You may even feel a little of my ecstacy!!

This weekend, we are having another 6-way. We have rented a cabin and expect to have a wonderful time hanging out. Blake and Gina will be there along with another couple that we have both been sharing port with. They have asked me to prepare dessert on one of the days...hmmm...that will definitely be an adventure. Any ideas on what I should serve?

Hard To Find Cute Jeans

IT is hard to find good fitting jeans for my body shape and size. I like these slouchy low rise jeans. They are by Buckle.

How Knowledgeable Are You On Sexual Euphemisms?

I bought a book a few weeks ago, The Contemporary Dictionary of Sexual Euphemisms by Jordan Tate. Many of these phrases are derived from racial or sexual stereotypes. A few are derived from politics. LOL...It is interesting to read the origins of phrases.

So...How many eupehemisms do you recognize?

• sweater puppies
• taking the skin boat to tuna town
• shooting putty at the moon
• Blind Houdini
• Dirty Sanchez
• pearl necklace
• box lunch at the 'Y'
• paddle the pickle
• paint the pickle
• Reaganomics
• postman
• Little Dutch Boy
• Little Red Riding Hood
• Challenger
• Beverly Hillbilly
• Rodeo
• George Walker

My Second Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my second guest blogger. We met Abby and Sean last year. They are a very sweet and sexy couple. I am happy that Abby decided to share some of her adventures with us. Enjoy...

I saw him in person for the first time. His pictures just didn't do him justice. And the pictures didn't capture his laid back personality and "anything goes" attitude. He talked, but just for a minute or two. Talking wasn't the reason we had met that day.

He pulled me to him ... and even before he did, I was nervous. Nervous with anticipation. Would he find me as attractive as I found him? Maybe he would find me too chunky or something. His pulling me to him told me the answers to my questions and silly female insecurities.

He kissed me. Such tender lips ... I felt his breath on me. He looked at me, and kissed me again. I felt a surge ... a surge of blood going strait to my nether regions. He then began kissing my neck ... and I realized that I felt his hands in some wonderful places. He was caressing my abdomen, caressing my back, and his hands found their way to my breasts. In a New York minute, he had my bra on the floor.He pulled my shirt over my head and there I was exposing him to my breasts. He caressed them with ease ... he caressed them with the intensity of a man who knew just how women loved to feel a man's hand. He kissed them, and concentrated on sucking my nipples.I pulled his shirt over his head. What a sight. Such a manly chest before my eyes. He let me caress his chest. He let me gently suck his nipples.

He watched as I kissed his chest and found my hands on his pants button ... he didn't stop me as I undid his pants, unzipped his pants, and watched his pants fall to the floor. My eyes lit up as he was completely exposed, without underwear.

He quickly let my jeans fall to the floor, and gently let my thongs fall there too. Both of us naked, he led me upstairs. With my hand in his, he led me to the bed, He turned me to face him, as he caressed my body with his hands, then with his mouth. His mouth roamed my entire body. When he found himself on the insides of my thighs, I shuttered. He placed me on the bed on my back, and gently motioned my legs to part. I eagerly helped with that process.

He first rubbed the outside of my pussy with his fingers, enjoying the folds and the wetness. He then parted my lips and put his finger inside the honey jar. He pulled his finger out, and sucked my juices right off. "You taste good, Ray," he said with a heavy, husky voice. My nipples were standing at his attention as he placed his mouth on my pussy.

Oh the feeling. Oh my. He explored me with masterful skill. He quickly found all the buttons that made me squirm. He placed his hands on my thighs to keep me from scooting away from him. He was about to make me cum, but I had to stop him. For I knew of more pleasure that were to bestow us.

You see, my boyfriend was in the next room with his girlfriend. Joseph comes to our room and says, "it's time." Drew, my new love, looked at me puzzled and I said, "I assure you, baby, you will like what you see."

We walked into the next room very very quietly. There tied to the bed with a blindfold on was Jenny. Oh sweet Jenny. She was enjoying her own pleasures that I knew so well. Joseph had shared with me his plans for Jenny, and as promised, I didn't say a word. Why ruin a wonderful surprise?

Quietly, Drew and I walked to the bed. Simultaneously, Joseph, Drew, and I all started caressing her. She jumped, but only a second. She didn't expect to feel six hands caressing her body; enjoying her breasts, her nipples ... who's kisses are those? Who's tongue do I feel? Only the three of us knew.

As Drew and I were taking care of Jenny's beautiful breasts, Joseph leans in and pushes his erection in her wet, tight pussy. Jenny gasps. She has no control over what her lovers are doing to her body. She arches her back with complete ecstasy, as she cums all over Joseph's cock. He can't hold back any longer. Her body feels too good to him ... sweet creamy pussy is more than any man can stand. He cums. Drew removes her blindfold and I untie her hands. She blinks, adjusting to the light as she sees her three lovers ... her lovers who have satisfied her in a way that she has craved for a long time.

Drew lays me down and fucks me hard ... the sight of seeing Joseph fuck Jenny was more than he could take. Every thrust he made was incredible and intense. He rubbed my insides in such the right way ... before I knew it, everyone in the room knew I was cumming -- oh how hard I came. I arched my back and released ... and a second later, Drew was cumming too.

We looked over and Jenny and Joseph. Joseph had another hard on just watching us, Jenny was speechless. And wet. In an instant, we found ourselves in the arms of our own partners, turned on like we've never known after sharing the most precious thing to each of us ... our own lovers.

Hmm...I want to be Jenny. I have been tied up before, but not with six hands on me. That would be incredible. Thanks Abby for getting us all wet!!

WANTED: GUEST AUTHORS

I received such great feedback from Gina's blog...i want more of course. So, interested?? I hope you are because I need some guest writers. Tell me about your swinging experiences. :)

More Of My Latest Obsessions

• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- listen for yourself
• Ebay-you can find lots of cool shit here
• Pilates- sexy abs here I come
• Going braless- no wait...that's been my obsession for like 20 years LOL.
• Bright blue eyeshadow...I haven't gotten the nerve to wear it but it just looks so retro cool
• Espadrilles- OMG fabulous

Learnings...

I continue to learn about myself, Austin, and our relationship. I LOVE the fact that people have sex differently and that I get to experience the differences. For example, I enjoy my quiet playmates, the ones that end up surprising me with their choice of activities. I enjoy my more dominant playmates, the ones that are willing to take control of events ;). I enjoy the ones that love oral- giving and receiving. I love the ones that love a variety of positions. In essence, I love many things about playmates but the one thing that remains constant is the diversity. I love having the ability to explore with different people.

What a wonderful weekend...

Austin and I met a really nice couple a few months ago. Yesterday, we went up to visit them.

I knew that we would have a good time but -I didn't realize how super hot it would be. We arrived for dinner and were surprised to see a huge feast displayed for us. All along, he had been asking about my vegetarianism. I just thought he was extra curious; however, I now realize that he was planning the menu.

After dinner, we had lots of wine and chocolate. I am not usually a red wine drinker but for some reason, the wine was exceptionally good. Pretty soon, my clothes started coming off...seems to be a common occurrence these days :). To make a long story short...we had a really fun night and slept in late.

Lost Lives

There are very few times when I am at a loss for words...I usually have a lot to say whether people like it or not :). The Oklahoma City bombing, 911, Rawanda, Columbine, the Challenger disaster, and now...VA Tech. These are events that are very real to me. I watched them unfold and they became a part of my life history. There aren't really any words, only a mass of jumbled emotions.

More About Me...Because, As Sam Would Say- "It's All About Me"

I am an easy person to like because...

• I am somewhat animated (good entertainment value I suppose)
• Fun, Fun, Fun, and did I say fun?
• I value friendship
• I am laidback
• I am not a Judger
• I am a positive person
• I love to smile...make me smile and you will be smiling, too
• I am a genuine person
• I am very low maintenance

I am a hard person to like because...

• I am frivolous (who posts a link to their body products line on their blog?)
• I am a germ-a-phobe
• I am a hypochondriac
• I do not have a good conceptualization of time (if I am on time, the universe is out of alignment)
• I love my animals more than I like most vanilla people
• I am not "kid friendly"
• I have very few friends so if I say I like you, I truly like and respect you
• I am directionally-challenged

My Latest Obsessions

• Waxing- playmates, can I get an AMEN?
• Fall Out Boy- just creative lyrics...who talks about an arms race with such humor?
• Bones- you know, the socially inept scientist...no wait, that's me
• The Skeptic's Guide to the Universe Podcast- love it love it...great critical thinking
• My teeth-my parents were right when they said that straight teeth would make me feel better...almost done with braces
• Austin's hair- i love it
• John Mayer or is it Meyer?- such a sexy dude
• Zumba- a truly incredible workout...who wouldn't love a workout with a "spank that ass" move
• lip gloss- smooth kissable lips...with flavor
• glitter eyeliner- shiny, happy things excite me
• cute flats- as a self proclaimed shoe-a-holic I am finally moving away from heels.

My First Guest Author...

I am so excited...I have my first guest blogger, Gina. Gina provided the following post. Perhaps she will be a regular contributor. Come to think of it...I wonder if I can convince Blake, Sam, or Yancey to be a guest blogger...hmmm. It would be interesting to have a guest blogger. Enjoy.

Spoiling My Beloved "Blake"

As you can see from the pictures of our FMF, our dear author and I enjoyed making Blake the center of attention.

An aside: I can't keep referring to her as "Dear Author", and she's conveniently never given herself a pseudonym. I'll call her Diana, after the Greek goddess of the moon. She'll like that.

What guy wouldn't like having two women to himself for an evening? Not many. I'm not into women sexually, but I enjoy seeing Blake happy. I also enjoy seeing him with Diana. They are into each other, and the sight of them together is so erotic.

Seeing your loved one get excited from a new perspective, and seeing a beautiful and intelligent woman get turned on by being with him, is really hot for me...this was one of the biggest surprises about swinging. With Diana in particular, the obvious contrast in their skin color is a huge turn-on. Then there are their smiles, their moans... and Diana is blessed with the ability to have orgasms at the drop of a hat.

We started in the living room with some wine, where Blake took the picture of Diana on our loveseat. We moved into the bedroom, where Blake put the camera on a bookshelf and set it up to take a picture once every minute. Then we all kissed, caressed, sucked and nibbled each other standing up.

After a few minutes of that, Diana and I laid Blake out on the bed and went to serious work on him. Diana slowly crawled up his body until she was sitting on his face, while I went down on him. Later, he got to go from one of us to the other at will, with both of us looking up at him adoringly. Lots of other fun things happened, but a play-by-play description isn't what I'm after here.

A good time was had by all, and all were in harmony. I had a smile on my face the whole time, seeing how happy my beloved was... and also knowing I'd get to be the center of attention soon, between him and the amazing Austin.

Photo Album is Working

My photo album is finally working. Please take a look and tell me what you think.

Two turn tables and a microphone...or two more threesomes and a six-way!

This week has been very busy for Austin and me. Austin surprised me by setting up a threesome with Sam. A recap...Austin text messaged me and said that we were having a threesome. Cool. As usual, it was pretty damn amazing. Thanks to Yancey for letting Sam come over!!

The next day, Austin had a threesome with Blake and Gina. They did not take any pictures... how disappointing. But...they did share some of the juicy details. Of course, the "happenings" are too tantalizing to share on this site. LOL

Then, this weekend, we had our orgy. Ok, it wasn't a true orgy, but it was a bonafide six-way. It was phenomenal. We met at the host's house and the six of us piled into two cars to have dinner. We were so hungry!

Dinner was good. We had light flirting between courses; tiny kisses and leg squeezes under the table. :). We finally went back to our host's house and had some tequila. I have always been told to avoid tequila at all costs. I also don't like "hard core" drinks. Anyway, I decided to partake and actually did three shots (not consecutively of course).

So, we were all feeling pretty nice and the festivities began...we played a sex game that got everyone in the mood. A few minutes into the game, moaning started to emerge...I can only say that this experience has really spoiled me. Damn, I wish I had some pictures to post.

I am pretty exhausted right now- those folks wore me out in so many ways. I am tired but I have such yummy memories.

Photo album is not working...

My photo album is not working...Sorry. I am going to try and fix it this week. Stop the tears...as Sam would say...It's all about me :).

OUTED...YIPES!!

We had a great time at our party. Everyone behaved him or herself :). Vanilla and non-vanilla interacted harmoniously. The vanilla folks did not know that non-vanillas were even present. All was right with the world untill...

A friend, the only vanilla person that knew, told his mother about us. YIPES!!! He said he did it because his mother "noticed" something odd between us and another couple (Gina and Blake to be specific) and started asking a lot of questions. Hmmm...not sure if I believe that. She also started asking how we knew certain people. According to our friend, his mother thought there were at least three swinging couples there. Hmmm....interesting.

Austin and I are annoyed because he not only outed us, but our friends as well (by association). We have known him for over ten years and have seen him weather some pretty difficult times. I am saddened that he would disclose this. AN aside...we thought very long about disclosing this information to him.

By the way, I asked him why his mother had her "swingdar on." Seems like it takes one to know one. He didn't like that comment at all.

Amanda and Burke!!!

Our friends, the other couple are Amanda and Burke. I sometimes forget my pseudonyms. LOL...

More Pics of a Different MFM...

Austin and Blake had Gina in a brief MFM situation. I snapped a few pics...Austin, Gina, and Blake are having a threesome this week and I am definitely sending my camera with Austin.

A party, a threesome, and more craziness!!

First, I apologize for the delay in my posts. Austin and I had an internet problem and finally got it resolved yesterday. So, I have lots of news to discuss.

Austin was out of town so I went to visit Gina and Blake and had a little threesome fun with them. this picture is before the action began. Blake snapped this picture as I relaxed with a glass of wine.
We moved to the bedroom and the three of us began enjoying each other. There were many things going on and I absolutely loved it. Afterwards, we were so tired and completely spent. I really have to admit that it was absolutely incredible. Austin and I also had a party...and guess what...we had about 20 people and three of the couples were swingers (not including Austin and me)! This was our first time mixing vanilla and non-vanilla friends. of course, the vanilla couples did not know that swingers were present...wouldn't want to emotionally scar anyone. By the way, Blake and Gina and Sam and Yancy were present along with another couple (I can't remember their pseudonym). It was an uber fun time!!

We are going to a swinger meet-and-greet in TN this summer. I guess we are becoming less like "newbies" and more like "old timers." We aren't going alone...we are going with another couple...LOL

Visiting with Sam

Sam came over last Sunday to visit. All I am going to say is that it was very very fun. Austin was helping a friend all day and said that I could invite Sam over to visit if I wanted. So, I did. This was the first time that I played with someone on my own...besides my couple. It was quite fun. I really think that Sam and Yancey are fantastic and was really happy to have this experience.

Next week Austin is going out of town and I am going to spend the night with Gina and Blake. I am pretty excited about seeing them. BTW...Seems like Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey may like each other after all. I have to just wait and see what unfolds.

Regarding pictures...I am still not feeling like taking any. However, I really need some new pictures. I am just not motivated at this time. Any ideas???

Another update with no pics

I haven't taken any new pics lately. For some reasaon, I have been having a "my body needs some work" week. Every now and then I get in this mood where I just don't feel all that great about my body. Of course Austin tries to remedy this by giving me compliments. However, I always tell him that he is biased.

Blake, Gina, Yancey, and Sam met each other on Thursday. I think it went well. I haven't asked any of the parties how they felt about the meeting. Honestly, I am not sure I want the answer :).

One thing Austin and I talked about was PDA...no not my palm pilot or pocket pc. Personal Display of Affection. Austin is a lot more affectionate than me. He likes to cuddle and kiss and all of that other "mushy" stuff. I am not overly demonstrative with my affections. I hold hands in public and may give a few pecks, but any more would be excessive. Austin is much more affectionate, even with our play partners. I must admit, its funny seeing your life partner in public with another woman while thinking "get a room." LOL. Gina is a cuddle kissy bunny as well and when they get together...Anyhow, we had a very interesting conversation.

Austin really holds back with me; I know this. One thing he likes about swinging is that he gets an opportunity to be with someone who enjoys that type of affection.

After dinner, I was able to finally give Austin his holiday gift. Gina and I enjoyed Austin for a threesome. :) Austin is still thanking me.

Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey are having dinner with Austin and I at the end of this week. I am really looking forward to them meeting each other. At first, Austin and I were afraid to have everyone meet. What if they don't like each other? But then we figured...hey, we are all adults. If they like each other...that opens up the possibility of an orgy (ok...three couples or more is an orgy). But...if they don't, well, we can all handle it.

I just finished chatting with Bridgett and Jude. They are definitely sexy. Gina and Blake have played with them and Austin and I have as well so perhaps...oh, I am getting too excited thinking about the possibilities. I'd better "contain that nuclear reaction." he he...get it???

By the way, Austin and I saw Black Snake Moan. It was really good. There were multiple themes but I think the two big ones were pervasive throughout the entire movie. The first one was an interesting and complex analysis of the "brother's keeper" argument. Specifically, where does ones responsibility to others and society begin and end. The second one was a look at the consequences of child sex abuse.

Samuel Jackson is a deeply religious yet, somewhat angry ex-blues player who needs a purpose in his life. He finds this purpose when a very "drugged out" Christina Ricci falls on his doorstep. He believes that her appearance is "divine" and will help him gain something that he has lost. Jackson will "not be moved" in his quest to force Ricci to get her life "right." However, he eventually comes to the conclusion that he can't save her...she must do that herself.

Ricci is excellent as a trashy southern "fuck 'em all" girl. A survivor of sexual abuse, Ricci goes through life having "fits" until she is satisfied with a penis. She continuously has flashbacks; her mother knew about the abuse but did nothing to stop it. In a way, each flashback validates her worthlessness.

Why did I spend time discussing this movie? Because I was deeply moved by certain parts of it. This is the story of people who try to find meaning in their existence and understand their connection to others around them. Ricci uses sex to connect her to others; Jackson uses music. Jackson is the dogmatic hero that is only able to save Ricci when he releases his hold on her. IN other words, he finally understands that letting go is more important than holding on. That symbolism is touching to me.

Exhausted

I am so exhausted today. Of course I want to blame it on the time change like everyone else. But...honestly I am just feeling a tad off-center today. I think playing is a really intense experience and it probably takes a second for me to refocus.

Oh, before I forget, Gina, Blake, Sam, and Yancey are going to meet this week. This is exciting and scary for me. There are a million end results but only one that will actually happen. Hopefully the end result will be good.

Update on Amanda And Burke

Remember Amanda and Burke? The "non vanilla" couple that we hang out with in a "vanilla" way? Well, we had a fun time hanging out with them a week ago. Anyway, I think they have converted a couple to the non vanilla life. Very exciting I must say.

Ok, this is important to say. swingers do not go around trying to convert couples. It just so happens that this couple was a "wanna be" but didn't know any swingers. Once they found some, they quickly revealed their true side. LOL

Life -Versus- the Lifestyle

We met with Yancey and Sam on Friday. Yancey knows every artistic person in our city and we went to an art showing for one of her friends. While we were there, we got a chance to watch the master social butterfly in action. Yancey was totally working the room. She would see someone and float over to chat...she was really alive.

I am not the soical butterfly...people usually think I am a lot more outgoing than I am. Yes, I love being the center of attention, but that doesn't make me a social butterfly. In fact, I am a lot more introverted than people think.

After the art show, we went to this cute little wine bar for a drink. I had a delicious hot chocolate. Austin had wine of course.

Sam and Yancey are really fun and I think it is wonderful that we can have a completely vanilla evening and truly enjoy each other. Well, who knows what thoughts we had during the evening :). You know they are "flexible" LOL.

We played with Blake and Gina last weekend and our new friends, Bridgett and Jude. We met Bridgett and Jude at the house party a few weeks ago. They were the couple that sent us an email after the party. Actually, we have had several couples send us emails but they were the ones that we really wanted to connect with.

Bridgett and Jude are very sexy. Bridgett reminds me of Andie McDowell. She has this incredible face and short dark hair. She has an incredible body and very cute feet. Jude reminds me of an older "bad boy" Johnny Depp. He has these wonderfully sexy eyes and while we were having sex, he kept his attention focused on me. You know I LOVE attention!! He was extremely honest about what he wanted and I totally appreciated that. OMG he has this wonderful and very intense expression...very sexy.

Jude directed for a while and had Bridgett, Austin and me in a very sexy pose. Austin was on his back, I was on top of Austin facing away...we were having sex and in front of me licking my clit. Ok, I usually am not this vocal about the things that we do...but it was a really cool position so I had to share. Sorry if I offended or excited you.

Life Versus the Lifestyle. We identify as being part of the "lifestyle" but what the hell does that mean?? And...when does swinging become your "life?" There was a time when we had a dry spell; we went to parties but did not play with anyone. Swinging definitely wasn't our life. Now it feels like we are constantly on the go and I am somewhat conflicted. I LOVE our circle of friends. I enjoy having sex with our playmates and feeling the accompanying closeness.

But... I also want to keep our "circle of port" small. I don't want to "live the lifestyle." I don't want to be one of those people that is always on the lookout for partners. I want swinging to continue to complement our life- not become it.

ON the other hand...shouldn't I just feel comfortable being the little freak that I am? As long as Austin and I are having fun...shouldn't we just keep doing what we are doing? Yeah...I'm convinced :).

Upcoming Event...

We have visitors coming to see us this weekend.

Weekend Summary

So, we had a port filled weekend. We saw Gina and Blake and had a great time with them. They are such a nice couple. Although, I am very tired right now.

I ended up taking a few hot pics of Blake, Austin, and Gina. I bet these pics spur an MFM among the three of them. Of course, they would have to take pics for me or I would be very upset :).

Anyway, we were recontacted by a very nice couple that sent us an email a while ago. At the time, we could not meet anyone. We were swamped with a few things. However, we have decided to go and meet them.

Austin chatted with the guy for a while. This is unusual because Austin is not a chatter. In fact, he only chats with Gina with any regularity. So...in a few weeks we will be meeting Tom and Connie. I think we are going there but I am not sure...I am letting Austin do all of the scheduling from now on. He thinks that I am not direct enough with people.

By the way, the wonderful thing about waxing is that I have discovered that I have a sensitive side. Wonder how I can use this knowledge for good instead of evil.

Weekend Plans

We may be seeing Austin and Gina tomorrow. We are not sure if we will drive to see them or if they will visit us. We also have plans with a very very sexy couple that we met last week at the house party. They are both very yummy and Austin and I are really looking forward to hanging out with them.

We had a photoshoot...this time the theme was pink. This is an outfit that Austin picked out. I think he did an excellent job. Look...my boobs appear much larger in this top. LOL

Trust in a swing relationship

Trust is extremely important in a swing relationship. You trust that your swing partners are being honest about their HIV and other STD status. You trust that they will not bring drama into your lives. You trust that they will not try to destroy your love relationship. Trust is paramount.

So when you find out that someone has broken that trust...it is disappointing. A close member of our "circle of port" discovered that another friend was dishonest. Fortunately, it wasn't about any of the aforementioned things. Nevertheless, it was a breach of trust and not to be ignored.

VANILLA FRIENDS

Remember... Friday we went to a gathering with old friends (Amanda and Burke). They are "non-vanilla" but the four of us are vanilla friends (although, I would love to be "non-vanilla" with them). They are so hot.

The evening was a lot of fun. Burke makes fabulous drinks. He made a candy apple martini that was sinful. Burke is very much a gentleman- on the outside anyway. WINK. Amanda is funny and social and very welcoming.

We also met another couple. Burke told me that they were vanilla but I swear they gave off swinger vibes. :). Austin agreed with me as well. Anyway, Austin and I are still perfecting our "Swingdar."

So this weekend was exhausting but fun.

Hot weekend update

We had a delicious time at the house party. I am going to give you a very brief recap of events.

Austin and I arrived at our friend's house around 6. Austin told me that we had to leave our house at 3:00. I was tired from the night before so I decided to take a quick nap. At 2:30 I woke up and started to shower and pack. At 3:30 I was almost ready to go. Of course Austin knows me too well and "padded" the time. We left our house around 4:00. Don't know why I started with that...

Anyway, we got to our friend's house at 5-something (I am going to let you guess which friends we went with). Anyway, we got dressed at their house; I decided to wear a black corset top and black pants. Austin said that I looked really hot.

We got to the party early to help Tam and Craig. Tam and Craig were the hosts and they were the warmest people. Craig instantly made us feel like we had been friends for a long time. He was so genuine I had to wonder if he was "for real." Tam appeared a little later wearing these fabulous "fuck me and then have pie" shoes. She was gracious and I could tell she did a good job balancing her "sexy, slutty, swinger persona" with the "good wife and mother" role. In other words, I could tell that she KNEW how to have fun.

Couples started arriving and there were some hot prospects. The funny thing is that our friends and I were attracted to the same couples. A Six-way anyone?? Hell, an orgy anyone?? I think these could be definite future possibilities.

The hosts were friends with our friends and we wondered if that would be awkward. We didn't want our friends to feel like they had to sensor their sexiness just because we were there. In fact, I thought it was totally hot watching everyone flirt. Of course our friends are wonderful and there weren't any awkward moments. In fact, it was so hot watching everyone flirt (I had to write that twice).

I was with my friend and he and I were having a fun time saying hello to each other. Suddenly , we realized that our spouses had disappeared. Oh where oh where has my Austin gone? A while later, I saw him sauntering downstairs with one of our friends...hmmm....wonder what scandalous behavior had occurred. It was so hot. Although, I really wanted to engage in some scandalous behavior of my own.

By the way, Austin makes great daiquiris...I think he was trying to get me drunk.

We left the party and went back to our friends' house. I am not going to tell you want happened but I will tell you this- As I write this I have a huge smile on my face. I am also exhausted and a tad sore :). Ok...I will also tell you this- he knows how to work it and push all of the right buttons.

So, our first house party was so much fun. I hope we get invited to more parties. Our friends truly are fabulous and we think the absolute world of them.

BTW: The couple that we liked actually emailed us. Seems like they are up to a private meeting...hmmm.

Dinner with friends

Austin and I are having dinner with a couple that we met last summer. They are non vanilla, but this will be a vanilla meeting. They are both into wine and we will probably have a few glasses. Austin and I have really limited our social activities. It just seems like so many things have occupied our time. It is nice to anticipate events with people. Even if playing isn't involved. Although, I am definitely looking forward to playing on Saturday.

House Party

Austin and I have been invited to our first house party. We have wanted to go to a house party for a while but have never had the opportunity. Its not that we haven't been invited. WE have been, we just (a) weren't interested in the other couples that invited us and (b) had other plans. So, this will be a new adventure for us.

We are going with some friends. You know them if you have kept up with my blog. :) They are very sexy and it will be so fun watching them at the party. Of course I am not sure what I will wear...I am hoping to find something tomorrow.

Naughty Naughty Thoughts

We had a vanilla date with Sam and Yancey today. Of course, I had to spend some of the time having really naughty thoughts. We were sitting near the bathroom and it was pretty empty in the restaurant. What would have happened if three of us had to go to the bathroom at the same time?? Anyhow...in my fantasy, the bathroom is 100% free of germs. LOL--- Yes, I am a germ-a-phobe. So, I guess I am just craving certain things lol!!!

I also chatted with Gina today. It is so refreshing to be able to have intelligent conversations with people that you play with. We had a really fun time last weekend. The only thing we forgot was to take pictures. Also, we discovered that we both went on a date with the same couple. What are the odds? Well, I guess the odds could be high considering it is a pretty small swinger community.

Oh by the way, Austin and I had a very wild time on Friday night. He was out of town this week and we actually IMed with each other. Yes, we had what I like to call "sexy chat." So, when we finally saw each other, it was pretty exciting. All I can say is that our wild night involved multiple props and toys and...much wetness. That is all I will disclose about that. Austin took pics and I may post a few...perhaps.

Cool Weekend

We had a very fun and interesting weekend. Blake and Gina came to visit and ended up staying the night. Much port was had by all...mmmm! I ended up missing my workout :).

HIV testing over the years

So...I just had a battery of tests done as part of my exam. The first time I had an HIV test done was over a decade ago. I had just gotten my first tattoo and was feeling pretty paranoid. It took a long time for the results to come back (a couple of weeks). And...you had to get the results in person. The nurse called me into a little office and talked to me about my results. It was a scary process.

This time, my results came back in less than 24 hours. The nurse called me on the phone, asked for my birthdate and social security number and then gave me the results. That was it. She said "negative" asked if I felt ok and then hung up. No big deal.

I mention this because HIV testing has changed drastically over the years. I think everyone should get tested for all STDs...even those at low risk. It is important to know the truth.

This Weekend Forecast Yummy

This weekend should be very tasty. We are going to spend some quality time with friends, Gina and Blake. Just to recap...Gina and Blake are the first couple that we played with in separate rooms. So...you know that we have to have a strong level of trust between the four of us. I am hoping that we can work the threesome thing into activities this week...but if not, that's fine. :)

I have been listening to a cool podcast called sex is fun. I found it through itunes. It rocks...check it out if you get a chance.

I also finally have a cam. I haven't hooked it up yet and to be honest, I am not sure how I will use it. I have to give it some thought. Any thoughts????

My Obsessions- At this Moment (excluding Austin and my 4-legged babies)

1. bondage pics of myself
2. a flat tummy (although I feel like I am loosing the battle)
3. Teddy Geiger- OMG...I am so embarassed because he is like 19 and such a boy toy!
4. pink, pink, and more pink (but what's new)
5. Podcasts...I just discovered this venue!
6. Panic! At the Disco- they rock
7. Austin with longer hair...I am a HUGE fan of the bald head look but it is great to see him with his beautiful hair
8. Radio Acoustic IO
9. My new IPod
10. Damien Rice
11. You can't always get what you want...why don't they have the acoustic version on ITunes?

More Photoshoot 2 Pics

More pictures of my last photoshoot.